Other - Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

okay im 14 and am in the 8 grade. i live with my grandparents because my dad walked out on his family(me, my brother, and mom)and my mother lives in gilroy. i love her to death but theres no way i could be able to live with her, she is bipolar and suffers from depression..but she has always been there for me. anyways my brother is in jail for 13 years and is only 19..i want to make something of my life and have excellent grades..other than my intermediate family--my grandmother was an 8 grade teacher for 35 years and is now recently retired and as my granfather..they have a son(my uncle) who is 26 and is brilliant..he graduated from berkely..im planning on going to berkely too. i know right from wrong and am very mature for my age..mostly because of what i have been through..i dont cause a lot of trouble but theres those moments. sometimes ill go drink or smoke pot, not a lot though..sober from drinking and smoking 4 months..im not addictive and only do it for kicks once in a while

2007-03-15 14:21:20 · 17 answers · asked by F.BeeZi 1

keep us best friends.?

2007-03-15 14:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by blacktiger 1

keep us best friends.?

2007-03-15 14:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by blacktiger 1

Each question has to deal with how a guy likes a girl.....
1. What do guys look for in a girl?
2. Is light brown hair, hazel eyes and a light tan cute together?
3. Contacts or glasses?
4. Long nails or short nails?
5. Painted or non painted finger nails?
6. Caring or non caring?
7. Happy or sad?
8. Cute or ugly?
9. Sporty or gily?
10. College or drop out?
11. Money or non?
12. Kids or no kids?
13. Commitment or no commitment?
14. Serious or no serious relatinship?
15. Life long marriage or divorce?

That is all...... If you take the time out to do my quiz then thank you so much.... this quiz could make me a better person..... feel free to add your own questions and answers as well....... thanx again.

2007-03-15 14:14:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, well there is this boy and hes my friend. he is always very close to me(close to where boys shouldnt always be) and he talks to me alot.my friends came over and said that he liked me but he smiled and swore that he doesn't and when i walked away i think he got sad and went away too. mt friends say we should got out and that we would be the perfect couple but i dont know what to do.

Should i go with him? or should i just tell him to drop the subject.

2007-03-15 14:13:45 · 4 answers · asked by !!!!Just_______!!!! 3

Recently I read a lot about people who suffer in life. Maybe they are physically challenged, maybe thier loved ones betrayed them, maybe they are unfortunate enough to b a part of a family yet mentally are apart, maybe their love is not reciporcated. Whatever it is...I just feel so sad for them. I want to dedicate this prayer to them....Dear god...please help these people get through the tough times. Please give them strenght to belive in themselves. Please give them courage to take the right step and get out of the misery....Please give thema clear view...please look at them and help them. There is so much hurt out there....we never take a moment to notice. I hope someone is out there gives those hurt people some strenght. God bless you all.

2007-03-15 13:36:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not only are you not a very nice person, but you're also a slob!

2007-03-15 13:36:04 · 3 answers · asked by JUDY 1

I am really a nice guy. I have been told that I am smart, and good looking. I understand girls and think they should needed and cared for. I almost never lie, and I think that I am a good person. I help people who are in need, or animals that are in need. I am very sensitive, and caring. Am I doing something wrong? Why am I still alone?

2007-03-15 13:31:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ran over my wife's dog this morning and am afraid to go home. I called and said i had to work late. She was all upset on the phone. She has no clue it was me. She would torture me for years if she found out. What can I do to be sure I don't get caught? Ihaed that damn mutt. And she knows it. Later she will start thinking and thinking. I could have a heart attack waiting for her going ballistic in bed while i am asleep. she is italian and might stab me or worse. temper like a spitting cobra on tv.

2007-03-15 13:27:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were talking to someone online for quite some time, and developed feelings for them, would they change when you met face to face?

The person you are talking to has told you what they look like but they left out one important detail. It is not that they lied to you, just never told you. This detail would be something like a large birthmark on the face, missing a limb, size, etc. Also, are there certain things that you wold accept, and others that you would not?

2007-03-15 13:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do women cosider ok to happen between them and another man without it being cheating? example..can other men put their arms around them kiss them touch them in any manner and so forth. do they feel like as long as it isn't actual intercourse it's not cheating? how often does this normally happen?

2007-03-15 13:24:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

it could get drastically worse, or get better?

Do you stick it out knowing it won't get better on it's own, or chance losing out completely?

2007-03-15 13:22:47 · 1 answers · asked by DeAnna 5

I think that I am in love with my friend!!!! Is that possible? For all of you that dont know, this is the girl that I have been struggling to tell her I like her.

This girl is hot, sexy, smart, and has the best personality of anyone that I have ever known.

when I just answered this one question about loving someone, and it made me feel better, am I really in love with her?

Is this right?

2007-03-15 13:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3

of cheating? I have a boyfriend, but i haven't seen him in a month (we live a suburb apart so it's not like it's hard) we've both indicated that we need to talk about ending our relationship but we haven't taken action yet.
Anyway, last night I went out and I was talking to a guy, and all of a sudden he started kissing me, I didn't stop it or anything, in fact I kind of enjoyed it. I wouldn't let him take it any further. After that I left with no intention of contacting him ever again. So am I technically a cheater? Because my friends tell me i'm not, but i don't know if they're just trying to reassure me.

2007-03-15 13:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by jo 5

exactly what kind of secrets do women keep from their husbands and why?

2007-03-15 13:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and i am bored. reading my material. help me. message me and entertain me. cant text my friends and they are busy and no one is online...

2007-03-15 13:08:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sagar 6

My dad is retiring by the end of this month. He isn’t a sentimental or romantic guy. Actually, he doesent believe in gifts! So, I don’t know what to bring him? Any ideas that might like a tough/rough guy?

2007-03-15 13:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bestfriend in the world.. Smokes and he's only 12.
How can I get him to stop!?!

2007-03-15 12:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it smell like.

2007-03-15 12:55:42 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Scottish♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥Fairy♥ 7

We have two children under the age of three. I gave up a lucrative job in medical sales (that I loved) to stay at home. While I don't regret my decision, I do miss my career and find myself resenting all the time MDH spends outside the home. His job requires him to travel 2 weeks of the month and when he is home he is rarely at the house before 7pm. I am frustrated and feel unappreciated. I understand his job offers me the opportunity to stay at home, but at what point am I being taken advantage of? If we were both working he (or I) would need to be at daycare before 7pm to pick up the children and various house hold chores would need to be shared. How can I make him see that my job is 24/7 and I need a break more than once a year on Mothers Day?

2007-03-15 12:54:58 · 3 answers · asked by Doodlebug 1

what is your definition of a "hot" chic? I hang out all the time with my guy friends and they always compare one chic to another, both of them i find beautiful and attractive and to them only one of them is "hot". whats your definition?

2007-03-15 12:54:04 · 3 answers · asked by Emilie 2

b/c there really is no proven way to go back in time right? haha :)

2007-03-15 12:50:53 · 10 answers · asked by peaches78 2

Can someone send me a video or some sort of thing that will convince me and make me want to follow Jesus? What is an eye opener in your lives? (Besides the Bible or church).

2007-03-15 12:42:42 · 5 answers · asked by gibson1210120 2

Ok, my youngest brother used to be a good kid and a smart kid. Hell, he was even in the national honor society and he graduated with Magna *** Laude. After he graduated, he took a job in EB games and slowly he becomes the assistant manager, and take college classes and managed to save almost $5,000. About a year and half ago he started to date this girl. Since then he's been talking back to my parents he lost his job and he used to look very nice and clean, now he looks like some druggy, even though he doesn't used drugs. I'm a cop, so he doesn't dare to do it.
However about six months ago he move away from home and got an apartment which he was supposed to split the bils with his girlfriend, but now since he broke up with her; she didn't keep the end of the bargain and didn't pay for the last payment for the apartment. Now, my brother ask me for $790 to help him to pay for the bill. I just started my job and I'm a little tight on the money, but I can spare it. What should I do?

2007-03-15 12:17:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of years ago we moved to Ireland. While I was sorting the new house I would fly over to see my wife as she was still working for a couple of months in the UK before she moved. I went over to surprise her and she wasn't happy to see me. She received a text message that night from some guy she worked with, saying that he wanted to see her that night and was thinking about her. Well I approached her about this and she informed that nothing had happened yet and she will stop all contact. I text him back asking why he was texting my wife and that seemed to stop it.

Now were living in Ireland and I hate it so much, I miss my friends and going out. My wife goes and sees her family twice a week. Leaving me alone. I have recently started to fly back alot to the UK just to go out. I have told her that I am away to the UK for 6 months to work, but I don't want to return to Ireland everyday I am there I think about leaving and she just says I am being unfair.

2007-03-15 12:11:36 · 10 answers · asked by JimmyH 1

lol i know this sounds harsh but when trying to make friends, if something about them bothers me or they say something that kind of hurts my feelings i just stop and dont pursue the friendship because i get turned off and hate them lol whats wrong with me?? am i too sensitive or something?

2007-03-15 12:09:15 · 16 answers · asked by Katelyn S 1

My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years and the other day she said she wanted a break. She does not know if she loves me. I love her with all my heart. I work on a night crew so i do cherish the small amount of time we do have together. We were living together and she packed a travel bag to take with her to a relatives. We have already gone out on a date and she claimes she had a great time. But I can barley wait for her to come back. I miss her like i miss nothing else and all i want is for her to come home. What can i do to let her see that i am the one she loves. She has proved to me many times. But now she wants space. I have already started looking for other work so i can switch back to days. She has a very tight knit family so I know that there is not another man she is seeing. Thanks

2007-03-15 12:05:52 · 3 answers · asked by NICEONEDOG 2

My husband and I have been married 10 years, together for 16. We are best friends, intimate lovers and true soulmates. Over the years, we found we truly enjoy the gift of massage. We have enjoyed couples massage but receive most massages seperate from each other. Over the last year, I have been fortunate to be getting my massages at home from a wonderful male therapist. I receive my massage nude and have come to the comfort level of no draping. My last massage visit had something different happen that took me by surprise. My therapist asked at the end of my massage if there as an area of my body that he had been leaving out that may need some attention. His hand position at that moment gave no doubt what "an area" meant. I told him I was unable to accept but thanked him for the offer. Later, I told my husband and he gave his approval to accept the offer next visit if I desired. This is no doubt out of his love for me! Would other wives feel this way and accept this "additional area"?

2007-03-15 11:57:27 · 18 answers · asked by Massage Lovers 2

family together. Tuesday night, His ex from about 8 months ago, called him and said that she had just had THEIR baby. He didnt even know she was pregnant. He wants to be a father to his kids and take responsibility for his actions but she said that the only way he can see his little girl is if he leaves me. She says she loves him and she wants them to be a family. I sat with him last night and watched him cry for three hours because of how unfair this situation seems. We really dont want to lose each other but that seens like it is the only choice we have. She is riding a bus here tomorrow from Florida and Neither one of us know how to handle the situation. PLEASE HELP!

2007-03-15 11:51:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was not pegnant because the HCG as negative at 1% so how can I be pregnant and the dr. said for me to relax and wait to see if I was pregnant. But he is saying if I get my monthly that I was lying to him and a killer and that he will leave me. :(

2007-03-15 11:51:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous