Don't want 2 have sex because its painful and awkward and smelly and embarassing and weird
is that ok
2006-10-11 08:15:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that it's smelly because I've smelled sex beforeLOL jk
ive watched enough movies and tv and heard stories from other people to know exactly what its like
AWKWARD
EMBARASSING NOISES
PAIN
2006-10-11 08:19:51 · update #1
Do you realize that other questions you've asked make you so obvious as a loser who likes to lie for attention? First you're 17 dating an older guy, then you're married for 5 years...now you're a virgin?....it's so pathetic! Ya know, some people really do ask questions to get advice! Quit wasting people's time on here, biotch!!!!
2006-10-14 17:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your life and if it is what you choose then so be it. Honestly though, sex is not a totally bad experience if you care for the one you are with and they aren't too rough the first few times. Sex is a choice, whether it's to have it, not to have it, and in what form or fashion you prefer. Some like it hard, soft, slow, or quickies. If you feel this way then you should definately wait but I wouldn't rule it out completely. You may find a man that would prefer sex the way you do.
2006-10-11 08:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay to feel that way. You may change your mind in the future so I would not go as far as saying forever. Your description of sex sounds like a very uncomfortable situation. When you are in a committed consensual relationship it should not be awkward and embarrassing. As far as the pain and smell, those are issues I would suggest talking to a gynecologist about.
2006-10-11 08:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by ginajimmy22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After the first few times, its actually not a bad sweaty situation. He'll sweat more then you, but when you're in the moment, its GREAT! I would definitely wait until your married to have sex, or at least be in love. It's always way better when the person you have sex with is one who you love! But yes- definitely wait! I promise, it will be better then, rather then now, before serious commitment.
2006-10-11 08:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do u know that it's all those things if you've never done it?Besides it should only be painful and awkward the first time.After a few times it becomes REAL good.But it's your option.You don't have to do anything you don't want to.
2006-10-11 08:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by flexduty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you know if it's painful, smelly, and awkward if you're a virgin? Don't knock it til you try it!
2006-10-11 08:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Have a lot of sex, it's fun. With men and women, it's the cool thing to do.
2006-10-11 08:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're okay with it it's okay. virginity is something to be proud about not tossed away lightly and if you feel so negativly towards sex then you'd probably be happier a virgin anyway
2006-10-11 08:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so how do you know it's smelly and painful?
2006-10-11 08:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure, Goodluck With That. I Wouldnt Do That But You Can..
2006-10-11 08:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋