of cheating? I have a boyfriend, but i haven't seen him in a month (we live a suburb apart so it's not like it's hard) we've both indicated that we need to talk about ending our relationship but we haven't taken action yet.
Anyway, last night I went out and I was talking to a guy, and all of a sudden he started kissing me, I didn't stop it or anything, in fact I kind of enjoyed it. I wouldn't let him take it any further. After that I left with no intention of contacting him ever again. So am I technically a cheater? Because my friends tell me i'm not, but i don't know if they're just trying to reassure me.
2007-03-15 13:20:44 · 6 answers · asked by jo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i'm not married
2007-03-15 13:29:52 · update #1
You say that you have not seen your boyfriend in a month and that you are wanting to both talk about breaking up - to me it sounds like it has already happened it just that neither one of you have actually said it to the other.
Don't feel guilty (life's too short for that) You have done nothing wrong. Put your mind at rest and call the "boyfriend" and break up once and for all and be guilt free when you meet the next male.
2007-03-15 13:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a cheater. The reason that you are is because you let him continue to kiss you. If you both are talking about ending your relationship. Then why don't you just do it. Break it up now before its too late. The fact that you did enjoy that kiss means that you know you want to see other people. You can't have both of them boys.
2007-03-15 13:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ã?LÃ?ZÃ?.·´Ã?ZÃ?`·.§HÃ?WTÃ?à 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems your boyfriend has already dumped you
because a month is a long time to be waiting for him
so in this case you are not cheating really
but you contact your boy & make it official that its over
because thats what you should do in any relationship
break it off first
before you kiss etc with another
2007-03-15 13:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not cheating but you are keeping your options open seems as thou you need & want some loveing that your man not giveing you
2007-03-15 13:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by larry C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you married? If not, your not a cheater.
2007-03-15 13:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by DeAnna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not ...its modern man that turned a kiss into a bad thing..besides if it feels good do it.....
2007-03-15 13:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by amber j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋