their must be something wrong with me because I treat with respect
2006-10-23 01:42:47 · 19 answers · asked by William R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, this is a difficult one. I'm a woman and I kind of know what you mean. First of all, it's always nice to be treated with respect, so never stop doing that. Sometimes, we just need to know that the man is in control. And if push comes to shove, we expect you to push back and stand your ground. If you can push us back, then if another man approaches us in an unneccessary way, you 'll stand up for us. Basically, we need to know that our man is a man and not a punk. But remember, always treat us with respect no matter what!
2006-10-23 01:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Susan F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she loves the disrespect, she may just love the man. Thinking your in love with someone makes you put up with some real awful crap, the old "love is blind" thing.
Hopefully, she gets the blinders off and comes to realize it is not love. Many people have no idea what love is.
If you respect women, then there is nothing wrong with you, if you keep getting involved with women who seem to go for the bad boy types, maybe you need to step back and look at those "reasons". Some men really seem enjoy women who make them feel insecure, or challenged all the time.
Let's face it, men and women make up the world and both can be pretty nutso!!
2006-10-23 01:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hatem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Showing respect should not amount to weakness. No one likes a weak man. A person who is not found to be a match by the woman, will be treated shabbily. May be a person who treats the woman with disrespect at least is able to convey that he is not weak. Probably this is the reason for such differential treatment. Of course, good respectful treatment from the woman may be out of her good training and may not have any thing to do with ur disrespect towards her.
2006-10-23 01:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know some people who are disrespected in their relationships but i dont think that they like it.They keep going back to those guys for some other reason than the thrill of disrespect.It could possibly be the fact that they have no self esteem and feel that they cannot get another guy to love them.It could also be the fact that he changed maybe after having kids with her and maybe he doesnt want to be in the relationship-she is staying for the kids sake.It could also be that she knows that she also doesnt respect him and thats just the way the relationship is.She could also be very needy and desparate and feels that she cannot support herself or make it on her own-he is her only source of survival.BASICALLY it could be almost anything.I was almost in a relationship like that and asked myself why does he feel entitled to treat me that way when i had none of the above problems.I put him im his place and have moved on.NOW he wants to respect me?Ha Ha!Too late and anyway....men dont really change!I hope this gives you an idea as to why.
2006-10-23 02:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, man, are you ever on a very slippery slope thinking that! Don't you know that women have looong memories? Disrespect them today, then three days from now and again next week. You might get away with it. But come the next fight, when you KNOW you have the right of it, out come her weapon: Memory...of all the disrespect you've heaped upon her. And if any of that dis'n was in public? Whoa, dude, my money goes on her, you know? No, they don't like it at all, but they know when to use the memory of it to their advantage. Remember, my friend...censor thyself else ye be cut off at the ankles by the woman you love.
2006-10-23 01:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got a crazy instinct that eyes crazy women, as nice as they may be. u probaly nid 2 re-evaluate the type of women u date, try class n' brains 4 instance.
every woman deserves respect, give it 2 em bt u cant force em 2 get it. if they dont appreciate, then u r simply 'another face in a crowd' in front of them!
lastly, they actually dont love being direspected but probably r scared of being further disrespected thus acting under intimidation.
2006-10-23 01:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a simple answers to this question: women in general will go for the "BAD BOY" of the group, smoker, drinker, fighter, someone with an edge.
I don`t think the problem is treating girls with respect, I think you are choosing the wrong sort of girls?
2006-10-23 01:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not one woman i know that likes it when a man disrespects her ! You might be dating the wrong kind of woman
2006-10-23 01:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are living with respect i don't see anything wrong with it and if the other person loves to be disrespect cause they don't have respect for themselves from the beginning - that's really something wrong with them.
2006-10-23 03:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible they could use the drama and chaos in their life because that is what they saw growing up. Perhaps they don't have enough self worth to warrant better. I guess there many be other reasons, depending on the person.
2006-10-23 01:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋