I have a girlfriend of 9 months & in love/want to plan rest of lives 2gether. I have a 2 year old son from previous relationship. I see him every 2 weeks for the day,never stays over or comes to our home. Problem is girlfriend cant accept him. She feels sick at the thought of sharing me. I cant even talk about him without her getting upset. I can see that she is going through hell over this and it is putting strain on us. She is a lovely person who explained it is against her culture/believes but is willing to meet him because she doesnt want to lose me & she was aware from day 1. I dont want to play families, I just want her to lose this pain every time he is brought up or in the future brought to meet her. I suggested she talk to a friend/councillor to help her see that my son will not harm us and it is normal in this country(she's Russian) to keep ties with kids from previous relations. I believe that she should accept him to enable us to be happy in the future. Can any one help me?
2007-04-09
01:03:20
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