Singles & Dating - 11 October 2006

at one point of my life, i kinda seeing two girls at once. both are just strictly for sex (but i like the other one a lil bit more). one day, the confronted each other and threw a jerry springer on me. the one that i liked a little left although i had apologized to her many times. so, i stayed with the other one until few months later. its been a year since the incident and im in good terms with the one that i stayed with - the one that is way cooler then the one that i liked a little. i see her screen name (the one that left and was mad at me) everytime i go online and im not sure if i should message her. if i do, what should i message her besides - "are you still mad at me?". its been exactly a year. please tell me if i should play it cool (like i am) and just say **** it. btw, i have a steady gf now.

2006-10-11 07:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

but will i have the strength to leave him when/if i meet someone that i ll like more? do you think i should feel sorry for myself that i go out w/ someone just not to be left alone? its not that i dont like him, i just dont feel crazy in love....do you think it might work after all or will i always be miserable about not being with THE ONE?

2006-10-11 07:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1

we have been dating about a year. and there is going to be like a huge party at my bf's house after HC. so well im nervous about what might happen. and what are some tips about homecoming. so help me out here.
nothing stupid please.

2006-10-11 07:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 2

If a woman comes alot does that necessarily mean she is having an orgasm? I don't feel any special way when that happens it just does. So should you feel a different when when you climax and is it normal not to feel anyway?

2006-10-11 07:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Thang 6

2006-10-11 07:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we dated for over a year in a "rollercoaster" relationship (I'd dump him for something he did, then he would cry and beg me to come back so we would always get back together). We met after he found me on an online community for college students. It was always up and down, mostly due to his temper and habit of talking a lot about other Asian girls that he knew (he has "yellow fever", and I am also Asian). Then I went on a 5month break with him and during it I told him to try moving on but he never did. He told me that he believed I was "the one", but I refused to see him during the 5 months. After the break, we got back together but the "rollercoaster" continued. then the last time I dumped him, he didn't beg anymore. So we tried being friends, but we continued to have sex and spend everyday together like before. I realized that I still loved him, but when I told him this, he said that he didn't want a relationship although he still loved me and wanted to keep seeing me. what to do?

2006-10-11 07:20:38 · 14 answers · asked by samoa s 1

this bloke i went on a few dates with who is 52 and i am 46 emailed me and wrote , have i looked in the mirror lately i am no bed of roses and yet when he dated me he said, he fancied me crazy, he said he could make me come for hours and yet we never had sex. i was going for a job at the police station and he wrote he disliked the police. he really put me down well he was not exactly goodlooking anyway i deleted my email address and it scared me, and i am angry and hurt and feel put down and i wonder if i can trust a man agian. he kept talking about page three girls who are topless on the dates and how he used to go out with someone who looked like one. i am glad i never had sex with him.

2006-10-11 07:20:20 · 24 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3

when you lost your virginity, how long did it last? do you regret it? I also am a Bi female, have you ever been with someone the same sex as you?

2006-10-11 07:19:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 24 and am not that experienced with guys. I have always fancied them but am very fussy so there arent a great deal that i like. When i touch myself and think about a man i cant get turned on but the minute i think about lesbian sex or lok at a picute of naked woman i get turned on straight away. Am I a lesbian?

2006-10-11 07:19:35 · 36 answers · asked by abi24s 1

Do most women (adult women) prefer a guy that shaves the private area or not?

2006-10-11 07:18:49 · 45 answers · asked by James O 1

can you tell me why a guy would give you his no start texting you and say he would cook you dinner one night then all of a sudden stop texting or replying to your texts im really confused

2006-10-11 07:18:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were having a nice relationship and a minor bump made us split, I tried to have her back, she didn't want that, she asked me to not to contact her, and said she wanted to enjoy life as a single person, a thing she didn't get to do during her 20s. We are both 31. 2 months later sends an email saying "I know you hate me, but I hope your doing well. It feels strange we are not having any kind of communication at all, since you were a huge part of my life at some point, the other day I was in XXX place (a place we went once and made love) and I remembered how great those times were back then. I hope you are doing well". That's all she said, how do you read this way of interrupting the silence we were having?, I knew she started going out with other single groups of people RIGHT away after we split. I don't want to take any quick action, I DO LOVER her but I DO LOVE MYSELF TOO, I had a HAAARRD time recovering from such a sad breakup for months I suffered, best action to take?

2006-10-11 07:18:01 · 8 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3

I am single..she lives in the same house with her husband, but no sex and they sleep in different rooms..she told him she wants a divorce ,his condiitons are to have custody of their two kids. He is financially well-off and she is comfortable...We are deeply in love, but difficult staying apart..what should i do?

2006-10-11 07:17:14 · 22 answers · asked by seek_fulfill 4

guys if ye like a girl and she texts you but you cant text her cause you are working would it annoy you if she kept texting you??

2006-10-11 07:16:40 · 24 answers · asked by bornmadchick 1

and with an e.rection? What did you think and do?

2006-10-11 07:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm upset about it. How do I get over this feeling faster?

2006-10-11 07:14:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 07:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1

i have been with my bf for 3 years and we live together. for the last year he wont have sex with me. we sleep in the same bed and do all things like any other couple apart from sex. i keep asking him whats wrong but he wont tell me. i really love him and dont want to leave him. what should i do?

2006-10-11 07:10:57 · 45 answers · asked by Hatty Sue 2

it's been a while since we hung out but we still e-mailed eachother once a while but suddenly i couldn't hold it in any longer and i poured everything out to him, and he replied back saying "I think i don't have any other strong feelings for you but who knows maybe its fate we end up being together in the future" he was totally cool with it. he wasn't being cold or anything. while we were going out he liked me so much more than i did and everytime i broke up with him he would run back to me but i went out with this guy he knows. after that, we never went out again. was what i did really messed up?? do you think there can be another chance? do you guys believe in fate? please help!

2006-10-11 07:10:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

but im also his ex and he really does tell everyone, but her. we talk about everything. and i know more about him then his best friend. He tells everyone else but her about us so do i still need to have a chat with him?

2006-10-11 07:10:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl I am friends with and started liking her as more than just friends. But she has stopped talking to me! Idk if I did something or what. How do I know if she is pissed at me?

2006-10-11 07:09:31 · 18 answers · asked by Jer G 3

I know it's better for guys to pay for dinner on first couple of dates, but my question is when can we go dutch? My wallet is hating me.

2006-10-11 07:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 07:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by 75ernest 1

she has already gave me a hint as to what shes getting me its that it has something to do with my ipod.... so she isnt going to spend a TON of money! and i dont want to either! i've already bought her a necklace that she has wore everyday since i gave it to her last christmas.... so what should i get her?

2006-10-11 07:07:37 · 31 answers · asked by Ryan O 2

2006-10-11 07:07:36 · 2 answers · asked by kiki 1

advice me on this..how to handle her..she is asking to marry now itself..

2006-10-11 07:07:33 · 16 answers · asked by venkat 1

My b/f and i just recently had a baby. I dont have much time to myself now. My b/f hasnt taken me out or anything because he says he cant afford it right now. Ive treid to be understanding about this and ive treid not to be too demanding of his time. He just recently went to a stripclub with his coworkers. It bothered me that he wanted to go( i feel uncomfortable with the idea of him looking at other women, especially after giving birth just 6 weeks ago) but i told him i didnt mind just as long as he didnt spend too much of his money. Later that night, he lied and said he had money left over. We had to buy formula for our baby. He then told me later when i asked for it that he had spent it all. He had about $150 when he left that night. Im really mad at him but this is the first time he has done anything like this. I dont know how to talk to him about it without getting jealous and upset. How should i talk to him and how can i feel better about myself and our relationship?

2006-10-11 07:07:03 · 10 answers · asked by jh21 1

can the out side world help a man grow up to his potential? or what?

2006-10-11 07:06:34 · 19 answers · asked by non-curious 2

If it wasn't meant to be, why won't my feelings for him just go away? ='(

2006-10-11 07:06:20 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-10-11 07:05:56 · 8 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3