Theres this girl I am friends with and started liking her as more than just friends. But she has stopped talking to me! Idk if I did something or what. How do I know if she is pissed at me?
2006-10-11 07:09:31 · 18 answers · asked by Jer G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its possible that she got the vibes from you that you like her and she doesn't feel the same way. Simple solution for her would be to just stop talking to you. I'm sure she isn't mad at you unless there is an issue that you didn't state.
If she's rude and short with you when you try to talk to you I'm positive that she's angry. It never hurts to ask if you did something wrong to piss her off!
2006-10-11 07:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are a couple of dead-ringers. she might blow you off or give you the cold shoulder, or she could ignore you all together.
if you've shown that you may have feeling for her that go beyond friendship, she either doesn't share these new feelings, she feels intimidated by your new feelings, or she does share these new feelings but doesn't want to express them out of fear that the relationship might get messed up. all of these things would cause a girl to stop talking to you.
if this is really bothering you, my advice would be to simply talk to her. a simple talk can resolve all of these issues. if the cause is that she doesn't like you like that, things will be weird for a while, but eventually you both will get over it and go back to being friends.
2006-10-11 07:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by darkcrimson1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably in a state of mind where she doesn't want to get too involved with someone. Unfortunately women won't tell you this, you're supposed to be a mind reader. Make it seem like you don't need to be around her. Just give her a nonchalant "hi" every once in a while. Don't be too clingy. Then she may start to talk to you more, maybe not. Like I said before, she won't tell you.
2006-10-11 07:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by jp_pablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if a girl isn't talking to your or anything and pretty much ignoring you then I reckon that she's mad at you....maybe the smart thing to do would be to ask....it might help just a tad.
2006-10-11 07:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by m_n_c9088 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't want to be more than friends or just is scared that it will ruin yor friendship, so just ask her if there is something wrong and why she stopped talking to u if you dont ask u will never know
2006-10-11 07:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? A guy has to ask when a girl is mad? Most girls/women will surely let you know if they have a problem and if not just ask her.
2006-10-11 07:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult because girls usually have the habbit of showing anger only outwardly but in the bottom of their heart they may be liking , loving etc
2006-10-11 07:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be uncomfortable with the idea of starting a relationship with you. She might not want to jeopardize the friendship, so she is withdrawing from you to save it.
2006-10-11 07:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to be up front in any kind of relationship. Just ask if her if she's mad at you cause she seems to be acting as if something's wrong.
2006-10-11 07:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not pissed she just doesn't want you as a lover and is uncomfertable being around you know.
2006-10-11 07:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋