i really like this guy a grade younger than me and he used to like me but now he says he just likes me as a friend but i still really like him what should i do....? oh yeah and he always looks at me and my best friend dated him and she said that he looks at me because he likes me he even told me he did but now he doesnt i just dont know what to do...
2007-04-05 10:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by lind.say.le.anne. =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can just be his friend if he doesn't want more, you cannot make him want more.
Nothing wrong with getting to know him more, as a friend. Talk to him as friends and see if anything further develops. If you find you want to date him, let him know. If he doesn't want anything, you have to move on.
Why would you want someone who doesn't want you? You will find someone who does. Unfortunately, we do find people who we like who do not like us in the same way. You will probably have someone like you and you won't like him in the same way. The good thing is, there is someone out there that will share mutual interest.
2007-04-05 10:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid to let you get close to him in that gf kind of way. What you can do is offer friendship for now, that way you can show him what a great girl you are. Once he is comfortable with being around you, he may re-think things and let you into his life in a gf way.
2007-04-05 17:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things:
1- He's your best friends ex? That dangerous water...
2- You only live once... go for the gold
2007-04-05 17:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Chirukis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! If he is special he will notice YOU! Your wasting time worrying this much. Im sure your so uptight when your around him that he doesnt even get to see the unique great you!!! Relax andthe right one will come.
2007-04-05 17:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by 4nowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happens to me. look this is what i do: play hard to get, even if u want him dont look at him, talk to him but not much and nvr flirt. it'll make him think that u dont like him and that will make him want u even more. but dont take it to the extreme cuz then he might hate u. and all guys say that he probably does like u.he will act like he really likes u like even when u know he's lookin at u , ignore and he will talk to u and dont be 2 amused by what he says. hope this helps. =)
2007-04-05 17:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by shad i 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he is still looking at you he might still like you but dont make your move right away wait see if he shows any sign of of liking you still sometimes guys say they dont like you or dont like you anymore because they are nervous that you dont like them back.
2007-04-05 17:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by pessimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty goofy to me.
Maybe hes over trying to be with you, so its just easier for him to act like hes not even into you any longer.
2007-04-05 17:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Dalila L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he;s cant accept the fact that he likes you, mabye you should boost your flirt stamina by wearing a cute outfit or cute hairdo, he'll then realize what he missed.good luck
2007-04-05 17:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by luver_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋