2007-04-05 05:01:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your choice, and I respect that
2007-04-05 05:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they're either very strong or very scared. It's a choice. And a very difficult one. But if it's a choice you've made based upon your own beliefs, than you deserve someone who respects that. Just beware: A lot of couples enjoy sex, especially early in a marriage. If you ever expect to have sex be a positive part of your married life, then you should probably find a husband you enjoy having sex with. Just like having the same interests in conversation, music, whatever. You have to enjoy being with him, and if you want to enjoy sex with him, make sure you do BEFORE you marry him!
Either way, good for you. Tough question, tough choice.
2007-04-05 05:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are very, very lucky, they will marry a great guy who is an ideal match for them in everyway, including sexually. However, I think the likelihood of that actually happening is slim. Since good sex is an important part of a long-lasting relationship, I would personally never marry someone with whom I had not slept with many times. It is a part of one's life experiences -- not to be taken lightly, but not to be put up on a pedestal either, IMHO.
2007-04-05 05:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 04:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most religious doctrine concerning this subject also states that sex is only for the purpose of conceiving children. From that perspective, sexual compatibility is unimportant.
Unfortunately, very few couples go into marriage thinking that sex is so unimportant and then find that they are physically incompatible.
2007-04-05 05:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-03 08:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they must have more self-control and stronger principles than most girls. If that's what they want to do, I can definitely respect that. And if I had a virginal bride, I would probably be very flattered and eager to deflower her.
2007-04-05 05:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually its a real good thing but you have to have that talk early on. sex is the glue that holds things together so you have to have alternatives to that so that both parties feel intimate. hard to feel intimate when your a guy and there is no sex. just one of those things.
2007-04-05 05:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that some people have moral standards, however, I would not buy a pair of jeans without trying them on, nor would I purchase a car without test driving it. Why would you commit your life to someone without even knowing if you are sexually compatible?
2007-04-05 05:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would never marry a girl unless we had sex.
2007-04-05 05:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by betmexxx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey if i was you i would have sex now you know you should have fun when you can. but its really up to you.
2007-04-05 05:05:47 · answer #11 · answered by clugh74 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋