i am dating a girl long distanc e and havnt seen her in a long time cos of money constraints we havnt got it together yet and we have hardly kissed, even though i asked if i could we been dating for ages, i have heard she is very sexual but it doesnt seem to be the case with me, i am worried she might just be seeuing other people if i ask she says i should just trust, she never asks me and says she has total trust am i just worrying or am i being played
2006-10-23 20:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by mikealedmonds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A long distance relationship takes a lot of effort. I was in one for a year and a half. She wouldn't put much effort into it if she didn't see a future in it, especially if she could find someone closer. If you are going to stick it out then you MUST trust her. If you can't trust her then just end it now and save yourself the effort.
2006-10-23 20:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I hate to be the bearer of bad news.. but your are being played. Relationships themselves are difficult butin your case a long distance relationship... whew thats a double whammy. In order for ANY relationship to work you have to have TRUST. TRUST is earned it is not given. If the people who see her more frequently than you do are giving you the info that she is being overly friendly with other people then like the saying goes " 10,000 people can't be wrong". Meaning everyone knows but poor you. And if she is not showing you some of this affection and you are her man then that means one of two things, 1. She doesn't have anything left to give because she's given it all out ot 2. You are not her only man. Pat yourself on the back for trying to make it work but it takes an effort on both parts. Fee yousrself of the sleepless nights of wondering and uneasiness, let it go. Focus on a relationship that you can readily use your 5 sense. SEE, FEEL, TOUCH, SMELL, TASTE! Good Luck.
2006-10-24 03:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by B. Good in NC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoever told you that about her is very jealous and no friend to you. you don't get to know what's round the corner in a relationship. it's all part of life's journey and how we learn about ourselves. perhaps she wants to do everything right with you and not make the mistakes of the past. but if you are so weak that you listen to gossip and back stabbing jealousy from others than give the girl a break and leave her alone. you have to take what she says at face value and be friends as well.
2006-10-24 03:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard she is sexual from whom. The matter lies there. If u r heard about this from someone else then sure u r not her first BF and maybe ur being played. But never come up to a conclusion with others opinion. Better get know by urslf from her.
2006-10-24 03:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you mate. She is proberly no bothered not to be horrible but if you have hardly seen eachother or kissed etc then really you are just a friend. How can anyone get paraniod about a relationship if you havent even laid eachother yet... this is just a good friendship. If it was me i wouldnt close your door to romance like she hasnt otherwise you are missing out. just carry on as you are with her, but also meet other women, as this relationship with her doesnt look like its going to take off. hope this helps.
2006-10-24 04:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike she is probably being boned senseless, probably being fond1ed, kissed, touched, rubbed and had by other guys.
Sorry to say this, but a sexual girl would be very busy and won't hang around for a long term relationship at all. She's looking for fun and will make the most of her time.
2006-10-24 03:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tatiana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't make too much of the relationship... long distance relationships are tough..
Looks like you have no choice but to trust.
But
Like fat bastard said:
She's a woman...Of course your getting played!!!
2006-10-24 03:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Makai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like u r being played i have a Friend who lives Liverpool and her befriend lives in London
she is a very sexual person so to see he bf each weekend she lives on beans on toast and uses the money to travel down there she really is into him big time she cant keep her hands off him
she is planning a move down there after Christmas
so
my advice is to dump your girl Friend as she is playing u big time
it is not normal to not have sex with your girlfriend
good luk xxxx
2006-10-24 03:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by veronica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm ok - so shes your girlfriend - yet you've barely kissed her - you live far apart and you hardly ever see her.
Erm well wouldnt it be kinda hard for you guys to have sex then?
This scenario sounds like a waste of time to me - Id move on! xx
2006-10-24 05:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she say she was very sexual, if so then i may worry, if from others said it then chill.
2006-10-24 03:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by tommo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋