how do manage to maintain good sex life in the presence of work stress and children exhausting you?

Answer 1

MAKE time for each other - hire a babysitter and get out - go for a meal and try to chill out - I'm afraid you have to find a cut off point for work related stress - don't bring it home - leave it at the door of workplace - or try to have a five minute moaning session when you get home where BOTH of you can tell each other what type of day you have had - then stop - don't drag it out - this is a case of LESS IS MORE.

Ask a family member if they can have your kids overnight once in a while (return the favour for them) and enjoy the peace and quiet when you have it -

Answer 2

It's a must that you take time out with your partner as much as you can. Do you have anyone that can look after the kids for an evening or the night? If so ask them to have the kids and plan a night for you and you partner. Have a romantic meal, take a bath together. give each other a massage. Its the little things like that that are important but you both have to make the effort to have sometime together so you don't forget the passion and remember why you fell in love. If you don't get time there are little things you can do that don't take much time but keep your passion alive. Leave him notes around the house for him to find or send him a message telling him that you love him. Be creative there are lots of ways to maintain a good sex life even if it's just a quickie in the morning is good and will make you smile for the rest of the day

Answer 3

Make your sex life a priority in your life. Hey, we make time to work, clean the house, and take care of the kids, so we should make time to enjoy time with our spose too.

Take the kids to a sitter for an evening, and enjoy some alone time. Get up a litte earlier in the morning for some fun before the kids wake up.

If there is a will, there is a way.

Answer 4

Make it part of everyday life - I can't get to sleep without it. We both work full time and have a young family so it can be done. Oh, we both make sure we are at home for 5.30pm to 5.45pm latest so we get time with the children. After they go to bed we relax and then get down to it and then go to sleep. If its part of your everyday life, you just do it without really having to think about it or work yourself up to it. You find you are ready and willing as soon as its practical! Good luck.

Answer 5

Your responsibities in life are starting to take precedence over the activities of youth and young adulthood that "feel good."

This is a good thing, and there comes a time when all of us need to grow in such a fashion.

Liberals will never tell you this (because they don't have a clue), but the less sex we have as we get older, the better.

Answer 6

arrange for an evening a week where the kids go to a friend place and stay order a take away and relax then have a nice sexy evening together

Answer 7

where's your presence of spiritalty? (sp). By the 2 of you, growing together and sharing in "life's" situations and the handling of........any and everything.........try the power of "prayer".......here, lies every answer and of course, solutions to one's concerns.......about everything. ok.
Gods blessings.........(and growth: hence, parents will be blessed with all kinds of......"help" and strenghth)
I, pray you both turn to the Church, and our Lord....for your future answer seeking........can only find the "right" answers.......(answers can never be found ........in the bedroom.......)

Answer 8

put the kids to bed early and cut down the work hours

Answer 9

Try introducing yourself this handy thing called "The Shower Message."

Answer 10

try sex one/twice a week after a few drinks. try not to do it everyday.
http://www.estresshelp.com/Women-and-Stress/Body-and-Mind-Sex-and-Stress.html