Singles & Dating - 9 October 2006

She left me abruptly, just out of the blue. 2.5 years and one argument. we did love eachother. i still do. i havent talked to her in over a year. there was a lot left unsaid, a lot left un finished. ive been in relationships since. they were destoned to be doomed. i cant love another person when i am in love with someone else... still. i just found out the she has a new man. i am happy for her, but i still feel jealous. i dont know how shes doing, or what shes up to. she moved away, for school. so my chances of running into her and randomly catchin up are remote to say the least. its hard having someone be such a big part of your life, and then the next day they are gone. I thnk about her everyday. my heart hurts when i think about th what ifs. i dont know why i hurt, i dont know how to stop it. i dont know what i can do to help, if anything. i dont know if she hurts, i dont know if on the inside, she too is crying herself to sleep everynight. her hurt may be the same. but, i dont know

2006-10-09 22:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by california cowboy 2

2006-10-09 22:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by Ashleigh 1

Well I used to only like my own color, I didn't have anything agaisnt other people,I made friend's with alot of diffrent people off in school and stuff like that..But now I'm curious about black men,Is that a bad thing?....

2006-10-09 22:40:20 · 24 answers · asked by mizz_tooshort 1

Is it possible to have a clean break when you both still think about each other? When you both knew that neither is good for the other? What can you do to totally forget someone you loved? I know time, but how to pass those times?

2006-10-09 22:36:51 · 9 answers · asked by Nemrac666 2

2006-10-09 22:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by Kieu Ngan 1

I found out my girlfriend cheated on me, now i know the name of the bloke and the street he lives on but i dont know any more, how do i find this fella? I am in the uk if this helps.

2006-10-09 22:34:06 · 15 answers · asked by lee f 2

it's been 5 months since we broke up and we went out for a year and a half. we were the happiest thing together and were so sure that we were going to marry eachother. now that we are broken up i am having such a hard time moving on. i tell myself one day not to talk to him and then after after a night out with the grls i call him and see him. then the next day the cycle starts over again with alot of tears inbetween.
my heart is in so much pain it seriously feels like it is being stabbed. We love and care for eachother deeply but we know we can't be together but we dont want the other being with another person.
recently i found out that he has been talking to a girl and the thought of him possibly liking her and moving on without me is killing me.
I had an abortion because of this ex and it just makes this whole process more painful. he is not willing to
PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO STOP THIS PAIN I AM DYING TO KNOW THE FASTEST & SUREST WAY TO MOVE ON AND NOT CARE ABOUT HIM. PLEASE HELP!

2006-10-09 22:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by heartbrokensf 1

" The door to my heart is always closed. But you've managed to come in by the window just beside it"

2006-10-09 22:31:17 · 18 answers · asked by Beth 3

something except their way of looking, some kind of scientific explanation.

2006-10-09 22:30:06 · 25 answers · asked by jyoti 1

This is embarrassing so I wish for girls only to answer please. I have no one to ask.

My fiance and I decid to remain virgins until we marry two years. It is our religion. We are not supposed to be alone together but sometimes we do. He always ask me stimulate him with my hands and mouth and he touche me everywhere. I tried to stop him many times because of our vow, but he say it is not sex and it is all right to do. The first time he touch me, he push hard and there was little blood and pain. He say sorry but keep to do. How I tell him stop or is OK what he is doing?

2006-10-09 22:28:45 · 13 answers · asked by hoho 2

my bf cheated on me what should i do ??????

2006-10-09 22:28:34 · 36 answers · asked by x Jessicaa x 1

Lately, my boyfriend is really short with me. He hardly ever tells me how he feels. He says he loves me, but thats it. How can I get him to be more open and vocal?

2006-10-09 22:26:54 · 4 answers · asked by Ashleigh 1

So there is this guy I like, who's my friend, he's 10+ years older than me. We've gone out a couple of times and have had long conversations that lasted for hours about everything from our deepest secrets to relationships. He's given me signs that made it seems like he likes me, for instance, the way he smiles at me then kinda looks away, the teasing, things like that. Anyway, we laugh and joke around with each other all the time. There were times when he would find excuses to touch me, like my hand or my back. It kinda surprised me because I saw him as a very shy, and kept to himself type person.

Now the weird thing is, we have friends who are between my age and his age. Whenever we are around the people closer to his age, he tends to shy off and we don't really talk, but when it's people closer to my age, we act how we do when we're alone. I don't get him. He's told me that the youngest he would date is 25, but his actions speak differently.

Please, I'm in need of advice. Thx

2006-10-09 22:26:05 · 2 answers · asked by CROWN_PRINCESS 1

Rob is better than me. He made two girls laugh. I am jealous, because i am a loner and nobody likes me. Please help. I want to be like him. and know how to flirt properly.

2006-10-09 22:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 22:18:34 · 11 answers · asked by gila_paulineling 1

I met my boyfriend on the 4/9/06 and im moving in with him on the 22/10/06 are we rushing things.

2006-10-09 22:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by tracey a 2

can i know is....... mr. bean or james bond .....which personality
.....does women likes.....in a man

2006-10-09 22:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by firu 1

2006-10-09 22:13:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like a person whos in a diff. class
i need 2 make him notice me n make frnds wid him
wot can i do
pleez give ans exept 'concentrate on ur studies' pleez'

2006-10-09 22:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by aakanksha 2

When a guy says that he doesnt like to make plans/arrange things eg dates, because he never knows whats going to happen, what does he really mean???

2006-10-09 22:06:29 · 35 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

You're dating someone who you are into.....YET...they come up to you one day & say....

I just want to be friends
We are better off friends
or
I am just not commited to this relationship like I need to be....

OR
The best one of them all........

It isnt you....it's me....

How does it make you feel to hear these....IF you have heard them before...

If you havent heard them...but have said them....how do you think you made the person feel?

Just curious...I know I have felt kind of like I was lost on the fact that we were having problems....but I later found it was because he cheated & got her pregnant....lol...

2006-10-09 22:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5

Wat r the ways to seduce a guy mentally as well as physically?

2006-10-09 22:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by jyoti 1

2006-10-09 22:00:42 · 7 answers · asked by hugh_cheung 2

2006-10-09 21:59:15 · 14 answers · asked by rahul 1

I mean I just told them were awesome and I like there way alot and now they won't talk to me because they know I love another guy...I mean don't they know it is just talk and we all can be just friends..I mean give me a break here!

2006-10-09 21:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend and he's the manager of the company which im working for. when one of the supervisor knew about it i denied it he got angry so we broke up now im still there but it was really hard coz i still love him truly i beg for his forgiveness each day but he hates me so much. we see each other everyday but he tried to avoid me it was really painful and hard please help me what shall i do? should i resign? or still stay?

2006-10-09 21:48:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I get my bestfriend who is a man for his birthday.I want something that will show him how much I care for him and want to thank him fro always being there for me when I needed him.

2006-10-09 21:47:58 · 10 answers · asked by ladymacbeth789 1

I've been talking to this guy that I meet over the internet. It's been about 2 months and we've really hit it off over the phone. Neither one of use know what the other looks like but I've been asking around and have found several people who knew him in high school they have all said the same thing, that he was quite, and shy. Not one person has said anything bad about him. He seems very nice and family orientated. Would you think it would be safe to let him pick me up or should I suggest that we meet somewhere. I'm a divorcee and don't really know the rules about this these days. Please help!

2006-10-09 21:45:45 · 20 answers · asked by MereBear 2

Ok, lets just say you are in a relationship..one day sooner or later your partner is going to ask the question of how many other people you have slept with prior to them, What should you say to avoid arguements, loss of respect, jealousy etc.. should you lie, tell the truth or simply tell them it's not their business?? I'd like to go for the not their business option, but what if your partner wont let up and really feels like they need to know, (In my situation I am a bit older than my partner (5yrs) and he has been in two really long relationships previous to me and that is the only people he has been with (2), where as I am older and I have never been in a serious relationship till now, I don't want to tell him that I have been with over 10 guys, as it may make him feel in experienced or he may lose respect for me... What should I do he wont take not your business for an answer... what would you do?? have you ever been in this situation?? please share....

2006-10-09 21:42:45 · 18 answers · asked by channille 3

how can a boy friend/husbend impress his mate or.... and what is the hert touching things girls expecting from boys

plz no jokes ,,,,,i I need serious answer and help full one ……and also does a women care about physical appearance….of her mate......? and what girls think about financial..... Financial position of her mate....does girls look what is job/asset of the boy who propose her...say from your heart...

2006-10-09 21:42:06 · 15 answers · asked by firu 1