lol i know this sounds harsh but when trying to make friends, if something about them bothers me or they say something that kind of hurts my feelings i just stop and dont pursue the friendship because i get turned off and hate them lol whats wrong with me?? am i too sensitive or something?
2007-03-15 12:09:15 · 16 answers · asked by Katelyn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not a narcissist im actually very modest and nice and thats prob why i get walked all over
2007-03-15 12:20:28 · update #1
Just keep in mind that everyone is going to have different opinions and likings. That is what makes a friendship so great, they can tell you or show you about things that you maybe would never have taken time to do. All because they are interested in it.
See the differences in other people as a good thing, you wouldn't want everyone to stop being friends with you if you disliked something they liked, it would be a very lonely place if we all thought the same things about everything.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 15:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Shultik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you just mean that you're turned off by some people and not really HATE them. But, I do know what you mean. Consider the possibility that you are too sensitive. Is that something you'd like to change. Maybe you could give some people a second chance. Being a little forgiving makes it easier to enjoy people. People will always let you down. Disappointments are everywhere. But if you never give anyone a chance, you may be skipping right past all of the worthwhile ones.
2007-03-15 12:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by newmistakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is like that, to a degree. Who would want to pursue a friendship with someone they don't ACTUALLY like deep down? Of course, some people are easier to like than others..while some just rub EVERYONE wrong. On the other hand, my dearest friend in the world hurts my feelings occasionally, only because we're such good friends that she can be honest with me even it does hurt and I know I've said some harsh things to her too. If you really like a person and know they share all (or most) of your interests, I'd give them a chance to grow on you...otherwise, look for friendship elsewhere.
2007-03-15 12:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do you have any friends at all? Can you keep them once you make them? If not, this is not a good sign. You could be hostile in general ('hate' is a strong word). Another distinct possibility is that you're narcissistic, which allows you to feel superior to everyone, and bored by most people. This can become a serious problem (look up narcissism on Wikipedia).
2007-03-15 12:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean...most of my friends I feel as if they turned there back on me like in the past 2 years and I kinda hate them on the inside but on the outside im just nice to them cause I don't wanna hurt them even though they did it to me (and don't even know that) but I am trying to change cause I don't wanna be like this and it does hurt to know that I hate my friends....AND I think that you should just try to look for the good in your friends and not the bad...and if they are harsh to you just try to let it go or talk to them
2007-03-15 12:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by jamiefear_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Wonder Too....PPL Are A Breed All Their Own...If You Find 1 True Friend In Your Life,You Did Well...Most PPL Have No Idea What A Being A Real Friend Means....
2007-03-15 12:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that. Yes we are too sensitive or so I've been told. We need to learn to take people for who and what they are. We aren't perfect so why should we expect them to be. I am working on this same problem right now. It is getting better for me. Good Luck
2007-03-15 12:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I don't know your situation completely,so it's hard to tell.It can be one of 2 things.You may have a social disorder...or you may just be a person that deserves better.I'm like that.I don't like to be friends with people that make me feel bad or if they don't stimulate my intellect or any of my other needs.You pick friends based on your inner needs,or at least you should.Unfortunately,people like you and I have bad luck with that.
2007-03-15 12:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I'M KINDA OF SENSITIVE TOO. I HAVE TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE BEFORE I CONSIDER THEM A FRIEND.I TRY AND GIVE THEM A CHANCE.I DO TELL PEOPLE WHEN THEY HURT MY FEELINGS AND I TRY TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHOM I HAVE THINGS IN COMMON WITH OR THEY DO ANNOY ME. I DON'T HATE PEOPLE I JUST STAY AWAY FROM THE MEAN ONES.SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE.
IT'S NICE TO HAVE SOME REALLY GOOD FRIENDS
GOOD LUCK!! I THINK YOU ARE JUST FINE.
2007-03-15 12:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by KAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks. You can't just go living life without someone to talk to. Suck it up and try to be friendly and don't take nothing anyone says to heart. "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." Or if I were you, talk **** back. It might make you feel better.
-Stacey
2007-03-15 12:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋