I have been obsessed about this girl for 5 months and I have had no contact or nothing at all.. N its all I can think about all day and when I wake up I sit in bed for hours thinking of things we could do together.. I am also 14 and now on anti-depressents.
2006-10-23 17:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by 14/m/cali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not love. But it will happen someday and you'll be better for it, it may not be pretty, but it will be real. It takes two to be in love, if the other person doesn't even know you're alive it can't be love.
2006-10-23 17:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by zdmb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are clearly infatuated!!! I have a younger sister who is also 14, and I would hate to think that she would ever get to the point where she needed anti depressants. Stop thinking about her, get out of bed, and DO SOMETHING!!!! I know it seems harsh but I'm telling you this because I have 7 years on you and know what I"m talking about. I recently got out of a 4 year relationship and it was insanely hard but I got up and took control. You are still so young and there will be plenty of girls who will notice that you are there and will be lucky to have you!!
2006-10-24 01:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by cla_mancilla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not think I am being mean. You may have a mild form of Obsessive Compulsive Behavior that is causing you to obsess over this girl. I`m not saying that you do not have feelings for her, but you should not be feeling miserable because you are thinking of her all the time. You should discuss this with the doctor who prescribed the anti-depressants. The medication could be also part of the problem and may need to be changed to something else.
2006-10-24 00:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation and you mentioned obsession. Could be both. Just take it easy and talk to the girl. You'll feel better once you do.
2006-10-24 00:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by biochick11220 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatuation. Talk to him. Maybe you have nothing in common.
2006-10-24 00:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by shawnzmojo102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you do'nt have obcessive compulsive disorder?
You can't make one person your fantasy person and that is what it is at your age. REality and fanatsy often don't match each other.
You are very young and although you have powerful feelings......you will have many more women in your life that attract you.
2006-10-24 01:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatuation
2006-10-24 00:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatuation
2006-10-24 00:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by clea_duvall_fan@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the reason why I will never have children.
2006-10-24 00:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋