My girlfriend and I have been dating for years, and she often came to my place. I didn't mind doing the cooking and cleaning most of the time because it was my place. But now, after four years, she has moved in. She does almost nothing. We've had so many arguments about it where I feel disrespected. She always says that it will be better soon, but that doesn't happen. Even after writing down the chores that we are going to do, she doesn't do them, or after I'll cook, she'll say, "I'll do the dishes tomorrow," and then she doesn't at least 50% of the time. She'll let them sit for days until I do them. In the first four years, she never once took out the trash, swept the floor, or vacuumed. Now she only does it when I have to bring it up and we argue. I don't want to break up, so is there a way that works for you and your mate/spouse that makes him/her follow through without a resentful attitude? I don't want to seem controlling. I'm being reasonable, right?
2007-04-05
07:02:30
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