Girl that I work with in a restaurant is using heavy drugs(crystal meth), with terrible results....I don't even like the girl, she gets on my nerves all the time....but her mother is extremely nice, comes into the restaurant at times. Should I tell this girl's mother? I don't want to break my heart.....considering I don't even like the girl should I just not worry about it and mind my own business? I think I would be much better off if I had not found out.
2007-04-09 12:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by FordExploder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell, tell, tell...you don't have to like someone or even know them to save their life. This girl is loved by people, her mother for one...any mother would want to help their child, and if she doesn't know what's going on, she can't get her daughter the help she needs.
You'd be surprised how awful addicts turn into unbelievably nice people once they've had treatment and are in recovery.
2007-04-09 12:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Choqs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell !!!! You can't get help unless you have support. A problem hidden can't be dealt with. If you don't know this family personally, it would make it quite easy. As for the other problem I don't understand how you can get a broken heart. You dont even know them.
2007-04-09 20:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by littlemonstersx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mother probably already knows, or has an idea. If it bothers you that bad but don't want to actually tell her mother, then tell someone who will! Then you wont have to worry about being the bearer of bad news.
2007-04-09 19:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by *ashley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you say something if this girl mentioned to you that she was going to kill herself? Of course you would. Well, essentially that's what she's doing by using drugs. This is one of those circumstances where it's very important to say something. This girl may hate you. But isn't her hate worth it if she gets the help she needs?
2007-04-09 20:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get ur self in this problem , from my experience with drug addict people , u might have threaten messages ( specially if u have family ) or u might killed by the drug seller or his gang ...... if u want to help talk to the police without involve or any one know .....be careful ..
2007-04-09 19:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't mind your own business. Bring it to someone's attention. Even though you don't really like this girl, if something happens to her, you will carry the guilt of not having said anything.
2007-04-09 19:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think you should tell someone you kno that can help her that is not going to get her in trouble because then she will just get angry so you dont need to make what ever problem shes got harder
2007-04-09 20:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by definitlywater veronica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her mom. Mind your business. What if you were gay or something would you like your privacy interrupted.
2007-04-09 23:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Armando G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋