Today he called and asked me to befriend her and put her mind at ease as to him and I. I told him I coudnt do that. If I am going to befriend anyone it will be on honest terms. If he wants me to tell her how I feel and how he says he feels, Then I would do it.
He says she cant handle hearing that and she may or may bot go crazy and tryto hurt herself. If she knew the truth.
I say that is not my problem. I can only control what i do and say. And if she asks me I'm telling the truth.
Is it wrong for me to invovle myself between them two at all?
Should I just say nothing and stay away?
2006-10-11 08:01:33 · 5 answers · asked by swan l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a live-in girlfriend. leave him alone. If he has to play with you like that and get you to lie then he will do it to you. My philosophy if you cheat with me you will cheat on me.... Just words to think about
2006-10-11 08:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by alphasweet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away stay away. Do not get dragged into this fellas DRAMA. If he wants to be with you and only you then let him handle his own affairs. You have no place in that relationship. Now imagine if it were you who were dating a guy and he is trying to get some other girl to befriend you to perpitrate a lie. Tell him to come find you when he is 100% single.
2006-10-11 15:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by lnbeem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect you for not acting phony and befriending her I think that is worst and more of a blow for some one to be your friend then you find out some mess. It sound like he is scared of her really knowing the truth.
SHE MAY KNOW HE HAS FEELING BUT SHE PROBABLY DON'T KNOW HOW DEEP HIS FEELING MAY BE FOR YOU.
By him asking you to be her friend is kind of a blow because he is obvisiouly concerned about her. he don't want to tell her the truth it sounds like he still dealing with her and still want to keep how he really feel for you a secret. I mwan how dear him ask you to make it better for him and be her friend.
He wants his cake and eat it, too. She is still there for a reason.
Yes, It is wrong to get involved with him while he is with her. He is not telling you every little thing that goes on bewteen them to, there is two sides to the story.
Waste of time, know your worth!!!
2006-10-11 15:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back myself out of that situation as soon as possible. Him telling you that she may go crazy and hurt herself is like a red flag . Find someone who doesnt already have a girlfriend . It seems like he may not be a very honest person anyway . and that wouldnt make a good start to a relationship anyway
2006-10-11 15:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to do his dirty work for him. he needs to man up and end it with her if he truely wants to so you dont end up looking like a whore. you shouldnt involve yourself one because its not your place and two you have feelings for him and thats clouding your judgement. find someone who is only into you.
2006-10-11 15:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋