because joey will get mad and say you dont need friends... and he doesn't like me... I dont want to loose my friend but when i try to tell he how controlling he is she denys it and ignores me... help....
2007-04-05 09:28:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find more friends and hang out with them. Eventually she will either figure out what a good friend she had in you and come around or she won't and you won't have lost anything because now you have new friends.
2007-04-05 09:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sucks and I know how it feels. That bad news is you can't really do anything about it. Your friend obviously puts her controlling boyfriend's opinion over yours. I'm guessing that this Joey character probably has a problem with a lot of her friends and not just you.
The good news is that its not your problem. This is something your friend is going to have to figure out for herself. One day (and trust me, this day will come) they'll get into a fight or break up and she'll look around and wonder where all her friends have gone.
If you really value her friendship, just be there for her and when the call comes act like nothing ever happened. This isn't about you or anything you've done.
2007-04-05 09:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by mantoothnation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you care about your friend this much, but I'm afraid you've done all you can for now. Once she realises the relationship isn't a healthy one, she will turn for you to support. Look after her, help her, and comfort her. This will prove that you are a good friend. Don't bother getting worked up about it, because this has happened to me and it doesn't do anybody any good! She will realise eventually, but in the meantime, be her friend, and don't push her to talk about it. x
2007-04-05 09:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by *teenagekicks* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but this is the way it works out. People choose who they are with and your friend has chosen her boyfriend over you. You don't know that he is controlling her, you just want to believe that. Even if he is, isn't that up to her to decide?
Just stay as good of a friend as you can, if you keep bringing this up to her she will dump you and you can't blame that on him...just you.
2007-04-05 09:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that;s the danger of having a boyfriend, it limits your circle of friends. You cant do anything about it because you are now just a second priority for her.
But you can keep the friendship just by being intereste oh your friend. Just make sure she knows you are just there for her anytime when she needs you.
2007-04-05 09:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by BigBro Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind ! the more u try to pull them out of it the more they think ur being wrong instead just hang around and take care of ur frnd and be there when she realises it and she needs someone.
2007-04-05 09:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Gyanguru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to have a girls night out. dicuss this situation with her and tell her that you feel bad that your losing her. maybe her boyfriend thinks that you will split them up. then again a too controlling guy isnt a good idea. tell her that your worried about your relationship and that you want her to think twice about. but dont tell her that you want to control her life
2007-04-05 09:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE REALLY HONEST WITH HER TELL HER EXACTLY HOW U FEEL BUT DON'T SCULLED AT HER, TELL HER YOU'LL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER AND LET HER MAKE HER OWN CHOICES AND GIVE HER SPACE U MAY NEED TO HANG OUT WITH OTHER FRIENDS FOR A WHILE BUT SHE'LL COME AROUND THAT GUY WONT LAST.
2007-04-05 09:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by MAYLONAV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her eat the bitter cake later, at the meantime go and find yourself some new friends.
2007-04-05 09:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find other friends to hang out with. She will come crawling back to you when he is gone and by your description of him, it is very soon.
2007-04-05 09:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋