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ok so theres this little 6 yr old who lives across the street.
shes a STALKER. she comes to my house every day, and asks if i can play. ( most of the time im doing my hw ) so i say no and shes like ill wait. i HATE this kid, but dont want to be mean to her because shell tell her mom and ill get in trouble. so how do i give her the slip????

HELP please!!!!!

2007-09-10 13:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

this kid gets so much attention at home
she swears like 24/7 and even in front of her mother, and her mom is like GOOD JOB.

im 13

2007-09-10 23:08:39 · update #1

7 answers

tell her you are grounded for a year!

2007-09-10 13:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole J 1 · 0 0

You don't say how old you are. It sounds like she really wants/needs some attention. You have the opportunity to show her what it's like to be treated well.

Make her a deal. Say you will do one thing with her, like play a game of Old Maid, or something. Or pick something else, dolls, or restaurant or something. Say you will do it for 15 minutes, and after that she will have to go home. Get her to agree to that before you begin. Then once she agrees, set a timer and tell her that when it rings, 15 minutes is up and it's time to go. When this actually happens, she will try to talk you out of making her go. But you will say that she promised, and if she keeps her promises, you will do it again tomorrow (or Saturday, or whenever you can stand it... don't over-tax yourself here).

Be patient and fair. You were six once. Six year olds have a terrific sense of fair and she will honor her agreement if you have been up front with her. You will be teaching her character.

Who knows, maybe she will give you a kidney some day, you never know. ;-)

2007-09-10 13:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0 0

How old are you.? I guess sometimes some kids can be bothersom. But if she is not too young for your age,someday she will grow up and maybe that you two will be great friends. Just sit down and tell her she can't come over every day. That you have homework and other chores you have to do. Mabey you could play a game or two with her for about an hour then tell her it is time for her to go home and you will see her in two or three days. Good luck

2007-09-10 13:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by franfifi@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

ok first of all she prob. comes over because she looks up to you! Don't hurt her feelings, but tell her that you really have somethings to do. if that doesn't work talk to her mother. tell her that you don't mind playing with her, but not everyday as you need to get your homework and things like that done. Then maybe set up a time, maybe once a week, for a couple of hours to play with her. If her mom gets an attitude, it's prob. because she looks at the situation as being a "built in " babysitter. If her mom gets an attitude then stop answering the door, or go to a friends house to do homework and hangout............point is she is six and will get over it.

2007-09-10 13:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

O.k., this is funny. However, you are the adult and she is the kid. Be upfront, tell her parents you don't appreciate her coming over like that. It is ok--you have a right to your time and you need not play with a child. Where are her parents when all of this is going on--I bet mom is lying on the couch watching TV and using you as a babysitter.

2007-09-10 14:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Leorita 2 · 0 0

properly, i'm the stalker that generally stalks people everywhere between the age of seventy seven-one hundred. the way you need to get rid of persons like me is a approach or the different warn me which you have AIDS, or if im there to purely kill you, in simple terms initiate making me think of that your loopy too. Then we could be superb lady friends for all times!

2016-11-14 21:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by blinebry 4 · 0 0

sounds to me like the little girl is emotionally in trouble. she seems to not be getting the desired attention she needs at home and is looking for it in you. you perhapse have taken her under your wing in an issue or two of hers and she sees your probably like an older sister or even a mother figure. if the problem persists i'd definately consult her mother and father on this matter if it gets worse.

2007-09-10 13:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by james_stailey@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0 0

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