Me and my baby daddy broke up when i was 5 months pregnant! He started dating this girl a month later! He still calls me and comes by to see she his daughter. I kept telling him how me and him should work things out for months! He always gave me hints and clues like "there is so many things that we would have to fix!" He had been trying to mess with me on the low...but i told him i was about to get married! Then when i tell him that he tells me he will leave his girlfriend if i leave my fiance! I told him to leave her first to see what he would say and he says " no because if you dont leave him i will be left high and dry by myself"! What the hell i'm so confused on what he wants! I do care because i would love to put my family back together. But i dont want to look like i need him so bad! Help! What should i do!
2007-09-11 13:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To cut a very long answer short. I don't believe that either one of you are really ready for a real commitment. You are getting married but will call it off if he breaks up with his girlfriend? He wants to wait to see what you do because he is afraid of not having somebody in his bed? In the meantime, you two are seeing each other on the low? The very best thing that you could do right now is to put a stop to everything and just wait and see what happens. Otherwise there are 4 different people that could be hurt by the actions of you two.
2007-09-11 13:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for the baby and your fiance. You obviously got pregnant before finishing school from your spelling and grammar. If you really love your fiance then marry him and keep the visits from the baby's daddy very infrequent. Let your soon to be husband be the go between and that will help.
If you found a good man who will marry and support you and another man's baby then you should thank your lucky stars. As for the Baby's daddy - he's an idiot who obviously wants his cake and to be able to eat it too. Keep contact with him to a minimum.
2007-09-11 13:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by NewGrandma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 08:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, you are just jumping from one to the other. Doesn't sound like you have feelings for your baby daddy or your fiance. Think you should just stay away from any relationship for a while until you can sort your feelings out. Make sure you are getting child support for your baby though.
2007-09-12 13:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 23:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by bojan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl it sounds like too much drama. he can still be in your baby's life. but you deserve to be happy and not have to question if your man wants you or not. he should treat you like a queen, not be playing games witchu.
2007-09-11 13:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by phlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player.
What family needs that noise?
2007-09-11 14:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither of you are ready to committ... .
2007-09-11 14:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-11 14:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋