what girls think...??

Question

how can a boy friend/husbend impress his mate or.... and what is the hert touching things girls expecting from boys

plz no jokes ,,,,,i I need serious answer and help full one ……and also does a women care about physical appearance….of her mate......? and what girls think about financial..... Financial position of her mate....does girls look what is job/asset of the boy who propose her...say from your heart...

Answer 1

Its usually the physical attraction that comes first...but after that ..unless they have a good personality..are a good listener, show they are interested in the girl/woman as a person and individual..not just for the usual gungho (sex) the interest wanes and then there is no relationship.
Compromise from both sides is a good thing too.
Money issues...is nice to have but shouldn't really be the main thing in any relationship...having enough and a little bit for the fun times to prevent the usual money arguments is a good line to go by.
And most of all dont try to impress or pretend to be what you aren't because you will eventually not be able to keep it up and then bye bye.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Ummm sincerity and honesty with good personal hygiene is a real must buddy if u are just trying to impress her with fake feelings which will last just momentarily then ur gonna b a loser in no time rather the girl wud b a loser in no time...if u express urself and ur love truly then she won't care bout any other issue as such ofcourse all this definately depends on the girl herself if shez loyal and honest too then it can work wonders else she wud just care for ur superficial looks and money.
Money is essential to survive and a must for a good relationship but it's not the absolute must if u know u can earn and surely run the home then I suppose it shudn't really matter but all in all b bold
and just express ur true feelings u don't need to impress just b urself and if the gals really worth and has thots similar to urs she will surely b with u. Just plain talk to her and get to know wat she likes and dislikes.
The way u asked ur question out here u can put the same question to her and pretend it's a friendly curious question. Get to know her buddy and then do the commitment thingy. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

For me, I do not care about a guy's financial situation. At least not at the early stages of a relationship. Physical appearance definitely makes an impact. It's one of the first senses you experience when you meet someone (for the most part). However, showing intellect and depth is very important. It shows that the man lived, is living, and is taking something from life. What will touch me the most is saying something from the heart, or expressing something personal. It shows he is willing to open up and become a little vulnerable for the sake of attaining his mate's affections or trust.

however, when it comes to making a proposal, his financial situation will start to enter my mind because it has alot to do with marriage. People may struggle for a long time because they entered marriage without any financial stability.

On a sidenote, another touching thing to do is to give a gift that relates to something you and her have talked about or something she likes. Because no matter how expensive, cheap, grand, or little that gift is, it shows the gift comes from an actual acknowledgement of understanding her.

Answer 4

You don't want jokes, but you ask a silly question. How do you think all these scandalous broads are going to answer? Not with the truth, I'll tell you that. It's all about the money. I've said it before and I'll say it again, chicks don't care about anything but money and material possessions. How do I know? Cuz, I'm a broke mutherhumper and I know all these tricks would turn their noses up in the air if I came to them with nothing in my wallet but a few dollars and a crumpled love poem. Now, if you can settle for an uggo, a few bucks and a BigMac might work...

Answer 5

I am no girl, but I can tell you.. ALL girls are unique.. but they can be grouped in certain manners like guys as well..

You cannot really impress a girl with just gifts and outstanding outings but really is yourself.. You can give her a $10 million check.. but if you are not yourself and you cannot express yourself.. the relationship will not work out..

Have conversations which will definatly improve the relationship share with one another things that you would normally would not share... of course share when you feel you are ready..

Always take it slowly.. even in shot gun marriages.. both sides still get to know each other slowly.. Take it slowly... and love between you two will blossom.

Cheers!

Answer 6

girls like a guy to be tuff but also understandig.when u spend quality time together it means so much to her if u tell her that u care.when u are both infront of friends be yourself.looks dont always count, but it doesn't hurt to look nice and clean.if u are not rich it doesn't matter and if it matters to her she is not the right one 4 u.sureley if u dont have the best job u she wont care if she feels something 4 u.it's not like u gonna be rich and sucsessfull over nihgt.hopefully u r planning a good future 4 u and xxxxx?surley hope this helps.good luck

Answer 7

A guy can impress his chick by loving her for her and just being himself around her. About the touching thing, all I can say is don't be shy to explore her body.

Physical appearance is definitely a must, he has to have hygene. Job and finance is not a problem, if he can look after his women then that is all to it.

By the way, I think that a chick should love her man for who he is and to accept and love him unconditionally.

Answer 8

No women do not care about physical appearance, financial situation or anything. My ideal man would be a homeless stinking wino on the streets. Come on! is this question a bit silly?

Answer 9

Girls are into communication - mostly verbal and body language.
They are more emotional creatures than boys so they like to hear things that make them feel good.

They will think about fashion, money, prince charming, love, gifts, chivary, beauty and make up

Answer 10

hey firu.... I'm crystal.... and to answer your question...... in my opinion of course..i think that a girl/guy always look for someone that can keep up with them... to meet there standards. for example... a girl works, go to school, and has very responsible... will not date a guy with the complete opposite background... but of course i could be wrong... most do....:-)... the questions you ask can go both ways..now try answering them yourself.. would appearance be important to you ?... financial? see both ways... well only thing i really can say ...be true to your self.. and the girl will like you for who you are.... good luck.. chrys:-)