what do women cosider ok to happen between them and another man without it being cheating? example..can other men put their arms around them kiss them touch them in any manner and so forth. do they feel like as long as it isn't actual intercourse it's not cheating? how often does this normally happen?
2007-03-15 13:24:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that cheating isn't just about being extra friendly, kissing, touching or having sex with someone else. if the woman finds out her man is developing feelings for other women and the man doesn't open up that mind confusion to her then it's cheating. cheating is when you develop either strong feelings or attraction for someone that is not your partner. aside that, if you have female friends and act with them as if you would act with a guy, then it's normal.
2007-03-15 14:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Helo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee (Helo M above) considers anything that isn't just friendship-related to be cheating and I have to agree.
Even THINKING about another person in a "romantic" way is cheating if you are already in a relationship with someone.
I think a friendly hug is fine, or a greeting kiss on the cheek as is customary in countries like Brasil..... but if it's more than that it's wrong. I think that anything that can be interpretted as a romantic gesture can be considered cheating.
That is my personal opinion, but everyone has different views on cheating... some people think kissing is alright as long as it's just a friendly kiss & no tongue..... I think a good guideline to follow is if you are doing something with a person that, if your boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancee/spouse walks in & sees you they would be extremely offended then it is cheating. If you're doing something with a person & you think "this is wrong, i shouldn't be doing this" it's cheating.
2007-03-16 02:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider a kiss cheating, unless you go back to the same person on multiple occasions.
I think men can put their arms around girls but touching in a sexual manner is cheating if it's consensual of course.
2007-03-15 13:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe a girl considers cheating because that is what her man is doing or maybe they found somebody else that they like but they also like the guy they are with. Myself i hate cheaters i just can't stand them. I not going to cheat on my BF when I finally find him. If the guy cheats on me then we are through.
2007-03-15 14:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lebanah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The women I have known think cheating is when you are definitely coming in physical contact with another girl. Usually it starts out with holding hands and they'll assume that it's cheating. The rest is history, but holding hands is usually where I have heard that it starts.
2007-03-15 13:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that as long there is no physical contact besides a hug then its not cheating. Now if they are talking dirty to each other thats cheating too. Thats what I call emotional cheating. hehe. Dump her!!!
2007-03-15 14:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would consider it not cheating, but on the same token a little to "touchie-feelie". I, myself would not put up with that. But we are all not perfect, so at least give them the benifit of the doubt. And try to ask them open ended questions at the same time.
2007-03-15 13:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by miss 916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cheating if you have intercourse. when you touch them without intercourse, when you hold them, lust over them, hold their hand, it is cheating if you even give the women a friendly kiss a night. if it will make your gf jealous and can effect your relationship with her then to her its cheating!
2007-03-15 13:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by mary m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your in a relationship and another man touch me inaproply or kisses me on the lips yes i call it cheating. i don't care how much they say they are close. its called respect and she should explain to her male friend that he can't do that and if it's a stranger she needs to put him in check.
2007-03-15 13:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as a woman who is in a relationship lusts or covets someone else she is cheating. it's like though you aren't having sex with that person if he asked you to you would.
2007-03-15 13:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by N E G R O P L E A S E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋