k i was seeing this guy for about 2 days . then i broke up with him cuz he said i love you and that freaked me out . so now he keeps texting me saying "lets talk about this and i dont want to lose you and your really special to me" he wont leave me alone. what do i do?
2006-10-11 08:06:52 · 44 answers · asked by volleyball*star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-11 08:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do..DO NOT pay any attention to him, ignore him like hes not there, when he messeages you just earase them and pretend it didnt happen, if you see him dont look at him at all and pay no no no attention to him. He will than realize that you dont care and theres no hope but if you give a slight bit of attention either saying leave me alone or anything talk at all bad or not he will see that its getting to you and maybe you will come back. So ingnore him and he will leave. Do this for the next two weeks, if he still does this than you will have to take it to the next step get a friend of yours to tell him that if he keeps doing these things than you are going to have to get someone to stop them such as the police or someone who will get the point arcoss. Also get your friend to say that the only reason that you went out with him is because you felt bad for him,thats all, and that you cant stand him at all. It will hurt him but he needs to hear it. And i am sure the whole police talk will scare him off.
2006-10-11 08:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so let me get this strait you broke up with your man of 2 years because he loves you. That’s not right you need to talk to him. Just because he loves you for the great person you are doesn’t mean that you should run away. You need to talk to him, there is no reason you two should not be together. If you are "Freaked out" about him being in love with you then talk to him about it and tell him that your not ready to be in love, that you care about him but your just not where he is right now. If he does love you like he says then he should understand your feelings. Don't throw away 2 years because HE LOVES YOU!!
2006-10-11 08:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out. Say, "I dont want to be with you, we were together for ONLY 2 DAYS!! and I dont have feelings for you and you need to stop being completely obsessive and leave me alone before I file it for harassment."
If he keeps bothering you I would tell someone, making a cell phone bill go up, and be annoyed all of the time is WAYY too much for a stupid 2 day relationship.
2006-10-11 08:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people sometimes just dont get it and are very hard headed!! It took almost 2 years for a guy that I was seeing to finally realize that it was over!!! I just stoped all ties!!! Dont answer any calls and any letters! Stop and walk away totally!!! He will eventually get the hint and get tired!! If for some reason he doesn't and he is crazy, then go to the police and ask for help!!!!
2006-10-11 08:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by TBONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that'd would freak me out too being a christian i'd say ask God if you aren't a christian try reading the Bible it helps too. um.. u should try the best you can do get him to back down cuz u dont want to see him anymore. technically if you tell him to leave u alone and he becomes a stalker or something like that you can call the poolice on him if it gets to be a big problem
2006-10-11 08:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by bballchick4christ22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing that the guy went through. My last girlfriend broke up with me because I told her that I loved her. Unfortunately, there is no way out of this without breaking that poor fool's heart. Just tell him that you don't love him and that you could never love him. Do whatever you can to shake him off. If you have to be excessively mean then so be it. As I said, there is no way of doing this without breaking his heart.
2006-10-11 08:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, change your phone number, and get a really big guy to let him know to back off. In other words, you need to be firm, and yet get the point across gently. If he still does not stop, tell him you will get a restraining order for stalking.
2006-10-11 08:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by Garnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep avoiding him he'll eventually stop if he has any type of self-control. If not, you have to call the authorities. It doesn't sound like this guy is too far from becoming a stalker. But if you talk to him, even to just reiterate your point, it will encourage him.
2006-10-11 08:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by It's Been Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that hapend to me too just u could change your # and then if it doesn't work just try to explain to him that is over like that you don't like him at alllllll just say live me alone and never call me again and that your have a boyfiend now and u love him soooo much and tell him that your so damm just live me alone !!!!!!! i know that is so mean but u cant do much ,because trust me they will make u go crazy like i was that is so anoying !!!!! well i hope everything will be grate with and find some good person that u will like !!!!!!!! byee!!
2006-10-11 08:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Sevuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone now like your parents if you live with them. Or if you are out on your own go to the police station and talk to a officer they can tell you what needs to be done.
2006-10-11 08:11:33 · answer #11 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋