well, this guy that i like...i sent my first message y'day evening...a short on-liner wishing him for the tests...for which he responded in a similar way almost 5 hrs later... in the nite. I think I got too excited and messaged him back a goodnite an hr later for which he did not respond......i didnt see him at school today (I am a 22 yr old)..and not really sure wats going on.....i am sure he likes me...but i learnt from a common friend that he has a galfriend...not really sure how good their relationship is...i have never seen hiom with her anytime......pplz help...
2006-10-23 20:20:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off, if he has a girl then your just wasting your time. if they break up then go for it but not now. if he says he likes you too while he is already in a relationship then your most likely gonna end up being used because if he really did like you then depending on his relationship with his girlfriend, he would break up with her to be with you.
2006-10-23 20:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't like you. And you should have backed off in the frist place when you found out that he has a girlfriend. Even though you have never seen him with her doesn't mean that he doesn't like/love her (unless you are stalking him, and never see him with her for months). Chances are that he's with his girlfriend when you are not around him (and you also said you both have the same class, is that the only place you see him? if that's the case, then did ever occur to you that maybe his girlfriend just doesn't happen to have the same course?). Text messaging means nothing, and it shouldn't matter to you at all since he didn't even bother to text you right away, or even text you at all. How's that telling you that he likes you? I can't believe you said that you think he likes you. Nothing, nothing implies that he likes according to your description. well, all I can say is keep on dreaming and stop making a fool out yourself.
2006-10-24 03:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Deesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, It is never good to hope and dream of someone who is unavailable. You don't want to set a pattern and always be second best. That kind of stuff stays with you and you make the same mistake over and over. If you are too obvious your guy could become annoyed and hateful. He might ruin your reputation and make you out as a pest or stalker. His girlfriend won't like you and neither will all her friends. I'm sorry girl but it is a no win situation.
2006-10-24 03:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋