I'm a guy. And I have a wonderful girlfriend who is one year older than me. We love eachother and have fun and go out all the time. But, It's like whenever she wants to get more... Well, you know... I'm just not interested.
I love being with her and spending time going out together, playing guitar and making music, listening to music, watching movies, going out to get some food, some late night coffee... I enjoy it all. And I know she does too.
I don't want to do any of that stuff for some reason. I just love my girl for who she is. And yes, she is one sexy girl too, and I love the way she looks.
But whenever it's time to get more serious, I do it. But I'm just not interested. I just don't like doing that stuff.
It's been that way with every girlfriend... Whether she was a one night thing or not, I was never interested in anything like that. It's just not important to me.
But I don't want to upset her and tell her I don't want to do that stuff. Any ideas on what to do?
2007-09-10 17:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
speeking as a girl, you should be proud of that. 98358747823578964320375 girls woul kill to have a guy like that. if she doesnt respect you for that, its not right.
2007-09-10 17:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jessiexxlove 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's possible that you may be what is called asexual. That is when a person has no interest at all for sex or sexual relations. There is nothing wrong with it, it's just how you feel. I definitely think you should look more into it and determine for yourself if you are. There are also support groups and stuff of that nature for people who are. As for your girlfriend maybe you should just tell her what you told us here on Yahoo answers. Maybe have her read exactly what you wrote and see what she has to say about it. Good luck. I hope it all works out for you!
2007-09-10 18:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
like what everyone else said, your girl is hella lucky.
i think that it shouldn't really be a problem for her, but if she's the kind of girl that it WOULD be a problem for, just tell her how it is. that's all you really can do.
do it in a way where she won't be all "OMG baby, you don't love me anymore!" or whatevs.
suggest to her that she should wait for when the time is right, otherwise it's just awkward & to just wait for when you actually want to so it doesn't feel like you're obligated to do whatever
ya dig?
2007-09-10 17:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell her excatly that!
if she gets mad or upset
then she doesnt like you for you!
it might be a wierd thing tho
did she give her virginity to you?
therefor she wants it because shes
never experienced it. me and my
boyfriend used to do it so much
when we first started dating
but its slowed down over the years
so just talk to her and be open
thats all you can do
2007-09-10 17:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey man, that is your prerogative. Talk ti over with your friend. If she is a real true friend, it won't matter.
2007-09-10 17:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If sexual intercourse doesnot interest you, perhaps an oral job may just do the job.
take care
2007-09-10 19:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nothin wrong with that man, more girls for us deviants :D i joke but seriously if you dont like it then you dont like it. If she cant accept it, well nothing you can do but move on
2007-09-10 18:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Congrats.. you're one of very few guys who prefers to keep it in his pants.
And no, that isn't sarcasm =]
2007-09-10 17:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should talk to a doctor and see what they have to say then you can explain it to her so she will understand better!
2007-09-10 17:54:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sheesh.. what a loser....
He has a girlfriend but DOESN'T want to be intimate with her....? WTF?
I feel so sorry for her.
2007-09-10 17:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋