The thing is,she doesnt believe it when i return home in the afternoon and say that i've been in school.to my surprice,my lecturer showed me an sms from her(guardian),asking if i was in school last week.What can I do to prove to her that I've always been going to school and to get her to trust me.I'm not used to this feeling of being suspected.
2007-09-10 13:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by racksbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as YOU know...and keep it up, she will learn.
Trust is earned by time.
2007-09-10 20:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep going to school every day like you're supposed to. If you can do a little extra to help out at home without being asked, then that will show that you are responsible. If you go somewhere, be sure to be truthful about where you're going and with whom. Be responsible with your school work and homework. She will continue to check up on you for some time, and when she realizes that you're really doing what you're supposed to be doing, then she will learn to trust you. I'll bet she's checking up on you because she wants the best for you. Hang in there.
2007-09-10 13:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be where you're supposed to be, and ignore her suspicions, without being unpleasant in any way. If she's paranoid and doing this simply to make you feel bad, she may never stop, but acting annoyed or upset will only make it go on longer (perhaps forever), because it's playing into her hand. Truly not letting it bother you is the only thing that will get it to stop. If she never learns you're not where you're supposed to be, AND it never gets a rise out of you, eventually she'll get bored and stop.
You don't say why she's doing this. Have you ever skipped school before? Did she have kids who skipped school before?
2007-09-10 13:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it, you have a right to be respected and be trusted as long as you have earned it and kept it. Show her the papers you get in school that day. It sounds like you have some issues you need to address with your guardian and i wouldnt let much time go before you confront him/her
2007-09-10 14:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just need to do the right things and to be truthful about them so you can earn her trust. It just takes time. If you really work at this; it will happen. She will learn to trust you. Trust is a very special thing.
2007-09-10 13:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the school to contact her and confirm you have been attending school,if you are in some type of care then you should discuss this with your social worker if you have one,if you havent got one,just contact your local social services department,and im sure they will help you out,i hope this helps you out,and good luck for the future.
Greg.B
2007-09-10 13:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by TS100N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not doing anything wrong then what is the big deal it shouldn't bother you at all her checking up on you. By her doing that she will see that you are doing everything you say your doing then she will stop checking up on you and everything will be fine again between the two of you. Just don't sweat it and she will stop soon.
2007-09-10 13:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep doing it every day sooner or later she will be tired of asking u and just trust u
2007-09-10 13:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time just time
2007-09-10 13:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋