Singles & Dating - 23 October 2006

She said that she is intrigued by me & that the best thing would be for me to be her friend right now. i see her almost everyday and she calls me or i'll call her sometimes. we hang out and talk a lot. her ex broke up with her recently after a five year relationship and he is also trying to go out with her, but when he found out about the kissing between me and her he went insane. she says that she still loves him, but doesn't know how much longer she'll put up with his attitude & makes excuses for him. i don't know what she sees in him. he's definitely way uglier than me and more immature. now, that she isn't with him she has no friends at college except me and her ex is back home so i feel like i'm the only one she can count on. if i left her now she would think that i was only after one thing. she said that she would understand if i didn't want to be her friend when i explained how much the situation sucks. sometimes i feel like if i took more action i might win her over

2006-10-23 21:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The questions are coming in very slow..................
Am I the only one who can't sleep?
What must we do?
mandy

2006-10-23 21:11:43 · 17 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4

we've been friends for only a few months and just started hanging out. she recently broke up with her boyfriend (a stoner, jobless, doesn't go to school, etc) and since then i feel as if we've gotten a lot closer. i'm not really sure how they even got together. she's the complete opposite of him (i know opposites attract and all that blah blah blah.) i know she still has lots of feelings for him, but sometimes i feel a spark between us. she's semi-fragile right now, and i don't want to take advantage of her situation. what would be a good thing to do at this point? so far, i've just been there to help her through her troubles. i would just tell her how i feel, but i'm not sure if now is the right time. should i just wait for awhile? or is there something else i can do?

2006-10-23 21:08:58 · 10 answers · asked by A L E X 3

my ex-boyfriend calls me every two weeks to see how im doing...says he just wants to be friends. is that excessive and is he hiding feelings he still has?

2006-10-23 21:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by Janie 1

2006-10-23 21:03:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-23 20:53:37 · 36 answers · asked by aclazo979 1

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I have graduated college and even have a great job. Why hasn't he asked me to marry him yet? And if he doesn't want to commit is he leading me on? I am ready for the next step in our relationship.

2006-10-23 20:51:16 · 14 answers · asked by Confused 1

2006-10-23 20:42:55 · 11 answers · asked by suresh 1

My girlfriend and I broke up about 2 montshs ago , and theres a dance coming up. I've only ben talking to her recently on msn, and just smiling at her at school. Should i ask her to dance durring the dance?

2006-10-23 20:37:16 · 16 answers · asked by david edwards 2

2006-10-23 20:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-23 20:29:46 · 15 answers · asked by isabella 1

2006-10-23 20:29:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please Read the lyrics and watch the video. Tell me what you hear in the song. What it means to you. Also, what do you think about what the girl says? Is she being Sarcastic or is she serious about loathing him and wanting to leave it all behind.

The Lyrics:
http://www.lyricsdomain.com/4/damien_rice/the_blowers_daughter.html

The Video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ThuXEDvCZk


I would really appriciate your help. This song deals with something that is affecting my life right now.

Thanks alot.

2006-10-23 20:27:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats the safest and quickest way to "please "my ladie???

2006-10-23 20:27:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am dating a girl long distanc e and havnt seen her in a long time cos of money constraints we havnt got it together yet and we have hardly kissed, even though i asked if i could we been dating for ages, i have heard she is very sexual but it doesnt seem to be the case with me, i am worried she might just be seeuing other people if i ask she says i should just trust, she never asks me and says she has total trust am i just worrying or am i being played

2006-10-23 20:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by mikealedmonds 1

2006-10-23 20:23:36 · 4 answers · asked by sanawarian_uday 1

Well, i have a much stronger need for sex than my gf. I would be content with every other day if not daily, she would be content with 1 or 2 times a week. It leaves me feeling a bit unfulfilled and undesired. What can i do. Ive already told her my desires..hasnt helped.

2006-10-23 20:21:42 · 14 answers · asked by 2nice 1

okay I'm not really looking for advice but for an answer if somebody might be able to provide one, the story goes like this, I met this girl and she seemed terrific, everything a guy could possibly ever want, pretty, great personality, always happy etc. well I found out that ever since I asked her out she's been lieying about what she says to me (wich would be stuff like I'm falling in love with you etc.) and dating another guy, so I got played and cheated on, major ouch! but I was wondering if anybody might have an answer as to why some girl who I never did anything wrong to would pretend to be somebody that she isnt?

2006-10-23 20:21:21 · 13 answers · asked by Joey M 2

well, this guy that i like...i sent my first message y'day evening...a short on-liner wishing him for the tests...for which he responded in a similar way almost 5 hrs later... in the nite. I think I got too excited and messaged him back a goodnite an hr later for which he did not respond......i didnt see him at school today (I am a 22 yr old)..and not really sure wats going on.....i am sure he likes me...but i learnt from a common friend that he has a galfriend...not really sure how good their relationship is...i have never seen hiom with her anytime......pplz help...

2006-10-23 20:20:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

is that good or bad?

2006-10-23 20:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by balla 1

She's always on my mind. We had something and she did like me and I liked her back and all the sudden she likes some other guy and they start dating. I feel betrayed but I know I shouldnt.

It's been a while and I cant get over her. I'm trying to point out bad things about her and just tell myself she isnt interested but *sigh* its just not working.

2006-10-23 20:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by greener 1

2006-10-23 20:15:12 · 27 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1

in these past 2 weeks
there are about 4-5 girls confessing their love 2 me
I couldn't believe it never happened to me like this
I know there's something in me that's changed
but I couldn't come up of it
I'm tryin to get rid of this

what do you think that could have an effect to girls that fast

...only thing I notice is
my english is getting was bad those days cuz I was watchin A Lot of Jp show and my hair is gettin longer TTwTT

2006-10-23 20:11:12 · 3 answers · asked by Obi 2

My fiance and I have been together for two years and engaged for the past year. Things were going great until he brought up his ex. And ever since then we always end up in an argument about is ex. He e-mails his ex constintaly and he always tells me when she e-mails him back and what she had to say. Then he will go off about how much he hates her and how badly she treated him when they were together. I feel like I am competing with his ex for his all (mind, body, heart & soul). Am I just stupid to ignore this? Is he still hung up on this women? What should I do? He tells me that he loves me with all his heart and soul and that I am his angel. But when he starts talking about his ex I start to wonder. I love this man with all my heart and soul. But right now I am so lost and confused. Can someone please give me some advice?

2006-10-23 19:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by Angel24 1

Do you find this weird? A girl who is already 20 years old, has okay looks, an easy-going personality, but never had a boyfriend, or even went out on a date before.
What do you think the reasons could be?

2006-10-23 19:52:41 · 8 answers · asked by MyDestiny 2

Ok, my BF and I broke up. Well, he came up to me and said I was moving on too quickly after the break up. Well, I waited a whole 5 minutes after we broke up to hit on another guy. And he was like hella cute. What was I supposed to do? Wait a whole hour? Well, by that time, all the good pieces are taken for the night. I can't go get drunk without picking up a great piece of @ss to take home and treat like meat. Why is he so mad?

2006-10-23 19:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by Social_D 4

He knows I am single. He is single also. We spend alot of time texting. When we get too close he pulls back, but he does this with everybody. I am a little older than him, I am white he is black, I have never met anyone like him, but I don't know if he is even attracted to me. I am wealthy, he is not poor, but he still has to work to pay his bills, he is also housing his mother, she is lovely.

2006-10-23 19:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by motogirl 3

My BF is a Muslim but today he wants to marry a muslim girl just coz he loves his parents very much.
Previosly it was never an issue but today when I have left everything for him , he left me.
Is it a crime/sin to marry a non-muslim???

2006-10-23 19:44:16 · 30 answers · asked by Sarah 1

its onli on a few occasions if its about other guys

2006-10-23 19:41:47 · 13 answers · asked by jessie 1

woke 1 day and said he doesn't want any relationships. i left and have found out all his family and a couple of his closest friends abused him and said you just lost the best thing and they stopped talk in to him for over a month. since i lest nearly 2 months ago he has been drinking he says its cause he is hurting, he says he doesn't have what he wants cause then he wouldn't need what i gave him and he calls me every 2-3 days like 3 times a day and he wanted me to see him when i could and i let him know i would be down soon and then i went down and he got up me cause i didn't tell him i was going down and he says we are good friends but he was hiding from me and would only talk to me via text when he could handle it. any guys or girls got any ideas

2006-10-23 19:41:11 · 4 answers · asked by tab j 1