I dated a guy for over 2 months and suddenly we just stopped talking... I had finally gotten him out of my mind and out of no where I can't stop thinking of him :( I don't know if I should contact him or just let it go...
One friend says NO cuz he says a friend of his saw him at a club with a girl and they looked more than friends so that it means he doesn't think of me... another friend says I should contact him cuz I could be letting something good go...
I don't know what to do. I'm TORN! I'm scared to get hurt because I don't think I can handle it....
2006-10-23 17:45:19 · 25 answers · asked by free_martha85 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah....
2006-10-23 17:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no at first.
Go to a club or party and meet some guys first. If after flirting with other guys and you still think of him then call him.
Because if he suddenly stopped talking to you then he is PROBABLY not interested in you anymore.
If he's good then he wouldn't just stop talking to you. If you guys are meant to be then you will be together.
2006-10-23 17:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by bluecymbals04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD LET IT GO BECAUSE IF YOU TWO JUST STOP SPEAKING THERE WAS A PROBLEM THERE AND BECAUSE IT WAS NOT ADDRESS I SAY LEAVE IT ALONE PEOPLE HOLD THINGS AGAINST YOU AND KEEP FEELING INSIDE ALOT YOUR NOT LOOKING TOO GET HURT SO JUST MOVE ON AND MY OPINION I WOULD SAY IF HE DIDN'T CALL EVEN HE LOST INTEREST OR FOUND SOMEONE ELSE DONT KNOW HOW MUCH TIME YOU GUYS SPENT TOGETHER BUT TIME TOGETHER IS VERY IMPORTANT
2006-10-23 18:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTIN C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up suddenly without any reason ? so my suggestion to you : this relationship was based on nothing ,,, there was probably no love or enough love to keep the relationship strong ,,, Now it is worthless to waste your time and energy for him.He has probably moved on and if he had any interests for you he would come back to you himself.Try not to think about him anymore .This is going to hurt your feelings if you don't stop thinking about a guy who does not even care about you.Be honest with yourself.
2006-10-23 18:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi! I honestly have sixty 8 contacts. they're all great and that i like all of them indivualy, I take my time to %. contacts, if I upload them then they're somehting speacial, have stable questions or have been spectacular ot me. I honestly have some blocked pals who've been nasty, sent me emails i did no longer like ect. i know the two know my contacts, am prepared on them, theya re prepared on me, or I honestly have emailed them. each touch has been great so some distance, i could so like o meet them in individual, becuase in the event that they may be this actual and vibrant on line, i'm no longer able to think of what they're like in individual. x
2016-11-25 01:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i think it all depends, how serious were you- who stopped talking to who- and just how long has it been? if the answers are-very-me-and less than a month- go for it - If the answers are different still go for it to satisfy your curiosity but don't get your hopes up- pain is often the price of the game-but it's still worth playing!
2006-10-23 18:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by mistshevious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be a guy who knows what he's doing with his love interests. Think about it: if he wanted to see you, he'd contact you. Don't take it personally, you probably not what he was after at this point in his life. Don't sweat people that don't sweat you :-)
2006-10-23 18:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by mjfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling, suddenly... bam! you start thinking of that person. I think you should contact him, I think as we move on, our needs change and perhaps there was something there that you didnt realize you liked so much.
2006-10-23 17:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by CDog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose? Let him decide if he wants to continue a relationship with you after you contact him. It's your move to make.
2006-10-23 17:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt tried 2 get a hold of u & is possibly seeing another woman , then u should move on
2006-10-23 18:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by dude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes do it. Just 2 b nosy & see whats going on in his life & go from there.
2006-10-23 17:49:56 · answer #11 · answered by jfont 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋