Singles & Dating - 11 October 2006

i was only with my ex for 6 months and then a year off and on, (i have never had better sex.) he was nice to begin but then was very cruel and controlling. i am with a really great guy now but he is not equiped for the bed room (in any form or function) I think about my ex every day. It hurts. I want to love again but how, Time is not an answer..its not getting better. :( please help

2006-10-11 08:16:53 · 4 answers · asked by poisons79 1

Don't want 2 have sex because its painful and awkward and smelly and embarassing and weird

is that ok

2006-10-11 08:15:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so afraid he is going to scare my man away. What should I do. I love and respect my parents and do not want problems.

2006-10-11 08:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by just me 2

Hi my name is Jen and iam 15 years old , my crush's name is Nick and he plays varsity football.... He was new to my school and he was only in my morning metting room.. So on his first day i said hi and asked him where he was from.. Then he told me if I could show him around school.. so ofcourse .. i did..... Then 2 weeks passed and he saw me cleaning the teachers desk and since then he teases me and calls me Janitor... we usually flirt around by dissing each other but we laugh and we always keep eye contact.. One day we were playing around and he came over to me and said iam going to beat u up and choke u.. but he was just playing... he went over to my desk and put his arms around my neck but it was more like a hug...Then that same day he arrives at my locker in the afternoon and i turned around and i said u freaking scared me so he said oh so u dont want me to be here and i said no i didnt say that.. Then he said see ya around... b/c he knows we live one street away... He asked me if i was going to the football game and i said maybe.. i just dont have no one to go with.. so he said if i wasnt playing in the game i wouldve gone with u to spend time... so then today night was the game and i saw his couch screaming at him but i realized he was looking at me instead of the coach.. so he was staring at me and i stared back......next week.. i was trying to talk to his friend and he kept interrupting me... and i told him your so mean and he said .... Iam sorry.... The he told his friend that i wanted to ask him out.... then his friend said i know who u wanna ask out and he turned red..
Do u think iam the person he likes?

2006-10-11 08:13:04 · 7 answers · asked by Jen 1

2006-10-11 08:12:36 · 28 answers · asked by naomi 2

sooo today is the day for the suprise..if you don't know what im talking about i posted multiple questions asking people what suprise would be nice for my bf. they gave me some nice answers and im pretty sure i know which one im going to do.

i think it will be sexy and i think he will never forget it.

BUT i would like to know if there are any last ideas for the suprise. we have been dating for almost 3 years now and i would like to give him something SPECIAL yet SEXY. last and final ideas people?? thanks!

*sex-is NOT an option*

2006-10-11 08:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa 1

2006-10-11 08:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by Tulsa Boy 2

I'm 20, female, and in college. All my friends in college are guys. I swear 90% of them have the wrong idea and think we're going out.

I went out with this guy to a party at his frat, and when I was in the bathroom, I overheard his friends asking him "where is YOUR girl?" He said she's in the bathroom.

Uh, when did I become owned?

2006-10-11 08:09:51 · 14 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1

k i was seeing this guy for about 2 days . then i broke up with him cuz he said i love you and that freaked me out . so now he keeps texting me saying "lets talk about this and i dont want to lose you and your really special to me" he wont leave me alone. what do i do?

2006-10-11 08:06:52 · 44 answers · asked by volleyball*star 2

i have a girlfriend and when she does things that would get me feeling really bad i scold her or sarcastically pinpoint to her . After that she says to me that i had hurt her. Then i apologise and explain her mistake. BUt she keeps on repeating the same thing again and never changes. Does that mean she is not hurt and take my problems seriously and just pretending to get affected?

2006-10-11 08:05:22 · 35 answers · asked by metallixan 2

2006-10-11 08:05:19 · 19 answers · asked by Francis Z 2

im in grade 9 and my heart was just broken for about the 80 thousandth time and i have a back up guy but i dont know what to do should i go for the back up guy or keep going after the one who broke my heart? i need a girls help....

2006-10-11 08:04:51 · 9 answers · asked by Melly. 3

My yahoo personal's profile say "There will times that our time together will include my children". Why would a woman freak out when I asked her if she wanted to join me when I take my kids to a place to see the fall colors?

2006-10-11 08:04:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was missing my ex because i hadn't spoken to him in almost two weeks. So I sent him a message that asked him how he was and that it was hard not knowing about it. He wrote back saying it was hard not knowing about me either and asked me if i was holding up okay? What's that supposed to mean?

2006-10-11 08:03:41 · 12 answers · asked by coochie1 2

a joined guitar classes three monthes ago,and now im havin a crush for my great teacher,he is about 40 and im also admired him for his palying.
so how am i supposed to get real?

2006-10-11 08:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by tutu_love2005 1

its likes he leaves and can spend hour with his friends but when it comes to me he always goes to sleep or complains about having a headache why does he do that and what should i do about it

2006-10-11 08:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today he called and asked me to befriend her and put her mind at ease as to him and I. I told him I coudnt do that. If I am going to befriend anyone it will be on honest terms. If he wants me to tell her how I feel and how he says he feels, Then I would do it.
He says she cant handle hearing that and she may or may bot go crazy and tryto hurt herself. If she knew the truth.
I say that is not my problem. I can only control what i do and say. And if she asks me I'm telling the truth.
Is it wrong for me to invovle myself between them two at all?
Should I just say nothing and stay away?

2006-10-11 08:01:33 · 5 answers · asked by swan l 1

why do people not like tall girls? im 17 and possibly about 6'1 6'2 and no one seems to like me or want to go out with me and ive been getting shyer because everyone seems to want to talk about my height and this guy i thought i had a shot with today i found out he has a girlfriend but shes ugly so that makes it a little bit more bearable but why does no one like me? would it be different if i was shorter?

2006-10-11 08:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just ended a relationship about 3 and a half months ago. In that relationship for a year and half. How long should I wait till get back into dating again? I am kinda ready but not really. Need some advice.

2006-10-11 08:00:30 · 17 answers · asked by Babs 2

Ladies who wear white t-shirts!!...Sweet baby..sweet!! It just BRINGS out the best in them!!!

2006-10-11 08:00:14 · 5 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2

why do ye lead women on if ye do like them why go all quiet

2006-10-11 08:00:14 · 15 answers · asked by bornmadchick 1

there is this guy that is obsessed with me... how can i tell him to back off???

and what makes guys horny??

2006-10-11 07:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by lovely brunette 1

I am smart, educated and very pretty so why do I always meet the losers ....I am a single parent and want to meet mister right

2006-10-11 07:59:26 · 8 answers · asked by Jammie J 2

2006-10-11 07:58:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get that constuction work (manual labor) is a really dirty job. What I don't get is why you would let your hands get so gross, that a girl dosen't want you to touch her. WHY!!!???????

2006-10-11 07:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by wezzlit 1

My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months. the last couple of months, we've been getting into a lot of arguments. A couple a days ago I have noticed a big change in her. Here are some changes; she doesn't call me just to see how im doing on the hour like she used to, the sex is starting to turn bad, the communication is gone, and she has that "I don't care attitude" sometimes to where she don't see my point of view on things. We steady argue over little things every other day. A couple days ago, She called me and said "we need to have a serious talk". My first impression when she said that was that she wants to dump me and she tired of this. To be honest, I love her, but im getting tired of her not listening to me. Here's how I feel; I can really live without her,sorry to say. I understand there's a lot of ladies in the sea. Now how should I handle my self in this serious convo. that she wants to have? Should I dump her before she dumps me. Or whats the most effective way?

2006-10-11 07:55:35 · 25 answers · asked by Just_Asking 2

ok so my ex and i were together almost 7 years we broke up 3 months ago and i havent looked at a picture of him in 2 weeks im doing ok right i mean its still going to take more time but thats a good start

2006-10-11 07:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy in my school that i really like. We used to have lunch together last year but this year we don't have anything at all, and only if I'm lucky, I get to see him in the halls between classes. We barely talked last year and now, we never do. Last year, I had a boyfriend and didn't really care about him much, but now that I've been single for almost 8 months, I've been having my eye on him.


I want to start talking to him. How do I do it?

2006-10-11 07:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Katie T 2

2006-10-11 07:53:12 · 10 answers · asked by Sevuk 3

the boy that i like & he likes me is bein dumb! he wont talk to me cuz i was mad at him yesterday 4 flirting with another girl & today i was with my 2 friends & he hugged them & didn't talk to me! i tried tellin him i wasn't mad but he didnt listen! y is he makin me jealous? how do i get him 2 talk to me????

2006-10-11 07:52:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous