Other - Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

2007-09-11 23:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by bipin s 1

Well I'm going out with this guy who is totaly sweet and pretty cute. We decided to go out with each other yesterday. The thing I'm worried about is his best friend who is a girl. I learned she had told him she liked him and he said he liked her back. This was about two days ago. My friend said he still likes me more and now were going out like I said before. His friend is a major drama queen and can get anything to go her way by being this way. I'm afraid she'll get upset about us going out and then start a scene. And like another time with one of her friends, she ends up going out with the guy because he felt bad. I really don't want this to happen I like this guy so much. What should I do if she trys this stunt?

2007-09-11 23:21:19 · 1 answers · asked by Glossy Hair 2

My grandfather passed away on Monday and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. I last saw him in hospital at the end of last week and he was pretty bad and we were told he may not pull through the weekend but it doesnt feel any easier even though I was kinda expecting it. Any family members that have passed away in my life have all been when I was under 11 yrs old so it had a different effect on me back then

Now I keep getting an overwhelming rush of sadness and my insides feel so heavy that I can hardly breathe then I just breakdown. He was my last grandparent and it feels like then end of an era. Will it get easier after the funeral? How do other people cope with death...

2007-09-11 22:20:17 · 17 answers · asked by j~h~c~s 2

if i bring my gf to mardi gras in feb 08 is it likely if she flashes she will be groped or is that rare

2007-09-11 18:33:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 17:48:01 · 8 answers · asked by beingMe22 1

What are some ways to gain confidence? I am a very insecure person with very few (maybe even none really) friends, and I get nervous whenever I meet people, and I have trust issues. People have been really mean to me throughout my life mainly through jr. high and high school and it has ruined my self-esteem. How do I get it back? I try to fix myself up, but I guess feeling good about the way you look doesn't compensate for the way you feel about who you are. Someone please help!

2007-09-11 17:30:56 · 3 answers · asked by Miss K 1

he grabs my hand & drags me out the room.
he had a depressed look on his face so I asked him what was wrong, and he replies "you confuse me" and kisses me.
well, why is he so serious? was it because he was really that interested in me?

2007-09-11 16:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 16:49:05 · 2 answers · asked by marcus 1

If a person had something happen to them when they were younger, something that they find hard to talk about or even want to acknowledge, should that person ever tell the person they are in a relationship with?

2007-09-11 16:48:31 · 2 answers · asked by MiltonGuy 2

how can you find out what model mobile phone someone has that you cant ask them yourself?

What other methods can you do to find out?

2007-09-11 16:47:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think this gives them a vibe of you or something??

2007-09-11 16:43:06 · 1 answers · asked by J 1

We've recently moved to a new, much smaller city so that my husband can complete his Bachelor's Degree. The city's population is predominantly Caucasian & Christian. We are African Americans of the Islamic faith.
My daughter is a very social girl (pre-teen). She's made many friends in our neighborhood, but not at school (she's in middle school & the children in our neighborhood are either in elementary or in high school--so none of her schoolmates are neighbors of ours).
Being a small town, everyone seems to know everyone and cliques have long been formed. My daughter is being left out. She tries & tries, with no avail, to make friends. She's never had this problem before. She's a SWEETHEART & everyone always LOVES HER!! Honestly, she's TOO nice--the people pleaser type.
The only time they let her with them is when they wish to be cruel. They make her the butt of every joke & they cheat to make her lose & they mock her & completely ignore her when she speaks to them! How can I help

She ends up quitting & "takes a walk" so they won't see her cry. Now they won't let her play at all. This has happened a few times already & it's just the 5th day of school! She cries every day as she walks alone (she doesn't let them see her cry). And she fights back tears on the bus & during breakfast because no one will sit with her. Please, any advice would be wonderful. How can I help her?

2007-09-11 16:42:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Keyser Söze was a character in the Usual Suspects.

Basically, he was like the guy behind the curtain in the Wizard of Oz. The reputation far exceeds the actual man.

I've met a few Keyser Sözes.

2007-09-11 16:21:45 · 1 answers · asked by Question Monster 4

How would you feel if someone close to you says I want to spend more time alone than withyou? Ive been with my bf for 3 years & Ive always felt that he was the one. But it wasnt until recently that he told me what I wrote above. I fallen in love with him and he's fallen in love with me, but what he said to me hurt me. & I dont know whether to break up with him or not. He has always beenkind to me and gentle, loyal, loving and affectionate, but he is not so romantic and I only see him once a week. I could see him more but I feel like he doesnt want to, Ill ask him if he wants to go out with me and he will usually say no, or he's busy, when i call him he's busy, so he calls me instead. I know he wouldnt cheat, i know. but he doesnt want to be with me as much as i want to be with him. When we get into arguments he treats me like a child and tells me how i should feel, and it hurts me because i know he's not listening. This guy is honest and caring, and he is very spiritual.

2007-09-11 16:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by roxanne14877 2

Aren't Christians supposed to be honest, so why can't I be honest about the errors in the Bible without people calling me an unbeliever. Would I be a believer if I lied and claimed the Bible contains no lies or distortions, when every Christian who is honest with himself knows they exist in fairly large numbers?

2007-09-11 16:02:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been dating a year and we're juniors and she acts like we're still super young and said our youth pastor and friends are afraid we're too serious and we asked them and they dont think that at all.
she said i seemed insecure and am always calling to see what he's doing. um i never do that! thats obsessive. i had an abusive bf so i have a right to be kinda insecure atleast.
how can i get over the things she's said? they hurt really bad..

2007-09-11 15:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 22, got married way to earlier, had the whole world figured out. I supposedly got married so that I could change the world, and fullfil my purpose in life. That was my belief systeem. My wife left shortly after the love we had died. This was a wake up call that my belief system was highly flawed. Now I question the reliablity of our creator, and the purpose we have in life? Why do some die and some live? Is it Gods divine plan or is it all by chance? Why do the bad people always come out on top? Why do we have empty faith? How do we heal from a loss of beliefs?

2007-09-11 15:07:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister that lives in Memphis (me in Mobile Al) Called me today and asked me if I would take her 2 1/2 son from her for awhile.
She is single and having trouble finding someone to keep him while she works. She is also having trouble paying bills and taking care of him.
His father is out of the picture, so that is not an option.

Well, I have 3 kids myself and a husband that is a handful himself. It is going to be alot of stress on me and my husband. But, I told her yes.. What else can I say? I want my nephew to be safe and taken care of.
Any Advice... or words of wisdom. ?

2007-09-11 15:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by stacie m 4

my boyfriend plays soccer and the soccer team is playing our school's biggest rival. it's the one game that he most wanted me to come and watch him play, but unfortunately i have to work. the game begins and ends while im working. this game is really important and i really want to make it up to him. any ideas?

2007-09-11 14:52:57 · 1 answers · asked by heyyy! 2

2007-09-11 14:31:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my baby daddy broke up when i was 5 months pregnant! He started dating this girl a month later! He still calls me and comes by to see she his daughter. I kept telling him how me and him should work things out for months! He always gave me hints and clues like "there is so many things that we would have to fix!" He had been trying to mess with me on the low...but i told him i was about to get married! Then when i tell him that he tells me he will leave his girlfriend if i leave my fiance! I told him to leave her first to see what he would say and he says " no because if you dont leave him i will be left high and dry by myself"! What the hell i'm so confused on what he wants! I do care because i would love to put my family back together. But i dont want to look like i need him so bad! Help! What should i do!

2007-09-11 13:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley S 1

2007-09-11 13:34:31 · 5 answers · asked by jlw22369 2

2007-09-11 13:28:17 · 1 answers · asked by helloitsme 2

My girlfriend and i have just started a long distance relationship as i have moved to the UK and she plans to move here shortly. I have moved here with her approval to get a better job, more money and our own place to live. I'm busy everyday doing job applications, lining up interviews and so on and at the same time, studying for higher qualifications to get a better job so she can feel more secure. At the end of the day, i'm tired and just want to relax. At night, however, when we talk, i want to have Phone Sex with her because it helps me relax and also helps me sleep because it relaxs me. I mean, thats the closest to sex i'll get until she moves over. She knows this too but somehow, i feel i have to beg for it. Am i being unreasonable that i want that connection. If it helps me relax, am i asking too much considering i'm doing everything i can so she can move over and i can give her a better life? Am i wrong????? Someone please help!!!

2007-09-11 13:11:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a sophomore in high school and I still can't seem to get along with my parents (mainly my mom). It's everyday we yell and argue and everything. However, when my dad's home we get along most of the time, but there still is some arguments and it gets pretty heated. Those I can work out, but I love my dad a lot and want to have an "awesome" relationship with him, not an average one. But about my mom, we just can't seem to get a long, and I am getting to the point of hating her, I don't want to but I do. We get in so many arguments and it's terrible. It seems like they think they are always right and whatever they say goes, they say they deserve respect but they never give me any. It's not fair at all. What am I supposed to do? I'm SCARED of them. I want a better relationship with them.

2007-09-11 12:59:08 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 & my favorite teacher is the choir one. she is really funny & nice. so after class, i told her she was my favorite. she was smiling & laughing. she told me thank you. then i went back one hour later & told her the same thing. she was in a bad mood. i said "hey your my favorite teacher." she said "yeah, right. you will see later." what does that mean? she sounded crabby & she was yelling at me. i just said bye & left. does she hate me? what does "ya right. you will see later" mean? she always makes me sit out of class when were singing becuz i have a bad voice. what does she mean? why was she nice then mean

2007-09-11 12:55:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have them pay me the interest/ payments that I had to make? Am I being a heel? My brother was killed in a car accident about 8 months ago and had no life insurance. My parents had no money. They were in shock and barely able to do anything. I put the funeral on my credit card. It was about $16000.00 dollars and my credit card interest rate is 18%. I made several large payments from my cash savings. I got it down to $7,300.
They are settling his estate.They got $50,000 from the car insurance , so they will pay me back from that.
They have asked what amount I expect. Am I a heel to expect the interest and payments back???? From the figures I have given what would be that amount? Any and all advice would be appreciated

2007-09-11 12:54:23 · 2 answers · asked by yeah , yeah whatever 6

ok so heres the deal.. I am dating a guy who lives in Penn. and I live in TX. we have been dating for 9 months now and his birthday is coming up and he will be 21. I want to go visit him but he would keep me there and make sure that I'm safe cause here Im always getting hit and cut by my family. I want to make him really happy and for him to have the best birthday ever so what do you think i should do?? If i did go visit him i need almost $200 so if theres anyway i could get it (im 15) i would love to go and stay with him! plz help me out

and yes i do know that it is illegal but both of our parents know about us and they don't care

2007-09-11 11:56:11 · 1 answers · asked by love struck 1

2007-09-11 11:50:52 · 5 answers · asked by hermecshec 2

OK so me and my boyfriend broke up and now were getting back together! but we are going to concluling dose anyone know if it will wrok? i mean we both need it but does it really work?, it is worth the money? help me!

2007-09-11 11:33:55 · 1 answers · asked by Tiffany 1