Singles & Dating - 23 October 2006

Im twenty, and well I have had a problem with sex since I started engaging. I physically can have sex, and have no problems gettin horny or wet, but when it comes to actually havin sex, it is not a great experience. And its not the guys, but for me its very mechanical. I get no pleasure from it, but it does not hurt or anything either. So, I talked to a therapists and we explores some possible some reasons why, there were some issues in my childhood(i wasnt raped or anything like that), but now that I know why, I dont know how to fix the problem. I cant very well go and have sex with just some random guy to see if my problem is fixed now that I know the underlying cause, so what do I do? How do I know if i like sex now? And, if I dont, what are the odds of me have a healthy relationship, or any relationship at all, if I dont have sex, at all?

2006-10-23 02:08:38 · 7 answers · asked by ImAGoodGirl0605 2

We had a loving relationship... we did the most romantic things.... then after one argument he states its over!!! I have tried speaking to him to get answers so i can move on... he just goes off on one saying am harassing him... My heart won't let me forget. i keep thinking id I hadn’t argued that day... I feel I have ruined my life - well he said that when we broke you ruined it for yourself you don’t get a second chance.. He was perfect everything I wanted... now what do I do??? I know his not that perfect if he is reacting like a child.., but the thing is he felt like the one my soul mate.. We met by chance. We both live in different counties. But we are in the same profession! Are parents are mates.. it just fir into place that we were made for each other… (our parents don’t know that we met)

2006-10-23 02:07:08 · 20 answers · asked by apple 1

2006-10-23 02:05:08 · 37 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4

i think that i'm my boyfriend's first girlfriend but i'm not sure, we've been going out for a mounth, and nothing has happened. not even a hug. what do I do??

2006-10-23 02:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you prefer an older or younger woman??????? Be honest.

2006-10-23 02:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2

2006-10-23 02:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by hefalump20 1

Girls keep asking" ge is married should I wait for him"? Just the other day a GIRL I told I could'nt date because I already had a girlfriend( I Lied), she proposed to be my second girlfriend. ...

2006-10-23 02:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my girlfriend the other night and we were messing around in bed. Anyway, she asked exactly how long my penis is and I said around or just over 6 inches. Then she pulls out a tape measure and starts measuring...! We've been having structural work on the house being done so it was just lying around.

She measured from the tip to the abdomen on the top and it came to 5,1 inches. I was horrified - I had always measured underneath, so it looked bigger. She took some more measurements from me sat, lead down and standing and to my horror it went below 5 inches when I was lead down and sat. So now I have massive complex about this and I haven't thought about anything else for days.

I've figured the best thing is for me to accept myself, so give me your honest opinions: would you consider that big enough for you (4.7 to 5.1 inches)?

I'm 23 and me and my girlfriend have been together for 4-5months. Before that, my experience was pretty limited.

2006-10-23 02:01:23 · 38 answers · asked by Stomach 2

2006-10-23 01:58:49 · 15 answers · asked by e_scottbritton 1

I am IN-Love with a woman who thinks I am a guy. I am a woman myself and we have been having an online relationship for a few months and as well as the phone. Last night we were talking and I said if I found out you were a guy Id still love you just to see her reaction and she kinda said the same thing. She did say she couldn't be with me because I had lied...but please note she had busted me before I showing her picture that she thought wasn't "me". I am just so in love but she is married and if she can't be with me because she is a woman she is willing to end her marriage for me as a guy but Im so confused because I don't know to tell her now or fly out to see her and tell her...Please help and please understand that I am so IN-Love with her we spend about 15000 minutes a month on the phone...what should I do??

2006-10-23 01:57:29 · 12 answers · asked by Just me 1

2006-10-23 01:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Tony 1

He said we can be together, but we can't be in love, cause he has 2 marry a woman from his town. I agreed to that, but i'm in love with him now. He likes me as he say, but he can't love me cause of his traditional background. He admits i made changes in his life too. What can i do? He will definately leave me in the future if i go on with him, i leave now, i will be devastated! Trapped! Pls help.

2006-10-23 01:49:34 · 15 answers · asked by Linda J 1

2006-10-23 01:48:00 · 13 answers · asked by markee19892008 1

I am older than my boyfriend by 15 years and my sex drive has always been high, can't get enough, but my BF will settle for about once a week, if that!! He says my sexuality intimidates him. We have been together for 2 years, and I love him because he is so sweet and kind, but I am always left frustrated because he refuses to learn anything new or use toys. He says I am perverted and won't talk about it, so what can I do to save this relationship???

2006-10-23 01:47:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been going out with my boyfriend for 1 week today and homecoming was on saturday...he couldnt go because he was in san antonio for his game... this guy that i used to have a crush on try to kss and dance with me and then he asked me to brake up with mey boyfriend for him IS IT WORTH IT??? ... the think is that he knew that i liked him lastyear but he never said anything ...HELP ME!!!

2006-10-23 01:47:39 · 4 answers · asked by jasmine!!!! 2

2006-10-23 01:44:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am friends with the ex but dont see the need to tell to be honest....

2006-10-23 01:44:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my x is fixin 2 go out wid one of my best friends or i thought she was anyway...im dont wona go back to skol cuz im afraid of what people will think and say about me... some people know how i feel right now and others dont so this may sound a lil stupid but i need some help plz sum1

2006-10-23 01:43:57 · 11 answers · asked by purecountry1492 1

their must be something wrong with me because I treat with respect

2006-10-23 01:42:47 · 19 answers · asked by William R 1

Especially if you still love him.

2006-10-23 01:37:51 · 17 answers · asked by Linda J 1

i am in relation ship from last six years wherei am physical as well this amn tells me he loves me and acts the same also but at same time he flirt with others and say that this give him refreshment for mariage he says he can get married to me once his sister get married as he is from jha community what shal i do shal i wait for him or end this relation

2006-10-23 01:33:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are your opinions..just curious!

2006-10-23 01:29:27 · 24 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1

2006-10-23 01:26:16 · 38 answers · asked by alan m 1

in a girl's point of view, how could you say you're treating your guy best friend like a boyfriend? or vice versa. i mean, how different do you treat a guy best friend from your boyfriend. thanks!

2006-10-23 01:24:45 · 5 answers · asked by *fireflies* 2

It would be our first time (we're both virgins) and I want it to be really special, but not pressure him. Any romantic ideas?

2006-10-23 01:23:48 · 36 answers · asked by jowigley 2

2006-10-23 01:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by Issheit? 1

2006-10-23 01:18:50 · 12 answers · asked by Christina 2

thanks for your input.

2006-10-23 01:18:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got this other girl's number I liked from a friend. The first day we spoke well and she was looking forward to meeting me, but now all she says when I ask her a question like, "does that mean that u are growing fond of me"? she would answer and say "maybe". plus many other straight questions. Girls what do you mean when u say "Maybe". Yes or no?

2006-10-23 01:13:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, (i'm 19 and he's 20) My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for 2 years. At first we were always happy, never fought and everything was wonderful. Problem is 2 days into the relationship i slept with my ex and didn't tell him until 10 months into the relationship. We have had lots of problems like this . I moved across the world, he's in the US and i'm in the Middle East, and he followed me here. Everything has been alright, but in two weeks he is going to be going home...
The problem is that we would never get to see each other. I mean, I love him and all but i wonder if it is at this point in life that we should just go our seperate ways. We have different ambitions, different ideas on life, and different beliefs on whats best in a relationship.
I would really miss him and it would be hard, but I need input on what other people would do given this type of situation. I know that no matter what we would always be friends, but it would be a long and hard journey.

2006-10-23 01:11:08 · 4 answers · asked by Ignorance is bliss, huh? 2