Im chinese, he is Australian, we met in Australia, after 2 years' relationship, I finally decided to leave him, b4 we were going to get married in China, he went to chinese ambessy and got the marriage paper... when I told him I wanted to leave, he said ok, he said he would go to China to find another chinese woman, and he said he was sure he can get someone and marry them straight away using that marriage paper, maybe within a couple of months... and he seemed serious about that plan... that really disappointed me, it sounds to me I have nothing special for him as he can marry another one so easily... does that mean he doesnt really love me that much... it seems all he wants is a marriage, doesnt matter whether he loves her a lot or not... by the way, he is a lot older than me, he knows I love him a lot and I leave him bcos of the age problem...
2007-03-15 03:08:54 · 5 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you loved him, the age doesn't really matter but his attitude just proves that he's a jerk. you should find someone better.
2007-03-17 15:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by the common cold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you. Maybe he's rebounding so fast because he's hurt by you ending the relationship. Maybe he doesn't know how to handle it so he's retaliating. You should talk to him. If you really love him like you say then age shouldn't be a facture (as long as it's a legal age for the both of you to marry). Remember, it's only a number.
2007-03-15 10:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him go..time will prove everything..if you still love him..just bless for him to find the best..and everything will be fine..u will find a better one...let the time to decide..time is the best medicine
2007-03-15 10:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Chreyl S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u left him so what doyou want him to do?,,to come following you behind?hes a man and got to make his life s just let him go
2007-03-15 10:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him u noe there r plenty more fish in the sea
2007-03-15 10:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by charleyrickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋