Im 24 and am not that experienced with guys. I have always fancied them but am very fussy so there arent a great deal that i like. When i touch myself and think about a man i cant get turned on but the minute i think about lesbian sex or lok at a picute of naked woman i get turned on straight away. Am I a lesbian?
2006-10-11 07:19:35 · 36 answers · asked by abi24s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily. A lot of women who only have sex with men find it easier to fantasise about women. If you find real women sexually attractive then you might be gay or bi-sexual.
Perosnally i beleive that sexuality is on a sliding scale and people can be gay or straight or anything in between.
Try opening up yourself to seeing if you might find women in a social setting attractive. And if you are then go for it - I have always enjoyed sex with women (although my current partner is male) and you might too.
2006-10-11 07:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible and it's not a bad thing.... Have you tried talking to girls or even being with a girl intimately? If you haven't maybe that is something you should look into. I know I enjoy the sight of a well built woman and sounds that woman make when they are turned on turn me on even more, but i also am turned on by men. So in my case I get the best of both worlds... Nobody can answer this for you; this is something that you will have to discover on your own.... Good luck and have fun.
2006-10-11 07:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most sociologist think that all women are a little bisexual - at least in regards to how homophobic most men are - so you may be a little more bi than some. The fact that you are fussy just means that you are looking for the best that men have to offer. With out a doubt - you will be disappointed or spend a loooong time looking.
2006-10-11 07:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't say you are or it's wrong, but at 24 you really should know yourself, however if you were say 16 or so, i would imagine it's just curiosity, but what ever happens i hope you find your answer soon, and enjoy the rest of your life, it's shorter than you think, I'm 42 and on my own, not through choice i hassen to add, good luck sweet take care.xx.
2006-10-11 12:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need to discuss this with a therapist to get to the bottom of the issue. Exploring that is going to be very complex, with LOTS of factors to evaluate. The people here including myself may not be able to cover the entire scope of the problem. I hope no matter what happens that you have plenty of family and friends to give you the support you deserve.
2006-10-11 08:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. What is wrong by being turned on looking at adult pictures. Nothing! if your curious, about having sex with another woman, well, give it a go. you might be bi-sexual. Nothing wrong in that either. Its your life, lead it anyway you like. Dont worry about what other people may think. If they cant handle it, then that is their problem.
2006-10-11 07:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by david429835 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya
it doesnt mean your a lesbian
iam 25 married and most of the time the only way i get turned on is to wacth lesbian sex
i think its the way they are so gentle and men can be a bit havey handed
:0)
2006-10-11 07:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that makes you a lesbian. Even if you dd act on it there is such a thing as just being curious. I think that is kind of hot. It's not the same for dudes though, being curious means your a ***
2006-10-11 07:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get turned on by the'\" picute" of a naked woman, you are definitely a lesbo.
2006-10-11 07:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not gay, you might be bi and lean towards women. but the real question is: "why categorize yourself?"
I would suggest you try to find a local Lesbian Gay Bisex Transgendered support group in your area.
LGBT.
talking to some of them might give you insight into yourself. Besides, you might meet a cutie.
tom
2006-10-11 07:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋