ladies (and guys) I need ideas. My boyfriend whom i havent seen in two weeks is coming up for the weekend. I need something romantic to plan for him. I want to avoid the common gestures like candlelight dinner, etc. I need something really sweet that he will never forget!!! help? anyone?
2007-04-05 09:52:46 · 18 answers · asked by bgsfnstldy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Romance, real romance, is a personal thing, not a cliche rose-petals-and candlelight affair. To create romance is to touch your partner's heart.
Make sure that whenever you're planning this romance for is going to happen when he's ready for it, too. If he's been away working in a coal mine for two weeks, or driving across the country for a day, he might be looking forward to coming home and sleeping; and might not be able to stay awake for a night of romance and seduction ( in which case, maybe leave it for the next day to do something romantic!).
If you know that he'll be up for it, though, then think about personal things he likes or you both have shared. if you're going to make dinner, make it a favourite dish of his, or put on a CD you both like. Have some photos up of great times you've shared, so you can easily turn conversation to "hey, remember that time we..." and have a great laugh, or a warm hug together.
Encourage an atmosphere of romance by keeping the volume of music soft, so that you can talk softly to each other. Whatever you plan, make sure it's simple to do or finish - if it's dinner, have everything prepared before he arrives, so that everything appears effortless; it doesn't all have to be out, like a set table, but should be within easy reach.
Seduce him into this romantic world you've planned with genuine love and affection when you see him. Giving him a long hug and letting him just relax into it is a great way to start things off; a long hug isn't sexual, but rather intimate, and sets the mood for heart to heart (romance), rather than body to body (though that can come later. :D).
Likewise, being greeted at the door by a gorgeous naked or lingerie-clad woman can be a nice surprise, but it's more overtly sexual than romantic, I think. For romance, dress prettily and be made up nicely, but not overdone; and have something gorgeous on underneath for him to find later. :)
Keep up the eye contact and the physical contact - the intimate gaze and the personal space - throughout the tryst. Share your dreams and aspirations, particularly ones you've explored together before and you know you have a common vision for.
It's not just what you do that creates romance, but how you do it, and hopefully these ideas will make whatever you decide on more romantic and loving for you both. I hope whatever you plan turns out wonderfully.
2007-04-05 10:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by The Oracle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's romantic to a woman is way different than what is romantic to a man.
Take him out for dinner, but let him know when you arrive at the restaurant that you aren't wearing anything under your skirt. Order something that's known as an aphrodisiac, like raw oysters or chocolate, and tell him as you eat it that you think it's working. After dinner take him home (doing all this out at a restaurant heightens the anticipation) and have your way with him.
For men, they feel most loved when their woman is seriously and sincerely attracted to them. Show him how much you want/need/love him and he will never forget it.
2007-04-05 10:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice out, take him out on a picnic. Or do something really personal that shows how much you know about him. Like if he has a favorite movie rent it for him or maybe use the candlelight dinner thing, but also play a CD with all his favorite songs on it. You get the idea.
2007-04-05 09:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a full body massage how can either of you resist.
I know the feeling i am inthe same boat i am in a long term relationship and it is so hard to come up with things..
here are a few ideas i have
Picnic, bring food he loves and just have fun and walka round the park spending time together doing this can be romantic in its own way.
Tell him to pick a theme any kind of theme and then go out and take pictures but it must coincide with the theme.
Spoil him buy him little gifts (cheap) that he will love and hid them in easter eggs (kind of cheesy but hey it is sweet)
Make him a wonderful dinner and then the rest will go in place
2007-04-05 09:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Irishbeauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have an Easter egg hunt for him. Put suggestive notes in plastic eggs and hide them around your home. Let him find them.
The notes should be provacative or suggestive....like "Take off your clothes"...."Fill the bathtub with hot water and bubble bath and climb in"
The rest will be up to you. Have fun!
2007-04-05 09:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a lake/beach or some body of water and have a picnic. Then take him home and do something he likes.
2007-04-05 09:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner and tickets to a sporting event?
2007-04-05 09:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him on a treasure hunt, with clues including things that you love about him. That's always fun.
2007-04-05 10:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by sheriwx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him on a picnic. Don't get too overromantic, though - keep it simple, or he'll either wonder what you feel guilty about, or what you're up to.
2007-04-05 09:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to walmart and the fabric dept..get a box of rose petals ..when he walks in lead a trail to the bath tub where you will be with candles lit!
2007-04-05 09:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by jakeinky502 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋