Singles & Dating - 24 September 2006

There is this girl I like. She lives 2000 miles away, 6 states away. I used to live in the same area, went to the same school, etc. We were friends, and I got her # and email. I moved in july 2005 and am about to turn 17. I loved her then, but my sister (also her friend) told me she didn't like ME. So, after I moved (not my choice) she told me herself via email that not only does she love me and always have, but I am the ONLY person she has ever allowed herself to get close to. I love this girl with all my heart and wish I never moved. She knows I love her; I told her after I found out about her feelings.

What should I do? People tell me long distance relationships don't work, but is that really true? I think if I can take a trip there or figure out how to get her here, it would be easier, but I am not sure. What do you think? NO BS ANSWERS PLEASE

2006-09-24 02:17:08 · 23 answers · asked by WolfMage 2

2006-09-24 02:14:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i.e. shake hands.if no other signals from the girl?
is it better that the guy tries to give a hug with out asking
or is it better to ask ? kiss on the cheek without any
signal from the girl -ask or don't ask?
what is the best way to end a 1st date- shake hands???
if she just offers to shake hands-is she not into the guy?
what date shoud you kiss ???????????

2006-09-24 02:14:11 · 5 answers · asked by don;t know 3

k.i wanna ask this guy out but i dont wanna say "u wanna go out?"wut should i say instead?do i call him and just talk.or do i ask him if he wants to hang out sumtime??please help!

2006-09-24 02:12:41 · 2 answers · asked by babygirl 1

like.. what signals do they give away? especially a guy who doesnt show much of anything.

2006-09-24 02:09:58 · 12 answers · asked by liebe_gott 2

2006-09-24 02:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by begum 2

I just need advice........

2006-09-24 02:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i like this guy but im going around with someone else and he came to know this. i think he likes me but im not sure so after that he told a common friend that he is going around with someone else n this friend told me nobady noes tht i like him. i dont know wat to do i cant ask him coz im not sure if he likes me but sometimes i get the feeling he is looking at me help!!! wat to do and i really like him alot . i know that im going out with one guy n have a crush on the other. but my bf is the perfect guy but i cant stop thinking about this crush should i forget him.... but how is he trying to make me jealous or wat

2006-09-24 02:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by cute gal 2

2006-09-24 02:02:59 · 9 answers · asked by NCD 1

2006-09-24 02:01:32 · 14 answers · asked by Muskaan M 1

help me i need all the adivce i can get

2006-09-24 01:57:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you have a boyfriend/girlfriend that finds it almost impossible to see 2 sides of things sometimes? And when they are wrong, they find this really weird way to flip the script and put it on you?
How do you handle it versus fighting all the time?

2006-09-24 01:50:40 · 15 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1

i mean, someone who is good looking and knows it, he has way too much self confidence and thinks highly of himself (he's cute, smart, but unfortunately knows it). my goal is not to be just another ex-girl on his list, but for him to really think i'm special
opinions?
cheers :)

2006-09-24 01:42:19 · 25 answers · asked by lady xanax 3

I am only 13, but somehow it got out that I am well endowed and now girls much older than me are asking me to go out with them. Why would they be so interested so suddenly?

2006-09-24 01:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by Robert 1

2006-09-24 01:37:08 · 14 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-24 01:36:27 · 29 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-24 01:34:04 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-24 01:33:21 · 21 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-24 01:32:54 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

this is how it is.. i've liked this guy since 5th grade nd since 6th grade he's always had a girlfriend and i didnt want to start anything between me and his girlfriends so i stepped back nd kept my mouth closed all the time.. but this year in 9th he broke up with is girlfriend of a year almost a year nd a half... so since school has started i've been sorta flirting w/ him between 6th nd 7th bc thats wen we see each other the most.... he's always givin me hugs nd crap nd he brings up memories from back when we were younger... my friends say that he might like me but i'm not so sure bc last night at my other friends house people told me that he was makin out with his ex so its not official if they're bac together.... so should i still try to get him or is he already lost?

2006-09-24 01:31:36 · 8 answers · asked by lilryoko214 1

if anyone had any ideas for it! I had a party last year (annual) and it wasn't so great. This year I need some party planning! It's going to have to be scary and fun. It's for teenagers 14-18 (my little sister and her friends are comign too)
Please help! I need scary, easy, cheap, ideas!!!!!!!

2006-09-24 01:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by Yellow_earphones 1

These stories pointed to CDC survey data showing that over 5% of high school women had reported using steroids. According to experts, the women using these drugs are not just high school and college athletes looking for a competitive advantage, but girls with body image problems hoping to achieve a lean and muscular look.Separate data from National Institute of Drug Abuse surveys shows much lower usage among women, indicating that 1.1% of high-school aged women are using steroids. In both cases, the government data shows a disturbing trend, with reported steroid use among women increasing four-fold over the last decade. Stewart is also concerned by a study that showed not only football players and weightlifters, but females in the 9-to-11-year-old age group using them to enhance their build. "That's scary because it means parents are buying them for kids. And it's a scary thing that society is dictating to kids that young that it's OK to put your health at risk to have a body type that seems so critically important," Stewart says.A U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention survey suggested that 5 percent of high school girls have abused steroids. And when the Oregon Health and Sciences University assessed its steroid abuse-prevention programs in 13 Oregon high schools, it found twice as many female non-athletes used steroids as athletes, which researchers attributed to a desire to look thin yet fit.

2006-09-24 01:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

last night we made out for the first time and it was a bad kiss... she moved her head really fast and i tried to use a lil tongue... not a good combination, but now she wont stop blaming herself and its really makin me feel bad, ive already told her it wasnt her fault but she wont listen.... now were goin to the movies and i wanna try to kiss her again but i have no idea wat to say to get her to stop blamin herself PLEASE HELP. my IM name is skyreep1@yahoo.com

2006-09-24 01:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by skylerreep 1

i want to call my ex bf and curse him out and i mean a good down southern cursing. he really hurt me and lied to me and it really hurt. its over between us but i get flash backs of what he did to me and i get mad all over again. i know i need to move on but at this point in time i cant stand his guts and i just get where i want to curse him for it. im trying to stop feeling this way. is there any help out there. i really need some advice and please dont tell me to just move on. i have but i keep having flash backs. time is not healing this. i was down right hurt by this guy and he did it over a period of time. yes i was a crash dummy and kept going back for more. but im out of it now. im just trying to build my confidence back. but i keep having these damn flash backs and my self esteem keeps going up and down like a roller coaster. plz help me.

2006-09-24 01:21:58 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

Can you tell me how to keep a guy as a best nomal friend?If you really like him ,but you don't want any relationship with him? do you think it is difficult? I do really need your help.

2006-09-24 01:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by annesweetyfl 2

I've been talking to this guy I went to school with for a few months. We finally got together in person . I am really into him and want to persue a LTR with him. If we wind up having sex the next time, what kind of message will this give him? I don't want him to think I'm a slut!

2006-09-24 01:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Jane D. 1

I have asked a lot of questions here and this is more or less a continuation of past questions...The other nite after I met this woman I have been dating off and on for 2 years, we had a discussion. She has been waffling back and forth between her ex and me. And she had gone out of town last week and told me she was going to take that time to reflect and make some changes with the ex. She was tired of the ex and her behavior. Basically she said she was done with her and wasnt going to see her anymore. Now, shes back, I asked her about her reflection time---she said yes she had thought about things--she looked away from me. I asked her if anything had changed--she flatly relpied no. I said I didnt think so. She said "well I guess it was meant to be" I said...."yeah ok" and I walked away. I decided I needed to not take any calls from her or speak to her for a few days. Its tough b/c I feel the conversation is really not finished--its not. But I also know I took her by suprise

2006-09-24 01:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-24 01:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by Andy K 1

2006-09-24 01:15:15 · 7 answers · asked by tmac 5

popping out you cherry for the first time could be a pain..i mean real pain...so why say it is? are there any discomfortspresents after or upon having it popped for the first time? can you give me examples? and also,how do you deal with the pain? i know,if it is your first time,you are expected to bleed.and you'll feel like its hard to move or walk and find it painful to urinate..
can i get some explanations on this part? thanks..its also a part of my sex education research report..

2006-09-24 01:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1