me and my babys father havent been together since Feb. but we were still friends with a lot of benefits... well ive wanted him back all along and hes never taken me back because ive been to ashamed to ask or even see what his opinions were about it... now that im pregnant he denys the kid being his... and he hasnt talked to me in weeks... he has a new girlfriend and i beat the living hell outta her before hand and he still talked to me after that but now that im pregnant i just dont understand why hes not talking to me now that i found out i was pregnant... am i wrong for wanting him back in my life? or is he wrong for putting me through this?
2007-09-10 17:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by Vicki Kay-Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your not wrong for wanting him back
and now that your pregnant
your going to have alot of emotion
and your hormones are going
to get to you big time!
but just stick with it youll be okay
just get a DNA test when the babies out
show him, and make him pay!
even if he doesnt want to see the baby
you dont need someone like that in your babies life anyways!
just plan for that baby
and get excited for him/her
thats the only thing you should be worried about
congrats! ♥
2007-09-10 17:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to make someone else pregnant, so he can treat them like he is treating you, dummy. So stop bothering him. When he gets 3 or 4 women pregnant, he'll come crying back to you, when everyone else finds out what a piece of s*** he is.
2007-09-11 00:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like yall are kind of young. He is probably scared. If he dont feel for you, then you are probably wasting your time. But you are not wrong. He could try and be more supportive as im sure these are hard times. but remember its hard for him to. (not as much maybe but it still is)
2007-09-11 00:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both are wrong you need to let that fool go. do you really want a fool who's gonna play games like that when it comes to his own children??? do yourself and you babies a favor and move on
2007-09-11 01:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by da_chica_nikita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't wanna shovel out the money for the kid.
2007-09-11 00:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start focusing on how you are going to make your kid's lives fabulous. they don't deserve to be born to messed up people like yourselves. take him to court to get child support and then grow up and take responsibility for yourself and your kids.
2007-09-11 00:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋