Other - Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

My sister has lived with her partner for 11 years, they have 3 kids together but she has recently decided to leave him (for various reasons) where do we go next?! she wants to move areas to come near me so i can help out but we dont know where to start, i rang housing assosiates but they said 6mths to 3yrs waiting list. he wont move out and she is scared.
anybody been through this who knows what to do!!! Thanks in advance..x

2007-04-09 22:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I actually didnt think he would be this obcessed with it he played it all weekend and i mean didn't even leave the house. My friend said look forward to no sex and no convosations out of him for a while lol mayb i should take the main lead from the pc some nights and hide it or is that really mean lol

2007-04-09 22:27:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that if you are 14 and you are mature enough to make your own decisions and dating an older man is one of them, Nobody should stop you. As long as you are not sexually active with the person whats the problem? And if you consensually do so then I dont think its a problem either. Opinions Please.

2007-04-09 22:12:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

* Clean armpits, just give it 20 minutes after bath, so to gain the natural texture & sweat!

2007-04-09 22:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 20:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ali R 1

I met this guy about 2 years ago who used to attend the same university as I, but he transfered to another school in the same city. I always thought he was cute and secretly liked him a little bit. Recently we've been running into each other a lot and a few weeks ago we exchanged phone numbers and have been talking occasionally. Last Saturday, he came over and we had sex. I've talked to him twice since then, but I can't tell if he likes me or if he's just being nice by calling and answering the phone when I call. Now I feel like he won't respect me, even though after it happened we talked and he said he would. Was it too soon? Do you think I've messed up my chances with him?

2007-04-09 20:06:54 · 18 answers · asked by ma07 3

My boyfriend is the jealous type. He cannot stand me talking to any of my guy friends. I live with him and everything is great. But when he drinks, he brings up stuff that has nothing to do with us now. Its been a year of us living together. I have a 3yr old boy thats not his, and he takes real good care of him. My biggest problem with him is how hes so controlling of what i do, where i go, and who i talk to... Im not sure i can continue like this. I love him to death, but i need my space. I've tried talking to him about how i feel. He told me this last week, "Whats the point of me being here if hes not gonna be able to tell me what to do." I know im a good housewife and everything but this is too much for me. What do you think i should do? Stay and keep on trying? Or just leave for good? The seven years i known him changed alot from the momment we moved in together.......

2007-04-09 20:06:11 · 12 answers · asked by kissy13 1

At first, it's a torrid romance, Then before you know it, the husband acts like a kid and the wife acts like a nagging mother. The husband acts all afraid of what his wife will think of everything and she thinks he can't ever tie his own shoes right.

People enjoy this kind of relationship?

2007-04-09 20:01:48 · 11 answers · asked by JD 4

2007-04-09 19:28:10 · 26 answers · asked by H M 1

It's no only with men it's friends, school, family, and myself. i don't understand it i know i have good friends, i'm smart, my family loves me. but i feel like i'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop and the life that i'm living will get ruined some how. i don't understand why i can't stop the thoughts that every dicision that i make is wrong and at some point i'll be penalilzed and everything will just disapear. i need ideas or something this is ruining mylife.
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2007-04-09 16:56:00 · 1 answers · asked by lovlyll 2

I am 17 years old now, and I was 17 years then. About 7 months ago I went to visit my best friend in another country. I slept at her house.I was interested in one of her friends, we got along good.One night when my friend was out, I stayed at her house. This guy came to the door and asked if her brother was there, I said no. He went to his car, came back and ask me if I wanted to go ride. I said "ya ok" because I thought his friend(the boy i was into) was in the car aswell..(windows tinted) I went in the car and only him was there. He was kinda cute, anyways we went to his mom's place, both went to his room and talked/exchanged email addresses. you know friendly. Then he started kissing me, I was a virgin. he got on top of me and all that, I told him i didnt wanted to have sex.He said he wasnt tryin to. He"Slipped"it half way in, and i said "No stop" he said ok ill just let it "sit". I said "no please get off" he got off and acted all normal.The next day i felt so disgusted
Was I rape?

2007-04-09 15:45:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous 2

Which love is most like you and your fiance/husband/boyfriend?
1. Rachel McAdams and Ryan Goseling in the Notebook
2. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie in Mr.&Mrs.Smith
3. Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis in That 70's Show
4. Billy Cambell and Jennifer Lopez in Enough
5. Hilary Duff adn Chad Michael Murray in A Cinderella Movie
7. John Stamos and Lori Loghlin in Full House
8. Tobey Maguire and Kirsten Dunst in Spider Man
9. Mandy Moore and Shane West in A Walk To Remember
10. Jennifer Lopez and Matthew McConaughey in The Wedding Planner
11. Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson in How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days
12. Omar Epps and Sanaa Lathan in Love & Basketball
13. Amanda Peterson and Patrick Dempsey in Can't Buy Me Love
14. Reese Witherspoon and Josh Lucas/Patrick Dempsey in Sweet Home Alabama
15. Jesse Metcalfe and Brittany Snow, Sophia Bush, Ashanti and Arrielle Kebbel in John Tucker Must Die
16. Ashton Kutcher and Zoe Saldana in Guess Who
If Other list them and where from :-D

2007-04-09 15:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 13:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 12:58:38 · 6 answers · asked by SPARKY 5

He stinks at sex because he's not horny when we do it.
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2007-04-09 12:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girl that I work with in a restaurant is using heavy drugs(crystal meth), with terrible results....I don't even like the girl, she gets on my nerves all the time....but her mother is extremely nice, comes into the restaurant at times. Should I tell this girl's mother? I don't want to break my heart.....considering I don't even like the girl should I just not worry about it and mind my own business? I think I would be much better off if I had not found out.

2007-04-09 12:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by FordExploder 2

I have 3 boys and am expecting again, I thought I would help out my sister-in-law and watch her kids while she worked since I am a stay at home mom, so I told her 20.00 a day since she has 2 kids there ages are 8 months and 2 1/2, mine are 5,2,1 so my hands and everything else are full when I watch them, she acts like she shouldn't pay me because we are family, shouldn't I get paid. what do u think?

2007-04-09 11:32:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. There is this person in your family, that you really dislike. But you have to keep peace with this person for the sake of other family members, so you can't talk to anyone, not even the person you dislike. And everyone told you that you could trust the person that you dislike, even if you didn't even want to trust them. And, you needed a babysitter. There was no other option but to trust the person that you don't like, and come to find out, the person hurt what they were supposed to take care of and betrayed you...and another thing that hurts is you can't do anything or say anything to anyone!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-04-09 11:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

do i have to live a holy life from now on so that I could have her as my wife in the future?

2007-04-09 11:23:54 · 1 answers · asked by kennethau03 2

What if your HUSBAND never wanted to spend any time with you? What if he hung out with YOUR children all the time on the weekends and never said, "Hey, honey, let's spend some "couple" time together?

Just because my boyfriends kids aren't mine, don't take me for a bimbo who is selfish and shallow.
We both work all week, and I don't even get home until 9:00pm every night....the weekends are ALL we have, unless we just want a quick bang and then "good night".........

I'm NOT a selfish person.....the kids and I do a lot together, and I don't resent them....I DO resent that I cook and clean and pay bills and basically run the whole house but I can't get any appreciatetion for it.....what the hell is wrong with me wanting some "grown-up" time with him?

And I'm sorry, but HE can go on weekend fishing trips without me or the kids, but he can't take ONE DAMN WEEKEND to make some time for just the two of us?

2007-04-09 11:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by spun up's evil inner child 2

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Got a void in your life?
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2007-04-09 10:08:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

sister disinherited, now she is calling and leaving crying/nasty messages on answer mach, cellphone, and by e'mail, and had her 16yr old daughter write a nasty letter and sent it through the mail saying how much she hates us?

2007-04-09 09:35:27 · 22 answers · asked by tamilynn 3

if so, what does is say about their feelings towards their partner?

2007-04-09 09:26:15 · 30 answers · asked by anamaye 1

There is this teacher at my school and she is attractive. She was leaving the math lab today, and me and a guy sitting next to me were watching her leave. She kind of stopped and looked back. The look on her face was saying "Quit looking at me, creep."

I couldn't tell if she was looking at me or him or whatever, but the look on her face was stunning. I don't stalk anyone, especially her, but her reaction was like she was saying that I gawk at her or something.

I mean she hasn't said anything, but it's pissed me off to the point where I won't do it again.

What do you think?

2007-04-09 08:19:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her brother raped her as far back as she can remeber and now she blames herself because she didnt tell him to stop doing it until she turned 7/8 then she told a family member and now they disown him and she thinks the reason they hate him is her fault also. She grew up being raped by her brother so thats all she knew until she became of age when she realized it was wrong So how can i help her understand or what can i do?

2007-04-09 07:24:25 · 32 answers · asked by unknown 1

My boyfreind for 5 year think i aways messing arould on him and i never once cheat on him

2007-04-09 07:03:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 06:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by blindedbyred 2

My wife wants to be the boss in our house. She wants to try to decide by herself without consulting me. Moreover, she doesnt tell me where will she go, also the time of her return. If I am mad, she shows that she is more angry than I am. I want to avoid conflict, but it seems its too much.I feel pain all the time, but I dont understand her attitude. What should I do?

2007-04-09 06:50:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-09 03:44:42 · 13 answers · asked by Kain 5

Do anyone think that we can find true love in chat rooms?

2007-04-09 03:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by kath m 1