Other - Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

he is smart...he is faithful....he is handsome...he is sweet...
he is my heart....well you get the picture...but the problem is I am over weight and depressed, I hate myself!
CAN'T LOVE SOMEONE IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF...IS THAT TRUE OR NOT...DID I DO THE RIGHT THING?

2007-02-13 10:14:53 · 37 answers · asked by La'Grange 4

yeah, she said she didn't want to be my mother anymore because i was not appreciative of her. we never live together for many years and i never enjoyed living at her home when young child. i was raised by my grandparents but they are dead now. Now my only living relative disowned me....
should I just ignore her and live my life ?
or beg for her forgiveness ?

2007-02-13 10:10:01 · 16 answers · asked by 21 5

Ok guys.. been with this girl for 9 years.. basically we've been having trust issues. Never ever in the relationship have I had trust issues before. Recently, she's been deleting text messages, calls, and e-mails, from a guy she says is trying to help her get on the police department.

I've confronted her many, many times, asking all kinds of questions. She assures me nothing is going on, and if she wanted to be with him then she would.

However, she still deletes her calls and messages, and I just don't know anymore. After 9 years, I've given her a lot of trust, I am not controlling but this has been really killin me lately.

So my question, I've confronted her about her maybe cheating... she assures me but I still don't feel right about it.. it's like nothing will be normal again. What should I do now?? Since I already confronted her

2007-02-13 10:06:21 · 3 answers · asked by mike d 1

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2007-02-13 09:59:25 · 2 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

Why does this happen?

I was completely head over heels for my boyfriend about 2 months ago and now I feel like I dont love him like I am supposed to any more....is there any way to fix this?

2007-02-13 09:59:16 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

wut would make ur v-day perfect???

2007-02-13 09:53:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-13 09:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by alyelgarhy 1

I was just wondering. I can cook a little (im 18) but some of my friends tell me that i have to be able to cook better so my husband wont leave me. what do u guys think?

2007-02-13 09:27:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam just wondering if that success as i have already finished my degree in the univ which was my only place to socialize . As iam living in anew area for the reason of my study (which already finished) i suffer of being alone and because it takes time to have ajob i go clubbing by my own . I just think whether its gonna work chatting to girls and get to know them or you think its ODD . i just wanna say there no way i could get new friends at the moment as iam not working at the present. On the other hand iam in need for girls for friendship

2007-02-13 09:24:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-13 09:24:39 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan M 2

Ok here I go, Me I'm 35, she's 28, we've been involved for nine years married for 5! We have three kids together ages 2, 7, and 8, boy, boy, and girl! I must admit i spoiled her in the begining, but now nine years later she has become controlling, i can't go anywhere! I work and she hasn't since our second year together, but has taken care of home, but i wash, cook, and clean also, today is our five year marriage anniversary, but i have grown into someone else and she has grown into someone else, we hae good MOMENTS but most are bad now, but i wanna be fair! the spark is gone, were both sexual freaks, but we can't freak each other, now she wants to make me get rid of my tonge ring! What shall I do

2007-02-13 09:24:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hear my stepmom talk to one of her friends about me critising me, how i act daily, how i spend too much time on comp and how i dont spend with her although she tried and so on. Does this means she dont like me/ love me? Should i tell her that i heared this convo ?

2007-02-13 09:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by ReAdInG tHiS wAsTeS 5 SeCoNdS oF yOuR pReCiOuS LiFe 1

and i mean awesome.

2007-02-13 09:08:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister's boyfriend beat her up a few weeks ago (and hit her friend that was at their house), and he was in jail until today when he went to court. They charged him with two assaults, drunk under age, violation of previous probation, and violation of a protective order (she got a protective order that night and he called her from jail).

They gave him time served for the 3 weeks he's been in jail, and let him go. Now she's scared (and I am too) that he will come find her. She is hiding. She won't go to work. She won't come to my house because she is afraid he will come here looking for her.

Does anyone have any advice?

What do we have to do to get people to stop hitting their spouses?

Why did he get off scott free for all those charges?

Does anyone know how I can find out more details about the court case he had today?

Thanks in advance for any info you can help with.

2007-02-13 09:04:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my 48 yr old husband last nite wer sharing our secrets.....and he confessed before we wer maried....he sucked his thumb until he was 38.....and sleped wif a teddy until he was 42.....played with lego till he was 41.....and that he was breastfeed until he was 8....and was a constant bedwetter and had 2 wer diapers until he was 31......

i thought this was funny, luckily he i all over these things now..

but i was wondering how common r all these things at a late age...and do males seem to grow up later and mature later than woman???

2007-02-13 09:00:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Generally I kiss with my eyes closed, but every once in a while I like to open them, just to see how my boyfriend is reacting. I don't sit there and stare at him, I just like to watch him and observe the way he goes about his business. Is that overly weird? I know every once in a while I catch him doing the same thing, so I don't think he minds. But I just wanted to get everyone else's opinions.

2007-02-13 08:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by vipresschick06 1

2007-02-13 08:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I may go to Florida this coming summer and looking forward to it.
I would love to live somewhere warm. I Love the sun and the heat.
Oh well grin and bear it I guess. Take Care and if you live somewhere cold, keep warm.

2007-02-13 08:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by art_girlt 3

I recently broke up with my boyfriend.Like a week ago and now he has been acting like a jerk to me lately like he insults me he is always pulling jokes on me in front of everyone.Sometimes he will knock me elbow me or push me into walls and into other people. Why is this???????

2007-02-13 08:46:36 · 16 answers · asked by Applekisses11 3

It's the annerversary of my mums death on the 17th February, it will be 7 years since she died. I have been trying to think of a special way i can make a tribute to her as she has no grave her ashes were scattered in the garden of rest miles away and i'm not sure where as i never saw the burial, and i was only 11 yrs old when she died so i didnt have much understanding but now i just wanna make a nice tribute to her even tho i cant go to her final resting place as no one knows where it is????? Can someone give me some ideas?????

2007-02-13 08:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend recently discussed our sex life with his roommate and asked if he(the roommate) had ever heard anything. My boyfriend told me this thinking it would make me feel better knowing that his roommate can't hear us, but know I feel uncomfortable going over to his place and seeing his roommate knowing that he knows what he knows. Anyone have any advice that might help me?? Really any advice would help greatly!

2007-02-13 08:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is always wanting to keep me in the bed, He workdks from home and i work outside the home . Sometime he makes me head trip . Thinking he has someone here . An if i dont give him none he starts making me think he is getting else were .He will throw a fit if i dont give him any what should i do , He is making me tired and I have everyday life to do .

2007-02-13 08:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by tfrazee71 1

i was just wanderin if sex hurts the first time im 14 and am thinking about it but i dont know how much pain i 'll have to go thur how bad does it hurt and should i do it @ my age?

2007-02-13 08:15:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

and did some other things now im not ususally that kinda person now i feel kinda diffrent towards him like somethings changed not in a bad way just a little uneasy in a way i cant really describe it why am i feeling like this i dont know what to say to him im just kinda off bye my self i dont want him thinking he did anything wrong its just new for me so please serious answers only!! thanks

2007-02-13 08:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by cinerella19772 2

What do you guys think? Two co workers (me and another lady) worked together and got along good. Had a lot in common and went to lunch every chance we had. Talked about all things from work, job, family etc. Just like good friends. We never hung out outside of work. She's 4 years younger, married, 2 boys 10 and 13? i think. I'm married and have two girls, 4 and 9mos.
I got a new higher paying position which I had to move one floor down. She expressed sadness when I was moving to my new position. I told her we can still talk and lunch together. Turns out, of all the emails i sent about going to lunch (probably about 10) she answered 1 or 2 but then stated she couldn't make it. She doesn't answer my email, doesn't answer my phone calls. When i did see her face to face, I jokingly asked what's up , how come she doesn't answer email or take my calls. Her answer, She's too busy , forgot to open her outlook email. What a joke. Can anyone explain her behavoir?

2007-02-13 08:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by UNKNOWN 1

I have been dating my boyfriend now for about 5 months and the first 3 months were great. Actually they were out of this world. I could see my future with him stretching into the distant. This has been my 1st non dramatic relationship and the infatuation stage has just ended. My last ex was a real "winner" NOT. He was a loser, lost his job as a police officer, abused me, got caught for DUI. A whole pile of crap. All in all I dated him for about a year and I know I was in love with him at the beginning but had to get myself out of his mess and move on with my life. I took a year for myself and just dated here and there, nothing serious. Then I met my now boyfriend and we clicked but I feel like I loved my ex more than I love my current boyfriend for some reason. I feel like something is missing in our relationship and I want to spend my life with him cause he is such a nice guy BUT I want my feelings to get stronger cause I dont want to love my ex more....

Can we make it work even though I dont feel those butterfly/crazy feelings?

2007-02-13 07:55:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-13 07:53:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend seems to act a little bit too friendly if you know what i mean. When we were supposed to get into groups for a lab, I decided to go work with someone else instead of her and someone else, since i always work with them, because usually we kinda fuss. We'd always be fussing about something, but not in a bad way. She started pouting and saying no when that happened. When we would stand in little groups to talk, she would always be looking at me and facing me, even though i wasn't talking and there was other people in the group, and sometimes she'd check me out and keep lookin at my boobs. Sometime when we were standing around, she'd get pretty close to me, with her hair touching my arm, since she's shorter than me. She'd touch my arm when talking to me sometimes. One day, she was walking in the hall in front of me, and turned around for no reason and smiled at me, then kept walking. I'm not making any of this up. It's happened over the course of this school year.

2007-02-13 07:48:13 · 1 answers · asked by sweetchick 1

What can you do without having to give them your name?

2007-02-13 07:45:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mystee_Rain 5

When you have a deep passion for something or someone but it is never going to happen or has no hope now, how do you accept it?
Everything you want, but it is out of your reach. And trying to get it could cause greater problems.
How do you accept and move on?

2007-02-13 07:43:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous