If you and your gf split up
but ended up getting back together
&& there was a 50/50 chance
that your gfs baby, that she is pregnant with
could be yours or a different guys,
you love her, and your with her
through the whole pregnancy,
financially, emotionally etc...
After the baby came out and revealed
it wasnt your baby, but the baby looks
more like the mother anyways,
would you be able to love this child
and raise him as your own because you
love your girlfriend, and have been together for a while, or would you leave?
Would it hurt you to know you didnt concieve this child? Or would you be able to get passed it, loving your gf and the baby.
Me and my friend were talking about this
boredum i guess, but i wanted to see what
majority of the guys would say!
girls you can put your imput also!
2007-09-10 17:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Stephanie Louise♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well im not a guy,but i can say my mum was pregnant with me when she met my step dad.He stayed. Both my parents are white, im brown, n i also have 2 sisters that are his baby's.I was always treated fair n he loves me just as much as my sisters.So i think it all comes down to how strong the love is................
2007-09-10 17:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Vip buddy... 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a woman but it can honestly go either way. For one, my mother married my step-father when I was 9 months old. He has always treated me just like a biological child and continues to do so. He's always been my "Daddy" and we love each other the same as most fathers and daughters. My son's father lived several states away and we weren't really in a committed relationship until our son was three months old. My ex-boyfriend did everything he could to support me, but honestly wasn't equipped for the job- he wanted me, not my son (at least not until he was old enough to actually play with- and I have serious doubts about his abilities with a child of his own) and as soon as my son was born, he wanted me to dump him on my mother and continue going out and playing. Fortunately for my son, I chose to be his mother full time. In any case, it all depends on the man, but when there's a child involved- the child comes first and unless the man can accept that, then he's not worth it. FYI- my son's father and I are married now and have a daughter together.
2007-09-11 00:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is interesting. Because the way i feel, no matter what happens you are not the child's father. And i think any father who wants to, deserves to be a part of his children's life. I think if it came to that. I would still raise the child but at some point i would tell him/her i am not his biological father.
2007-09-11 01:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could love the child, nothing is the child's fault. But the real dad would have one bad day in court with the mom. I would see to that. He would either pay support for the child, or spend his time in prison.
2007-09-11 00:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i raise a little girl from the time she was 2wks old she is now 29 i love her as my own and she still calls me dad
2007-09-11 00:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by furmanator1957 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope.
As long as I'm not forced to raise the child and it HAS other family members, then we go our separate ways.
No fuss. No muss.
2007-09-11 00:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i love my girl friend she has three kids and a baby that is not mine or hers and i love him and hers the same
2007-09-11 00:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by infoman89032 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
real men would.
2007-09-11 00:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋