She left me abruptly, just out of the blue. 2.5 years and one argument. we did love eachother. i still do. i havent talked to her in over a year. there was a lot left unsaid, a lot left un finished. ive been in relationships since. they were destoned to be doomed. i cant love another person when i am in love with someone else... still. i just found out the she has a new man. i am happy for her, but i still feel jealous. i dont know how shes doing, or what shes up to. she moved away, for school. so my chances of running into her and randomly catchin up are remote to say the least. its hard having someone be such a big part of your life, and then the next day they are gone. I thnk about her everyday. my heart hurts when i think about th what ifs. i dont know why i hurt, i dont know how to stop it. i dont know what i can do to help, if anything. i dont know if she hurts, i dont know if on the inside, she too is crying herself to sleep everynight. her hurt may be the same. but, i dont know
2006-10-09 22:50:23 · 10 answers · asked by california cowboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex did the same. he got up and left me and i didn't hear from him for two years. in the two years that i never moved on, he got married, had a kid, got divorced and thats when he called me. only then did i see what a loser he was. by that time i had just started dating again. sometime it takes time to get over someone. just do your own thing and don't think about serious relationships for awhile. you got burned and it will take some time for your heart to heal. funny because while my ex as in all these stupid relationships, i'm still with the one person that i dated after him and we are engaged. if she left you, she probably thinks about you but not in the same way that you think. my ex had a completely dillusional memory of what happened with our breakup.
2006-10-09 22:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you are in a situation like this. what I suggest you is that try to find her and talk to her. you can even call her if she far way from you. Call her two or three times a week and ask her what is going on. and then you can tell her what you truely feel inside. She may feel the same way you will never know. You have said you don't know about her feelings. You have to try to know her feelings. so act before you are again late and see what happens.
Good Luck
2006-10-10 06:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shucks man. You need to climb out of this self-made hell. The reason why u still feel this way is becos u din allow urself to accept reality 2.5 years back. Idunno.. You need to see them 2 together to let the image make a real impact on you.
Don't waste anymore of ur life... u can be happy with a new found love! Love is real. But it won't have the chance to enter ur heart if u choose to keep it closed and bruised.
She doesn't think abt you, she doesn't cry herself to sleep. Believe that.
try dating a new person tmrw
2006-10-10 05:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love.....your obsessed. Stop living in the past.
Get out and make a life for yourself. You're using this failed relationship so that you're unable to function in another relationship. Seek some help from a professional, and mean it!
2006-10-10 05:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey :-) its normal...to hold on to a person... when the relationship was going so well.... but you need to understand that things happen for a reason and it might be best to let go.... of course take your time.. start of by calling her or telling her... how you feel... now I'm not saying this is going to bring her back but its a good way to help you move on.....and then try to get your life back on track... go out... start dating.. again..who knows... maybe you 'll meet the one....:-).....good luck.... chrys:-)
2006-10-10 06:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only wish my ex is as devoted to me.
This is what I'm going through and I hope she'll come back to you.
Nobody knows how she feels, really.
Geez 2.5yrs and you're still aching. It must be horrible.
2006-10-10 05:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nemrac666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to move on.but try dating again you might meet a sweet lady.if she has a new guy she must be over you
2006-10-10 06:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and get your life back on track
2006-10-10 05:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let go because you don't want to.
2006-10-10 05:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, Goddammit!!
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2006-10-10 06:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋