my ex-boyfriend calls me every two weeks to see how im doing...says he just wants to be friends. is that excessive and is he hiding feelings he still has?
2006-10-23 21:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after i broke up with my girlfriend, i used to call her once every week, then once every two weeks, then once every three weeks, and slowly we just stopped talking to each other. i figured that would be the best thing since just talking to her would remind me of our past.
2006-10-23 22:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by thugster17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be hiding feelings but you will never know until you ask. I would call as much as she lets me and what I mean by that is that if the conversations are good most of the time then I will call more often but if the conversations are mostly quiet then I will call every once in a while to show I'm alive.
2006-10-23 21:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think he is hiding feelings, but it may be just his personality, because some guys can still have feelings for the girl, but they may not call them at all. If I wanted to stay friends with a girl, i probably wouldnt call her at all. Maby like once a month at the most.
2006-10-23 21:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be probably waiting until you break (which a lot of people actually do...) and wait until you dont care about waiting for marriage, and then try to screw you. or stay friends so that he can possibly meet some of your friends and try to hook up with them. As a guy, thats why i would still be around an ex.
2016-05-22 04:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends because i've dated girls, then broke up, but somehow remained really close. one of these girls i talk to every few days. it may be possible that he still has feelings, but who knows. maybe he really does cherish your friendship. a call once every two weeks doesn't seem so bad. if he says stuff like "hey, let's hang out sometime" or something similar all the time, then maybe he has feelings for sure...
2006-10-23 21:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by A L E X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if I have a girlfriend now. Never!
If I did not have a girlfriend now and still cared for her. maybe every 2 weeks just wanting to be friends
2006-10-23 21:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by RENO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, if i were in another relationship, it would be very little so new gf didnt suspect i was still interested, but otherwise id call about as often as id call any other friend, best that my ex call me
2006-10-23 21:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a week..maybe on a friday or the day you want to go out and do something.
2006-10-23 21:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a week is fine.
every 2 weeks is more than acceptable.
2006-10-23 21:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every two weeks? no, you are listening to your ego too much
2006-10-23 21:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋