I've had a crush on this girl for a while. Currently High School student. We went out to lunch 2 times (just me and her) and i made her laugh alot, even though i'm very nervious.
"Not sure about the homecomming dance, ill probably go at the last minute once i find somebody to go with. Last year homecomming wasnt as kicking. The game last year was cool. Oh just rememering the memories. I'd like to take you out to lunch again one of these day's what day is best for you?."
THe problem is i dont want to sound desprate, in the begining part, and also at the end it's like im forcing her to go. How can i reword this? Thank!
2006-10-23 18:01:55 · 8 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
instead of saying "i'll probably go at the last minute once i find someone to go with" just say something like "i'm not sure if i want to go to the dance or not besides i don't have a date yet"
and as far as the end maybe "i really have alot of fun with you so i was wondering if you wanted to go out to lunch again?"
2006-10-23 18:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, trying not to sound desperate can make you sound more desperate! Just cut the confusing stuff out about the homecoming dance and be laid back - you're just friends at this point right? So, don't get all bent out of shape emotionally - even if you do have a crush. Be a man - show confidence in a gentle manner - well - you're not quite a man yet - but you know what I mean. Just be casual - the best way not to sound desperate is to just forget the letter. Walk up and say hey - it was fun going to lunch with you last (whenever it was) - let's do that again - when are you free? Just relax, be a friend. Then, when you're at lunch say something like, what are your plans for homecoming? If she has a date or doesn't want to go with you - it will be obvious - if she says she has a date. Then, you can say, oh I went last year and it was so much fun. If she says she's not sure what her plans are or mentions possibly going with her friends or not at all - then you can say - why don't you consider going with me - I think it would be a great time! Then, wait and see what she says. I think this approach will serve you well - whether she says yes or not - your self respect and ego will remain intact - and you won't get hurt. If you write a letter and she says no or doesn't respond - that could be a bit devastating and painful don't you think?
2006-10-24 01:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can write this instead:
"hey, i really had a great time with you the last time we had lunch. i'd really like to take you out again sometime. i hope you're interested in going with me at the homecoming dance. I thnk it would be so much fun."
2006-10-24 01:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by doc T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of making it sound like a newspaper article, try adding more "tender" words, like "i can't think of anybody as worthy as you to take to homecoming." or "lunch will be perfected with your presence.". Things like that can really catch her attention and get her to like you more!
2006-10-24 01:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am a girl and that sounds good enough to me. but you may want to add this: "i WOULD like to take you out one of these days, IF YOU LIKE. what day is best to you?"
just so she feels like she has a say in this, also it doesn't sound desperate.
2006-10-24 01:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her in person instead of in a letter. I know it will probably more harder but it's better to show that your interested in her and that she's worth asking in person, instead of in a letter.
2006-10-24 01:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you have to put a message in a bottle.. Just ask her to the dance...
2006-10-24 01:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"who are you going to homecoming with?
nobody?
me neither.
would you like to?"
CHA-CHING!!!!
thank me later
(as per your letter, it sucks, trash it)
2006-10-24 01:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by QnA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋