Other - Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

My son is 97lbs, 14 yrs old and approx 5'2". He had this heavy set, black girlfriend who seemed to be very sweet. My husband and myself met her parents several times whom seem to be down to earth and not racist and enjoyed my son's company.
His g/f would call here constantly. Well, she came to my son yesterday and told him that she was no longer going to be his friend because "her" parents were making fun of "my" son because he was white, and small, and that her parents would laugh and make comments to her while she was on the phone with my son.
I AM REALLY PISSED! I know deep down inside that he needs to learn about heartbreaks, but this is just way too racist! We teach our children that looks or race, has nothing to do with anyone, it is what is inside that counts the most.
NOT ONCE did we say to him to find a "white" girl, or she is too heavy for you.
I want to call her mom in the worst way and tell her how we feel!
Should I let it go?

2007-09-10 23:59:18 · 19 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7

Do you think it's wrong when an 18 year old trys to be perfect? Perfect job, Perfect teeth, Perfect Relationship, Perfect Boyfriend / Girlfriend, Perfect friends?

2007-09-10 22:22:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is mad at me and i have no idea why...It hurts me so bad...PLZ what can i do :'(

2007-09-10 22:17:56 · 18 answers · asked by AlyssaRose 2

2007-09-10 22:07:23 · 4 answers · asked by HITME 1

2007-09-10 21:25:14 · 9 answers · asked by MissLily 1

AND IN WHAT WAY?

2007-09-10 21:24:31 · 2 answers · asked by MissLily 1

Is it that normal? what can i do to make my wife calm or cheer her up? Please help me thanks

2007-09-10 21:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by pivovaroffjonathan 1

2007-09-10 21:07:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

On my birth certificate why doesnt it say my Fathers state of birth or age..do they just not know?plzzz read?
under fathers age and fathers state of birth it just says "Amend--Auth.:Chapter193RSMO"
whats that mean?!
thanks!

2007-09-10 20:11:54 · 3 answers · asked by goldfish1679 3

this guy at my school keeps sayin to me that i smoke and like calls me a smoker and i need a good comeback to shut him up

any suggestion???

2007-09-10 20:08:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here it is. Sorry if its confusing ><
In 7th grade i slow-danced with the girl of my dream. I knew her since earlier but really started being her friend in 6th. Okay after the slow-dance she asked my friend if the dance was a bet, he said no, when it really wasn't a bet, but all my friends think so because i slow-danced with her, when before we betted on getting to dance even tho i said no.I didnt realize he told the girl it wasnt a bet until 5 months later, so since i thought she thought it was a bet and since she stopped talking to me i thought she hated me so we kind of stopped talking until. beginning of school year[8th] shes still not even saying hi or replying to my hi's. So what should i do? See now i cant tell if she likes me, is mad at me for the bet cuz she thinks i betted, or shes mad at me for not talking to her? also i found out she wanted to slowdance with me at the end of the school.. but she mightve changed over summer plz help i rly like her ALOT real answers plz

2007-09-10 19:57:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think all these children are going to be confused about who they really are ? I want honest opinions about what you think these kids will go through, also what about their children.
I am not a racist it just makes me wonder about the future
especially when I see a mom with two of her kids and one is
black and one is white.

2007-09-10 18:28:50 · 10 answers · asked by Nice Girl101 2

I'm a guy. And I have a wonderful girlfriend who is one year older than me. We love eachother and have fun and go out all the time. But, It's like whenever she wants to get more... Well, you know... I'm just not interested.

I love being with her and spending time going out together, playing guitar and making music, listening to music, watching movies, going out to get some food, some late night coffee... I enjoy it all. And I know she does too.

I don't want to do any of that stuff for some reason. I just love my girl for who she is. And yes, she is one sexy girl too, and I love the way she looks.

But whenever it's time to get more serious, I do it. But I'm just not interested. I just don't like doing that stuff.

It's been that way with every girlfriend... Whether she was a one night thing or not, I was never interested in anything like that. It's just not important to me.

But I don't want to upset her and tell her I don't want to do that stuff. Any ideas on what to do?

2007-09-10 17:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you and your gf split up
but ended up getting back together
&& there was a 50/50 chance
that your gfs baby, that she is pregnant with
could be yours or a different guys,

you love her, and your with her
through the whole pregnancy,
financially, emotionally etc...

After the baby came out and revealed
it wasnt your baby, but the baby looks
more like the mother anyways,
would you be able to love this child
and raise him as your own because you
love your girlfriend, and have been together for a while, or would you leave?
Would it hurt you to know you didnt concieve this child? Or would you be able to get passed it, loving your gf and the baby.

Me and my friend were talking about this
boredum i guess, but i wanted to see what
majority of the guys would say!
girls you can put your imput also!

2007-09-10 17:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4

me and my babys father havent been together since Feb. but we were still friends with a lot of benefits... well ive wanted him back all along and hes never taken me back because ive been to ashamed to ask or even see what his opinions were about it... now that im pregnant he denys the kid being his... and he hasnt talked to me in weeks... he has a new girlfriend and i beat the living hell outta her before hand and he still talked to me after that but now that im pregnant i just dont understand why hes not talking to me now that i found out i was pregnant... am i wrong for wanting him back in my life? or is he wrong for putting me through this?

2007-09-10 17:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by Vicki Kay-Marie 1

2007-09-10 16:38:49 · 1 answers · asked by tiffany_skidmore 1

2007-09-10 16:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband but he has treated me bad. He has cheated on me although I have been faithfull. He says he cheated because I verbally abused him. Whatever!! We are on the verge of a devorice.
I know I need time to heal because I'm hurt real bad.
However there is one thought that eases the pain: spending time with my ex. I havent seen him in 5 years but when I speak to him he makes me melt. I have known him scince I was 18 I'm almost 30 now. He has be emotionlay supportive of my bad relationships. We contact each other about 2 times a year. He is doing well for himself and was engaged. Howerever he broke his engagement after hearing from me recently. I wonder if its because he has alway had hopes of us being togeter. I'm nervous though because I had children on him and he alwasy says that he was supposed to father my children. I love my husband but he's a jerk but I have kids by him.
Should I take the chance and make a date with my ex or try to work it out with Mr. Unfaithfull

2007-09-10 16:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by LIN 1

I don't have many friends and I feel like school's a drag. I'm basically not confident with myself---that includes my looks. I feel like I'm never going to be the "pretty girl" and I don't have the highest grades. Teachers are nice to me, but I'm not confident. I sometimes feel like hiding. I know this sounds dumb, but I'm just feeling this way and wondering if it's NORMAL!!!

2007-09-10 16:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by updo 3

me and my girlfriend are in a ldr for 7 months now almost 8. She tells me she wants to be with me and she loves me but she is sad that Im far and that she has to wait to see me. I love her more than anything and I want her to be happy. I send flowers and care packages all the time to help make the wait easier. But I can feel how sad she is and I dont want her to be sad. Do I let her go or continue work things out with her and find ways to help her get through the wait?

2007-09-10 15:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by JustMe 1

me and a close friend that were trying to become boyfriend and girlfriend got into a huge fight and he actually dragged me across the fall, i cried of course but not in front of him i didnt want him to think that i was that weak. i know i shouldnt talk to him anyone i actually deleted his number but i cant stop thinking about what happen and him. whenever i go out with other boys i get caught up and call them his name. I just need to know how can i get over him? I really need help because I feel like this is affecting my social life bad!

2007-09-10 14:56:08 · 1 answers · asked by Amiah is finally here!!!! 1

Character strenghts, Interests, accomplishments, and
something that YOU are proud of?

My strenght is being positive [does that count?] at bad times
Interested in pursuing a career in law
Accomplishments- got out of a class i didnt want to be. Yup
worked my butt off :)
Im proud of ....can't think of anything right now :(

....your turn!!....

2007-09-10 14:47:57 · 2 answers · asked by Paper Plate 2

I'm a teenager and my absolute favorite band is The Beatles. I'm afraid kids at my school might think i'm nerdy or outdated because of this. will they?? Help!

2007-09-10 14:33:36 · 9 answers · asked by Annie 4

I have a sister who has recently decided that she wanted to start going to a catholic church. I don't judge ppl based on their religion bc we are MORMON. We know what it's like to be persecuted for our religion so we never do it. The problem is this. 3 years ago she was real active in the church and she judged me all the time for the things I did. I'm not a very good mormon but I stick true to what I believe in and no one will ever change my mind about it ever. She always told me I need to get back into going and that I need to stop being so selfish. She stopped going after 2 years and started drinking and smoking....... again. I know she wants to change her religion but it's only bc her b/f isn't mormon. And bc he isn't mormon they can't get married in the temple where mormons get married. Should I tell her its wrong to turn your back on your beliefs and faith all in the name of love or should I just keep my mouth shut and not be a hater? HELP

2007-09-10 14:12:37 · 5 answers · asked by ikaman 1

what if the girl u like is bie, but u dont agree with being gay, but i really like her should i go for it or is bie not gay?

2007-09-10 14:03:56 · 1 answers · asked by justin j 2

i go to college and am tired of asking what classes are you taking, how was your day...i feel like i sound so boring since ive used them forever....what are some cool questions to ask for a good convo?

2007-09-10 13:53:03 · 1 answers · asked by vincent m 2

The thing is,she doesnt believe it when i return home in the afternoon and say that i've been in school.to my surprice,my lecturer showed me an sms from her(guardian),asking if i was in school last week.What can I do to prove to her that I've always been going to school and to get her to trust me.I'm not used to this feeling of being suspected.

2007-09-10 13:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by racksbabe 2

ok so theres this little 6 yr old who lives across the street.
shes a STALKER. she comes to my house every day, and asks if i can play. ( most of the time im doing my hw ) so i say no and shes like ill wait. i HATE this kid, but dont want to be mean to her because shell tell her mom and ill get in trouble. so how do i give her the slip????

HELP please!!!!!

2007-09-10 13:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going away with my boyfriend for the weekend to this apartment. It has a spa in it. It is our 2 year anniversary. He has chosen to cook tea and I want to decorate the bathroom into a nice romantic way. Any ideas?

2007-09-10 13:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 59. My "partner" (whom I love as a very good woman) is 60. Age is no matter, I think.
But I have no physical desire for her, and can't perform!
Advices? (doctors and psychologists only please: I DO love her and want to please her)

2007-09-10 12:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by just "JR" 7