at one point of my life, i kinda seeing two girls at once. both are just strictly for sex (but i like the other one a lil bit more). one day, the confronted each other and threw a jerry springer on me. the one that i liked a little left although i had apologized to her many times. so, i stayed with the other one until few months later. its been a year since the incident and im in good terms with the one that i stayed with - the one that is way cooler then the one that i liked a little. i see her screen name (the one that left and was mad at me) everytime i go online and im not sure if i should message her. if i do, what should i message her besides - "are you still mad at me?". its been exactly a year. please tell me if i should play it cool (like i am) and just say **** it. btw, i have a steady gf now.
2006-10-11 07:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May I suggest that you focus your attention on the people in your life who express positive feelings toward you and demonstrate on a regular basis that YOU are special to them and mean something to them, rather than wasting time and effort chasing after people who are OUTSIDE of your current relationship(s)? While I understand it's always a bit of a rush to have more than one person at a time think the world revolves around you, I would urge you to think things through and ask yourself how hurtful it would be to YOU if you were to find out that the person you currently felt closest to was cheating on you? It would suck wouldn't it? You would feel hurt and be schocked that a relationship you were putting effort into was actually all just a big lie...You'd be hurt - and rightly so - that someone trampled all over your feelings like that. If you understand that, then you'll also come to understand that you never want to be the source of that same kind of pain to someone you claim to care about. In other words: DO NOT seek out any sort of contact with an ex while you are in another/new relationship. Do not reach out to anyone outside of any relationship you find yourself in until such time as you are no longer in a relationship.
Be the best person you can be to your current partner and enjoy the amazing feeling that comes from entrusting another person with your heart and knowing in your own heart of hearts that you're treating your partner with all the respect and care that you would want for yourself.
You know what the right thing to do here is -- you just wanted someone here to to push you a bit into doing the wrong thing so you could feel better about what you're about to do to your current girlfriend...
2006-10-11 07:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I think that if you have a gf now then you should respect her and not try to contact this other girl that you liked. Leave the past behind and focus on what is to come with your girlfriend. Why risk losing what you have for some girl that may still want to rip your eyes out? Believe me, it doesn't work out. I tried to contact an old friend and things got really messy between my boyfriend and I because of it. Just let it go and move on. You'll be better off.
2006-10-11 07:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should because, if it someone you've been thinking her about all this time this should at least try to fix things. If you can't then you say forget about but, at lease I tried. I'm sure you don't want to be with someone that does'nt won't to be with you. Right? on the other side of the coin. You owe it to yourself to at least try it out. There is an old saying out there. If you can't be with the one you love than stay with the one you are with. Do it this way and you'll win either way. Good luck!
2006-10-11 07:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by CHIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she felt the same way about you as you did her I think that I would try to contact her and if she is still bitter let her know that you have gotten over her. If she is not bitter then you can move in and try to start over with her if that is what you want
2006-10-11 07:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by soldierman69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Just say ****' it!
2006-10-11 07:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by jp_pablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not.
2006-10-11 07:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure
2006-10-11 07:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋