advice me on this..how to handle her..she is asking to marry now itself..
2006-10-11 07:07:33 · 16 answers · asked by venkat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is saying that she wants to marry me now itself ..she doesnot want to leave with his parents..is it possible at this age..i don know no what to do.
2006-10-11 07:13:26 · update #1
my age is 20 and her age is 17.
2006-10-11 07:15:35 · update #2
hey there
I think its not wise to marry her right now. you have to make her understand that parents will scold and life will not always be rosy. she seems to be relying on you,and wants you to make everything good for her.thats alright,but if u guys are married and you face a prob,who will she turn to? how about her further studies? doesnt she want a career?
her prob is not about maturity,its more about being dependent on you.im sure she loves you a lot,otherwise she wouldnt depend on you this much.but at teh end of the day,she only 17,and ur just 20,and you guys are starting your life.enjoy the moment and plan for your future rather than leaping in without thinking. wait and give it some time and ask her why she wants to get married ,before making a decision.how do ur family and her family feel about this topic? and are you able to support her and you financially?
best of luck .
2006-10-11 10:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely right she's not mature. She must be what...16-18 yrs old??? She's still a kid. By the way, how old are you???
If you're the same age, both u guys have a long way to go before you're ready for a serious commitment. Finish your education, stand on your own feet financially and then think of marriage. The world's a tough place....plz be practical.
2006-10-11 07:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain her about the problems both of u will get after going out of house like finance and tell her to complete her studies first
and ask her to wait up to the completion of Ur's studies and let u earn something and finally if u really want her to be in good position u can put a full stop to all these things by stop talking with her, all the best and go ahead and stand great in life
2006-10-11 07:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by vesireddy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend please do understand that thise is not the time to marry her tell her that if you are going to marry here both will be in problem and you will both can never joing again in your life because now the parents have all the right on here just tell her to bare it for just a year tell that she as to face thise for the sake of your love
2006-10-11 18:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see buddy u have a long way to go in life this is not the time for marriage ...pursue a good job then u can go and ask her parents ,good u have asked us to advice u...convince her both of u r unmatured..why u see ur parents as enemies ... prove urself they will accept u ...or by that time u will be in a position to handle ur problems ...all the best
2006-10-11 08:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, this is the most discombobulated question I have ever read.
Studying eleventh? What does this mean??!!
She wants to marry herself? That is really weird.
2006-10-11 07:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just emotional, especially with all the stresses of exams and becoming a woman.
If you are meant to be together, you don't need to rush the wedding. Just enjoy getting to know each other first.
2006-10-11 07:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky5115 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a chinese section or a japanese section if you want because i know that your question is not in english! Marry itself? studying eleventh? hahah
2006-10-11 07:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if she's not matured...she's sensitive!
if u love her then you would be a man and find out the answer to this problem! Most girls want their boyfriend to comfort her eg. hugs/ comforting words/ try cheering her up by taking her out or something!
2006-10-11 07:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by saiyuki c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....sometimes, you feel so weak because of you're told off by someone you love and you need someone to talk to and share something to...and you won't be glad if the one who you think that you were comfortable with thinks that you're immature...
2006-10-11 07:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋