shewant to be happy?

Question

My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years and the other day she said she wanted a break. She does not know if she loves me. I love her with all my heart. I work on a night crew so i do cherish the small amount of time we do have together. We were living together and she packed a travel bag to take with her to a relatives. We have already gone out on a date and she claimes she had a great time. But I can barley wait for her to come back. I miss her like i miss nothing else and all i want is for her to come home. What can i do to let her see that i am the one she loves. She has proved to me many times. But now she wants space. I have already started looking for other work so i can switch back to days. She has a very tight knit family so I know that there is not another man she is seeing. Thanks

She has always said that i please her and give her the best pleasure in bed . but for the past month the feeling of love has not been involved with her

I also dont want her to get the feeling that i am trying to buy her back. i know that she does not like it. Any help would be greatly appriciated

Answer 1

Give her some space, but not too much. Send her a special gift in the mail with a love letter. The gift has to have a deep, underlying meaning, though. It can't just be a common thing guys give to girls. Make the gift personal. Also, she might just be trying to figure out what she wants from the relationship. I know you said you guys were living together, but have you proposed to her? Strongly think about everything before doing this, but she might just be waiting for that. I know it got to the point where I started to doubt my relationship with my now fiance, because I didn't know if he saw it going anywhere further. Well, I hope this helps.

Answer 2

Give her something sweet and caring. She'll then understand that you really miss her and want her back.

Answer 3

Well id say there is someone else