Other - Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

I dumped my man after I realized it wasn't going anywhere

About a month after which I began dating someone new. I found out recently that my ex had been cheating on me while I was with him.

Ever since then, I began worrying that this was going to happen again. Ladies and even men, if you have had your heart broken, you know the pain that comes with heartbreak due to betrayal.

Last night my man confessed that he “thought” about taking a break with us earlier last week because we were fighting but he is determined to rather ride it out with me.

I began crying and I just couldn’t turn it off.. I have been with my new man for about 6 months. So why last night I couldn’t turn off the waterworks and I know it's partly to do with my fear of getting cheated on again. I am afraid this will happen again...

This is the first time he seen me cry and I don't want to depress him although he was very supportive. Any opinion on how to release these qualms?

2007-03-15 05:22:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have always been in drama filled, cheating, jealous and mistrusting relationships. Finally I decided to get out of them I took a 6 month break and then met my neighbour who I was eyeing for the past while. It was a Tuesday when we 1st introduced ourselves to each other and now 6 months later we've spent every night/waking minute with each other. Honestly, I think we have missed 2 nights for flu/cold reasons.

So what I am asking is I feel as though something is missing in this relationship. I dont feel as though my love for him is as strong as it was for my ex. I finally trust him which is a great thing but I interpret that if I trust him I just must not care about him and what he does behind my back. I know he is 100% faithful and I sat on the couch yesterday thinking about the things that I dont like about him and all I could think of was "he is too nice?" I know it sounds ridiculous and stupid. But I feel as though "I know" my love for him is going to die for some reason or another.

I finally have this guy who is trustworthy, genuine, appreciative, attentive, affectionate, loveable, hot, great job, beautfil house etc etc.....so why do I feel as though something is missing?!?! It doesn;t make any sense....

For the first 3 months of our relationship I didnt feel like this at all. I was happy as ever and I cant figure out what could have changed my feelings so fast. I am still attracted to him, still like spending time with him, still enjoy doing nice things for him etc but something is wrong.....Anyone have any suggestions? Thanks so much!

I was thinking it could possibly be caused from the amount of drama that I used to enjoy for some odd reason. In the beginning of our relationship the newness of it was "my drama" and now I dont want to mistake the lack of drama to a lack of love.....but how can I tell...Any suggestions?

2007-03-15 05:18:26 · 16 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

Yesterday I was out with my bf and he drove me to some motorcycle shop and out of nowhere he asked me to put a bike under my name for him.

It's a $10,000 bike. I got approved for it, but I told him I had to think about it. The way he was explaining it to me made it seem like there would be no issues but of course he's gonna sugar coat it.

Bottom line is, I'm a full time student, I don't work and Im only 19 and I have good credit. I wanna do it for him but I've seen enough courrt shows to know that these things don't always work out.

Any suggestions...

2007-03-15 05:11:47 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my bf for almost 3 years we really do love each other but we have been having problems lately & we are both 2 the point where we dont know what 2 do next he has proposed 2 me 3 times & then we get in to it & he tells me we need time to think about our relationship & weigh the options after that we get back together & now we are trying 2 make a decision if we should get counciling or if we should go our seperate ways we fuss over stupid things like him having female friends from high school & i dont think its a wise choice can u help me.

2007-03-15 05:10:34 · 12 answers · asked by CUTIE85 2

when you sleep at night?

On your back, side, stomach or in the "spot".

to define "spot" it is the little nuke of a spot on your significant others chest, with arms wraps around you and you snuggle up close.


The "spot" is my favorite posititon. Tell me more.

2007-03-15 05:09:34 · 9 answers · asked by 2shay 5

I think recently as the world gets weirder.. Things like this have gotten less "weird".. No ? Does it turn any women on at all ? Or is it a total turn off ?? Thanks in advance !

2007-03-15 05:00:20 · 4 answers · asked by dralls4lyf 2

2007-03-15 04:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by Juliet 5

2007-03-15 04:56:27 · 4 answers · asked by bekka09 2

what is the whole 'fan' thing about on here? I only have one (:-( ) and would like more....if I knew what they were for!

2007-03-15 04:47:12 · 5 answers · asked by :) 5

She is seperated from her boy friend they have a 1 yr old child he left her,by the way he is married legally to someone else but has been seperated for 7 yrs,she thinks they can work stuff out without involving the court system as far as the baby and he told her yesterday he has a lawyer, she has been running around drinking and partying because she is grieving i tell her she is messing up she just dont listen. im worried cause she is 900 miles away and us her family is here and she is now living with a friend because they were going to moving to anther apt at the end of the month he has already gotten an apt,he has his family and she has no one but this friend. im afraid he is trying to take the baby behind her back and i cant convince her to come home i live in the country and i know jobs are scarce here but she thinks she can make it on her own get an apt take care of her child and get along with him.she has already sold her car for money. i see a trainwreck coming how do i help her

2007-03-15 04:42:13 · 3 answers · asked by missy 1

will you sing for me? My husband is going to make me a cake but not sing for me.

2007-03-15 04:29:30 · 20 answers · asked by bette69 5

south carolina

2007-03-15 04:20:33 · 14 answers · asked by Casi 1

he is busy. He wanted to now all about my past relationship. Does he love me and can I trust him.

2007-03-15 04:19:21 · 12 answers · asked by modyaba100 1

he is busy. He wanted to now all about my past relationship. Does he love me and can I trust him.

2007-03-15 04:19:02 · 2 answers · asked by modyaba100 1

Have you ever wondered if the person who broke your heart is hurting worse than you are? To tell you the truth, 10 months later he is still hurting as bad as the day he left me. He said it was because he was “Stressed”, quote on quote, But honestly, what kind of an excuse is that? Exactly!!!!! It’s not one. Well….maybe……I still ……..this is hard to say….maybe I still feel the same way about him as I did……..I don’t know…….it’s complicated. Even I don’t understand it. I thought I had put him in the most desolate spot in my mind, like he was completely erased from my memory completely. My feelings for him reared its head yesterday for the first time in almost a year. I thought that I was over him for good, but nothing’s the way you want it to be. I’ve always believed that God has a way of making everything go as planned. I’m not quiet sure what his plan is for me yet, but I know it will be great when it is revealed. Yes, I admit it is frustrating. but what do you think?

2007-03-15 04:17:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is busy. He wanted to now all about my past relationship. Does he love me and can I trust him.

2007-03-15 04:17:02 · 1 answers · asked by modyaba100 1

I'm married now and have a beautiful baby, but I was at a friend's wedding last weekend and her groom was really good friend's with my first love. Well, of course he was there and it brought back all of these memories and I can't seem to get them out of my head. I have a great husband and I feel like such a horrible person for even thinking of my ex. I'm only 22 though and I dated my ex when I was 17 so it wasn't that long ago. I don't know if I was SO in love with him or if I'm just feeling this way because he was my first love and I would have done anything for him. Anyone else experience this? Oh, and if my husband knew I even had one thought of him he would be so angry and probably tell me to take a hike!

2007-03-15 04:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 2

My man is a good father, a very caring person and fun to be with. He works for a constitution company and he makes pretty good money if he works full-time but in the winter he gets laid off. So I’ve been paying for everything rent, bills, food, and giving him $$ for cigarettes amongst other things because he doesn’t have any money. He hasn’t been able to find other work for the winter but finally this month he went back to work and I love him very much but he turns into such a jerk when he doesn’t get his way. For example, he’s asked me if I could help him pay off what he owes. I don’t mind helping him when he really needs it but the household comes first. So I get my paycheck and he immediately wants to pay his debts off. Things are really tight until he starts getting paid so we can get back on track with what we owe. So he freaks out on me saying that I promise to help him and he’s going to look like a jerk because he’s going back on his word. Then he doesn’t speak to me. Are you kidding me? Why do you have to make me feel bad just because I said no this time. What about our bills, rent, groceries, babysitter, car insurance, the fridge and washer that I’m still trying to pay off. I only get paid twice a month as a receptionist and I try to budget as best as I can. I would think that taking care of our children and home was more important. I’m so stressed about this!

2007-03-15 04:02:26 · 15 answers · asked by Baby J 1

me nd my friends are in a really good mood and want to no whats made you smile today?

2007-03-15 03:55:30 · 23 answers · asked by *!*Rach H*!* 2

Any suggestions dealing with monsters?

2007-03-15 03:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband got married to a young women who abuses him. She has cut him a knife, burned his clothes, torn up the pictures of or three kids, damage to his car, cut phone wires, destroyed or kids toys that where at his place, caused him to lose three jobs, and had hit two of three kids. I don't allow our kids to be around this women anymore. They both feel that I am wrong for keeping my kids away from their father. I don't like them not seing him, but I have too protect my children. The court system won't do anything about it. My ex is allowed to come see his kids anytime he wants he just won't. Our kids miss their father so much. I am in a relationship with a wonderful man so I don't want my ex back. I'mm not want to do anymore. I don't feel that I'm wrong for keeping my kids away from this women.

2007-03-15 03:42:57 · 19 answers · asked by ladyt101 1

I´ve been living together with my bf. We are lovers for three months but I just moved in with him 3 weeks ago. Unfortunately, things aren´t going on smoothly. For the third time I caught him chatting to lots of girls. Just today, he re~activated his account to a dating site and found a lot of messages from girls. I have access to his PC where I caught him doing this. I attempted to leave him last week but he said that he´d go crazy without me and that I´m the woman he wants to marry (sounds untrue to me since he´s still 23 for a lifetime commitment and after all the chat logs I´ve seen). During our fight, he sent an sms to my bestfriend expressing his feelings for me and that he doesn´t know anymore what to do just to make me stay. I am really confused now. I do love him so much and I would definitely miss him if I leave his house. However, at the back of my mind, I have to do something coz I dont want to undergo another pain again in relation to love. Please advice.

2007-03-15 03:41:34 · 7 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1

Im a Geologist Assistant it's so boring!

2007-03-15 03:35:23 · 32 answers · asked by suzy 3

someone once said "it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't" i think i agree

2007-03-15 03:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by Val 3

Here's a tricky question i've come across.
ur driving a vehicle which only 2 people can ride in(including urself).
u pass a busstop and see an attractive girl and smile at her and she smiles back; u knw she's interested...
also, u see an old classmate standing there-uv been tryin to trace him for ages
there're no other cars on the road. at that moment an old lady at the stop has an attack.
what do u do? do u help the lady, losing your chances of hittin it off with the gal and meeting ur friend?

2007-03-15 03:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by avg_jack 1

2007-03-15 03:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously my skin is white and my ancestor's came from Europe (Spain), just like ALL white people at one time or another (Europe). Yet people say I'm not white since I know Spanish!!! Why are people so ignornant and stupid in this country? I guess that is what happens when only 30% of the people over 25 in this country have a college degree......uneducated collective!!! I have white skin, ancestors are from Europe...how am I not white?

2007-03-15 03:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im chinese, he is Australian, we met in Australia, after 2 years' relationship, I finally decided to leave him, b4 we were going to get married in China, he went to chinese ambessy and got the marriage paper... when I told him I wanted to leave, he said ok, he said he would go to China to find another chinese woman, and he said he was sure he can get someone and marry them straight away using that marriage paper, maybe within a couple of months... and he seemed serious about that plan... that really disappointed me, it sounds to me I have nothing special for him as he can marry another one so easily... does that mean he doesnt really love me that much... it seems all he wants is a marriage, doesnt matter whether he loves her a lot or not... by the way, he is a lot older than me, he knows I love him a lot and I leave him bcos of the age problem...

2007-03-15 03:08:54 · 5 answers · asked by jing j 1

tell me do you believe in Love..if yes ...why? If no ...then Why Not?..

2007-03-15 03:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by Amit 1

I have made a lot of my friends working there, in highschool i was voted best personality its nothing im doing they walk in i ask them if they need help there like no its fine then thell go to some one else and ask for help usually i wouldnt care im no way concided but im a hot chick i know this but im a sweat heart as well.Also guys love my personality they have no problems with me but we get payed of commition and its affecting me the club sittuation is just annoying i had a girl throw cristal in my face for resons me and my best friend still are trying to figure out so understand before u juge

2007-03-15 03:02:37 · 1 answers · asked by everybodylovestiff 1