Why am I still alone?

Question

I am really a nice guy. I have been told that I am smart, and good looking. I understand girls and think they should needed and cared for. I almost never lie, and I think that I am a good person. I help people who are in need, or animals that are in need. I am very sensitive, and caring. Am I doing something wrong? Why am I still alone?

Well, yall say I am the perfect guy. I still dont uderstand why I am still alone. It seems like if I was the perfect guy whenever I asked someone out they would say yes, not no. Just kind of depressed, and I want to be with someone. There's this girl, I asked her out, and she said "Lets just be freinds" and I cant do that with her, but i can. I am so confused.

Answer 1

Quit whining and crying,be thankful you are free and not involved with some shyster chick.

Answer 2

Women need the sensitive side in a man but they also need the MAN side of a man. See, women out there are always looking for the best catch they can reel in. However, if they reel in a little guppy or a goldfish, you can be damn sure they will toss it back and try to catch a marlin or swordfish, know what I mean?

You have to show women BOTH sides: the strong, masculine, rough-'em'-up, cowboy, confident side as well as the sensitive, more-feminine, less-dominant side. You HAVE to show both.

It sounds like you only show them the feminine side of yourself. You have to show/learn the masculine side also, but be careful if when you do, cuz the ladies will be swarming.

Remember, DO NOT LOSE the sensitive side, but CULTIVATE the masculinity so many women want. Turn up the testosterone!!

Lastly, here's a great question you could ask yourself if you want women to want you: How do you make something VALUABLE? Make yourself valuable and you will have yourself some fun!!

Answer 3

I am sorry to hear this. You don't mention your age, but I know young girls sometimes find "nice guys" boring and are more attracted to "bad boys"......my advice is don't sell out--be the nice person that you are, eventually you will meet the right (lucky) girl who will appreciate you. Also, try and keep busy with your hobbies and interests and you may meet a girl who has the same interests; a common interest is always a plus in relationships; and people who are involved with some hobby or project are more interesting than people who are not. Put your energy into a cause; and I bet things will turn around for you.

Answer 4

Mr Nice Guy,

First of all have you ever heard being a nice guy you finish last, well im here to tell you its point blank bullshit!!
You need to be confident, believe in yourself have an aura about you that makes you irrisitable but not arrogant.
Be yourself stop trying to be this perfect guy you think woman want rather be you and thats how you will find love and be loved.
There's one for everyone and so if you stop trying so hard chill back and let destiny play and do its part, you'll come out on top.

Good luck and God bless

Rebeca Lazar

Answer 5

Girls do not *decide* to be attracted to someone. You list these traits as if you expect girls to be *pursuaded* to feel something for you. You may be great husband material, a great "shoulder to cry on", but where's the excitement and passion? The traits that actually make a difference to attraction are things like charisma, wit, sex appeal, vision, ambition, etc.

Women do not want a soppy servant answering their every beck and call... unless they've been horribly dumped and are feeling neurotic. But they should be avoided.

Answer 6

First of all you say you've been told that you are smart and good looking, do you think you are? Second, no one understands women, not even women!!! I think the most attractive thing about any man is his confidence(not *********). You have to feel good about yourself before someone else will.

Answer 7

Maybe you smother a girl with your affection? Just be yourself, do the stuff YOU like and hopefully one of these days you will meet the RIGHT girl. Go out, have fun, don't sit in front of the computer...that's not where you will meet that special someone.

Answer 8

Stop trying to find someone let the person come to you. I am a lady myself and one thing i hate is when a guy will keep trying to make a girl notice him, so stop trying so hard, let god bless you with that one true person.

Answer 9

Same here. I hate it. I have never had a boyfriend. I help out a lot. Sometimes my guy friends tell me i look cute today. I hope you find your special someone.

Answer 10

It all takes time. Don't worry someone will come around some day, don't bury yourself in a hole though, get out and play something co-ed or volunteer at something.