i am in relation ship from last six years wherei am physical as well this amn tells me he loves me and acts the same also but at same time he flirt with others and say that this give him refreshment for mariage he says he can get married to me once his sister get married as he is from jha community what shal i do shal i wait for him or end this relation
2006-10-23 01:33:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-23 01:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont you feel that Six years is not a small amount of time he had enjoyed you freely??I am sorry for being rude but thats what I think he has done... Get him cornered and let him tie the knot so that you can take legal action (if you want to take revenge) OR show him that you too can flirt with others - then you can see if he is really intersted in you!
2006-10-23 01:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think a person capable of flirting before his girlfriend, cannot find a sleeping partner or for that matter life partner for 6 yrs in a row.
buddy, the person should be serious about you or should be trying to use you as a spare, suppose if no one meets his desires-- he will end up with you.
Did you notice one thing, no one indeed is faring better than you in 6 yrs or else he would have left you long back.
This fellow is surely in between the devil and the deep blue sea !!
Show him you are his angel and thats it.
2006-10-23 06:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by grooovish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What this man says and what he does are two different things...he says he loves you --yet flirts with others, has an excuse for not getting married--when his sister gets married? what happens if she doesn't get married? And if and when she does, what will his next excuse be? He doesn't sound committed, be glad he's giving you all the signs NOW, and not later when it's too late.
2006-10-23 01:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't marry you until his sister gets married due to his culture or whatever, how is that his fault? Find out if his sister is getting married anytime soon and talk to him about the flirting. If he refuses to stop or says he will and doesn't, then you can dump him. Give him a chance first.
2006-10-23 01:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone out there that will treat you like a queen. Go find him. Perhaps leaving your current mate will open his eyes as to how to treat his lover. He has taken you for granite.
I do commend him for caring for his sister if she is older than he is yet I don't understand putting one's life on hold for something they cannot control.
You could try talking to him and give him the ultimatum. However, it probably will not keep him from flirting with others. Go find your perfect match.
Good Luck,
Bird Dog
2006-10-23 01:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if at this juncture before marriage he cant be loyal when u can leave him, definitely he would be more liberal after marriage because you would be reluctant to leave him.
so apna dimag lagao and
is riste se bahar aao
i think so rest u decide
how u take ur life
best of luck with whatever decision u take
2006-10-23 02:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT SETTLE FOR SECCOND BEST: I would end it, Theres someone out there who wants to show you what real love is about and not all this bullshit about waiting for his sister, if someone loves you, there are no excuses!!go find a man that deserves to be with you!!
2006-10-23 01:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by elenaki_5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just playing with you and you are going for waiting which would be an unlimited period that would never end
2006-10-23 01:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by vinay k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me honey, even the ones who commit never walk on their words.
Forget him
He is using u
2006-10-23 19:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋