Have you ever wondered if the person who broke your heart is hurting worse than you are? To tell you the truth, 10 months later he is still hurting as bad as the day he left me. He said it was because he was “Stressed”, quote on quote, But honestly, what kind of an excuse is that? Exactly!!!!! It’s not one. Well….maybe……I still ……..this is hard to say….maybe I still feel the same way about him as I did……..I don’t know…….it’s complicated. Even I don’t understand it. I thought I had put him in the most desolate spot in my mind, like he was completely erased from my memory completely. My feelings for him reared its head yesterday for the first time in almost a year. I thought that I was over him for good, but nothing’s the way you want it to be. I’ve always believed that God has a way of making everything go as planned. I’m not quiet sure what his plan is for me yet, but I know it will be great when it is revealed. Yes, I admit it is frustrating. but what do you think?
2007-03-15 04:17:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why are you "fighting" this so hard? To me, an outsider, it seems fairly obvious....you still LOVE the guy. Why is that so bad?? Call him....go out for coffee. Nothing serious, just see if the old flame is still there. If so, you'll know instantly. What do you have to lose? Unless there is another guy in your life right now, I say, Go for it!
2007-03-15 04:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds frustrating.
It also sounds like you have feelings for him. Are they they the type that you would want another relationship with him or the good memories together. Remember, sometimes looking back look at the good and the bad.
Also do you trust him ? The "stressed" excuse does not sound promising. Relationships have stress , my marriage does but we work on it. Not jump ship! You may get hurt all over again if you go back to him. If you think there is a shot [and only you know - your gut will tell you] then go for it. He may be "the one" - just be careful and go slow :) Also check and see if he is really interested and make sure he is serious.
I wish you the best :)
2007-03-15 11:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
issues you have
2007-03-15 11:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by slipknot freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋